Kodi yambitsa "lamulo la kukopa": 5 Zinsinsi

Ndithudi inu mwamva kwambiri malangizo a mmene kulenga moyo wa maloto anu. Inu mukudziwa kwambiri za momwe zolinga, ndi kuti ndi zowonera. Zikuoneka kuti palibe kosavuta: kulenga loto, longoganizira ndipo tsopano zinthu zonse adzapita ndinkakhumba sewero lanu. Koma pamene choncho akulowa Chilamulo cha Chidwi, pali pang'ono kuti athe kuona m'maganizo mwanu cholinga. Zochita izi sikuti ntchito.

Sikokwanira kwa variable wina

Mu aone kuti pali ichi, zikubweretsa moyo wangwiro, sadziwa zosintha umodzi kapena kuposerapo. Mukhoza umasinthasintha udzakhalire anu bwino, munagulira kwambiri nthawi ndi khama, koma adzakhalabe stagnate. Kuti yambitsa mphamvu ya Chilamulo cha Chidwi ndi kuzindikira loto lake, chifukwa ayenera kuthandizapo chifungulo imodzi yokhalira ofiira muyenera kuphunzira mmene cigawo ku moyo. Tikuyankhula zokhudza zochita. Anthu akale anati: "madzi si ikuyenda pansi ndi mwala wotsekera". Ndipo bwino chikusonyeza mutu yatsopano.

Phunzirani mmene kuchitapo kanthu

Kamodzi inu mwachita yofunika ntchito mkati ndi kukafika ku yankho onse a mafunso ofunika kwambiri, mulibe mukufuna, icho tsopano n'kofunika kuphunzira mmene kanthu. Ndikuganiza ndi kulingalira njira zonse pamapeto pake zothandizira kuti masomphenya chenicheni. Kumene, zowonera ndi ntchito mkati komanso ofunika kwambiri banja lanu. Palibe zodabwitsa iwo amanena kuti nthawi imene ulendo mkati nokha Matanthawuzo maola asanu ndi awiri a kanthu mu dziko kunja. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kunyalanyaza kanthu wonse.

Kupanga zibwerere

Koma anthu ambiri kuganizira kwambiri za ntchito mkati. Koma kuthera nthawi wapatali pochita zinthu zikuyenda bwino, inu akhoza kuchotsa zinthu zamtengo wapatali zochokera kwa kanthu. Kukhazikitsa njira yeniyeni si zofunika tsopano ali kulenga patsogolo zamphamvu zimene idzagwira limagwirira lonse kanthu. Ngati mukufuna bwino chenicheni, muyenera kupeza bwino pakati maulendo mkati ndi kunja. Uthenga wabwino kwa inu ndi kamodzi muyamba kuchita zinthu konkire n'cholinga, mudzatha kuti yambitsa lamulo la kukopa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti apeze patsogolo kuti adzalola kuti zingathandize kwambiri ndi zambiri mofulumira. Musanayambe masitepe asanu yeniyeni mukhoza kuyamba kutenga lero.

1. Khalani dongosolo njira ya kanthu

Ambiri a ife kale ntchito ndandanda wa zinthu muyenera kuchita ndi nthaŵi. Komabe, zinthu pa mndandanda angakhale ambiri kapena makonzedwe. Kunyamula magalimoto loto lanu, mumayesa akhazikitsa mndandanda mwatsatanetsatane kumene khwerero liri adzatha. Choncho, patsogolo pa njira iyi zaminga chophweka kwambiri. Pankhaniyi, inu dzipulumutse ku tikungotaya nthawi maganizo superfluous - zonse bwino anaika pa pepala. Konzani zochita, kukakomana ndi nkhani ya zochitika zadzidzidzi. Kupereka njira iliyonse mwalamulo. Izo ndiye kuthana ndi vuto zovuta msanga.

2 Pendani zinachitikira ena

Chilamulo cha Chidwi wakhala bwinobwino ntchito mchitidwe. Ndicho chifukwa safuna kuti reinvent gudumu. Ngati simuli wotsimikiza za masitepe anakusankhani kutsatira anthu amene zapita zimenezi kuchokera pachiyambi mpaka pamapeto. Mu wake tikupita chitsogolo, anasiya zambiri nsonga kwa oyamba. Pomaliza, njira bwino adamupondera kupita sizivuta. Kuchepetsa kuphunzira pamapindikira ndi Polyubopytstvuyte za akapolo anzawo akale. Werengani buku anzeru anthu, kupeza Internet zothandiza mavidiyo, pitani unakonzedwa kapena webinar. Kupeza munthu amene amadziwa mmene lamulo kukopeka, mukhoza kupempha msonkhano munthu. Choncho, mudzatha kusonkhanitsa maulalo onse akusowa mu unyolo.

3. Gwiritsani ulamuliro wa "5"

Mumadziwika awathandize bwinobwino Ron Scholastica amauza nzeru zake: "Ngati inu abwera tsiku lirilonse kuti mtengo waukulu kwambiri, kutola alili asanu ndi nkhwangwa lakuthwa, ziribe kanthu momwe chachikulu mtengo anali, pamapeto mbiya ndi linapendekeka pansi." Ndimo momwe ife tikubwera kwa "5" ulamuliro, kutanthauza kuti tsiku lililonse muli kuchita zinthu konkire zisanu zimene zimalimbikitsa kuti cholinga. lamulo ili ndi mogwira mtima, kuti zotsatira sanayembekezere yaitali.

4. kuikirapo ena

Ngati inu chizoloŵezi chowonjezera nthawi yochuluka pa ntchito ya ntchito mkati, muyenera kukoka nokha. Palibe zikugwirizana kwa dziko lakunja monga kulankhulana ndi anthu ena. Koma adzachita inu zabwino, kuphatikiza malonda ndi zosangalatsa. Funsani bwenzi kapena mnzake kuti mnzanuyo mlandu. Kutenga kudzipereka zingapo kwa munthu ameneyo. Mnzanga sadzalola inu zimitsani zimene wasankha ndi kuchitira zinthu monga chitsimikizo cha patsogolo olowa kwa cholinga. Pangani chizolowezi wina zothandiza: kugawana kudzipereka ndiyeno nkumadzitcha wa tsiku ndi mnzake ndi lipoti pa ntchito yawo.

Kukachitika kuti mulibe kutembenukira kwa akafunsiridwa zimenezi, kupeza mphunzitsi akatswiri. Izi kuwonjezera malire a udindo wanu, ndi kukuthandizani kufufuza zina mwayi.

5. Kuthetsa zikhulupiriro zoipa

Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti zibwezeletsera kupambana kwawo. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zambiri ife kuuzira tokha Kulephela kugwila kuchita makamaka ndi kuvomereza mphamvu zathu. Pofuna kulimbikitsa Inde anasankha, muyenera kupeza ndi n'chongoletsa zikhulupiriro zonse negative. Chenjerani ndi kugwiritsira ntchito maganizo ndi mawu akuti: "Ine ndine nzeru zokwanira", "Ndilibe nthawi ino," "maphunziro anga pankhaniyi masamba kwambiri wolakalakika". Kuti tisakhale zikhulupiriro ochokera kwa maganizo, muyenera. Khalani okonzeka chakuti amasulidwe maganizo olakwika angathe kukhala osati amayesetsa choyamba. Mu nkhani ya kulephera, ntchito zolimbitsa thupi owonjezera, kapena tsenga. Mwachitsanzo, mungathe kuika amasangalatsa anu kompyuta chizindikiro ang'ono ndi mawu "Kodi izo mulimonse!"