Osatsimikiza za khalidwe la munthu

Odziwika chodabwitsa cha "mayi" achiyuda amene amalambira mu mwana thewera wanu ndi mwana Mzimu: "Izzy, ndinu wanzeru". Ngati mphunzitsiyo zoipa za mwana wake, iye anati: "Izzy! Ife apa sindikumvetsa. Tipite ku sukulu ina. " Chirasha kumaliza: "Yohane, ndiwe wopusa." Kulera ana nashkodivshego mphaka: "Musapite, musati kufuula zoyipa, kodi ndikupha kotero mafuta wapathengo Pitani kusewera mpira!?!" Ndiyeno iwo amadabwa chifukwa pakati pa asayansi, akatswiri a zojambulajambula, osunga ndalama ndi osewera monga Ayuda. Chinsinsi ndi losavuta: kukula anthu chikhulupiriro monga zotsatira chilengedwe cha maphunziro mwaulemu. Kusowa chitetezo mapulaniwo zolakwa maphunziro.

The mwana amatsanzira zochita njakata, makolo njakata zochitika moyo. zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi pamaso maganizo ake sangathe pokonza mfundo ukubwera ndi yovuta. Mwachindunji kapena mozungulira zoipa maganizo, zikhulupiriro, maganizo atsankho, olakwika ndi olakwika a makolo kuganiza tikulephera kukayikakayika kugwa kwake mwachindunji mu chikumbumtima mwanayo. Kuyambira lero njakata zinyalala kwaiye zapamwamba maluwa - dongosolo lawo maganizo za moyo. Direct zoipa lingaliro - mawu monga, "mulibe oyenera ili, 'osati Senka kapu", "inu sadzatero", "safuna ngakhale," "komwe inu", "adzakhala moyo kusewera wopusa ndipo khoma zophatikiza ". Sitipereka chowawa malingaliro, "ngakhale kodi inu ntchito kuti sakukondedwa akufa" (silinatchulidwe malingaliro: "Simudzafunsidwa ntchito yabwino," "mukhoza amafa ndi njala"), "inu nthawi zina, koma mwamuna wake" (silinatchulidwe malingaliro: "ndiwe - yonyansa", "simupeza mwamuna wabwino"), ndi zina mawu sioneka mu mzimu womwewo. M'mawu ena, kusamvetsa si titadziwa khalidwe. Kukayikakayika - mankhwala a socialization.

Ndipo tsopano, cholengedwa diffident anachita dziko wamkulu. Koma kukwaniritsa cholinga , kuti sangakhoze chifukwa chosowa chikhulupiriro mwa iwo okha. Kuyambira ali mwana, iwo anamva kuti zochita zake zonse silingayende bwino. Kupereka nokha pang'ono munthu, kachilombo, izo overstates amati wa dziko kunja. Mwachitsanzo, cholinga ndi kupita ku yunivesite pamaso pake. Sindikhulupirira maluso awo, pa dzanja limodzi, ndi kuopa mphamvu ya University, Komano, imagwera mu stupor, kuti anadabwira. Kunja tanthauzo yunivesite chikuonetseratu ndi yosasangalatsa kudikira, ndipo mkati wodzazidwa ndi kufunika chosowa chikhulupiriro mu nzeru zawo. Ophatikizidwa, iwo kukhala osatetezeka. mphamvu zonse zipita nkhawa, nkhawa ndi mantha. Pa mayeso mphamvu chikhalire.

Kukayikakayika - ndi chidaliro, kuchepetsedwa ndi mantha ndi kulemekeza kwambiri tanthauzo la dziko kunja. Kukayikakayika anabweretsa moyo ndi zinthu ziwiri zikuluzikulu: mkati - ndi kunja mantha - ulemu kunja, kudziŵerengera kopambanitsa zinthu ndi zochitika za dziko loyandikira (kufunika). Kukayikakayika zinapatsira ndi mantha. Mwachitsanzo, munthu mantha kusambira (mantha), akuganiza kuti iye analephera (njakata). Kapena chitsanzo china: munthu akufuna miyendo madzulo, koma amamva osatetezeka chifukwa cha milandu ya kupezerera mu distilikiti. Atamva kuti apolisi m'boma woyenda misewu, mantha anali atapita, ndi kuti kumachitika.

Aliyense akukumana nkhawa ndi kusapeza, kukhala kunja dera yamtunduwu ake. Mwachitsanzo, oligarch mwakayakaya Pet galu. ufulu Wake "agwedeza chidaliro." Chikhulupiriro, ndithudi, osati kufufuza ndi anakhalabe. Panali mantha ndiponso nkhawa. Iye anakwera zone chipwirikiti njakata. Ndipo tsopano iye ali vetenale bwino. A vetenale - njakata m'zochitika ndalama munthu, koma katswiri woona ntchito yawo. Choncho likukhalira: mu zachuma owona zanyama akuona osatetezeka poyerekeza ndi oligarch ndi oligarch akuona osatetezeka a zachipatala, kumene vetenale akuona chikhulupiriro.

Kukayikakayika - ndi chidaliro ndi chizindikiro zosiyana. Chiyembekezo, izo zimatengera osati mantha, komanso zinthu zina komanso zochitika. Tikuyesetsa kutsimikizira ndekha ndi dziko zofunika zawo. Pamafunika gawo la mikango mphamvu zathu. Mukasiya kufuna tulutsani ndi kutsimikizira kwa aliyense kuti ndinu wabwino ndi ofunika, ndipo mwakachetechete ikukhudzana bwanji ndi kufunika kwake, ozungulira involuntarily kumva izo. Lanu kudzidalira ndi wodzikuza adzakhala wofanana ndi zochita za ena. tanthauzo ena chimodzi kuzindikira kufunika wanu.

Kwa munthu osatetezeka, mwachitsanzo, munthu kusadzidalira, ngati lupanga la Damocles chagona kufunika onse akunja. Zinthu zanyanyira ngati izi wosakaniza ndi ngakhale mlandu. Popeza osatetezeka ubwana wakudya amadziimba mlandu ndi kumawakoka iye pamodzi monga otsimikiza retsedivist. Choncho kumverera achabechabe, wamng'ono ndi kusayenera. Woterowo katundu moyo umapitilira aulesi, wokayikakayika ndi mediocre. Pa nthawi yomweyo, mlandu nkhosa ngati ntchentche mu zinyalala, ndi manipulators. Kuimba mlandu, iwo kukakamiza inu kulungamitsa ndi kutsimikizira chinachake. Mutaye mphamvu ndi kukula njakata awo, ndipo iwo amati okha ndalama zanu. Kudziikira kumbuyo kwa ena, musachite.

Uzani nokha: "Ine ndi ufulu kukhala nokha: kukondwera ndi chisoni, mukulimbana, kuti" cholakwika "mawu a zochita zina kuteteza, ngati ine kukhumudwitsa ena. Ine ali ndi ufulu kukhala ndi kufotokoza maganizo awo, zoganiza ndi malingaliro ndi kulungamitsa ndi kupepesa. Ndiri ndi ufulu kukhazikitsa zofunika komanso kukhala yekha, ngakhale kuti maganizo a ena. Kunena kuti "ayi" chisoni wolakwa. "

Palibe ali ndi udindo woweruza inu. Tumizani manipulators kunyumba. Kumbukirani, kufunika anu bwalo la milandu komaliza. Njira yokhayo yomwe mungagonjetsere tichotse kupwetekedwa mlandu. M'mawu ena, kutha kwa nkhondo kufunika awo ndi kutaya mtima wofuna zifukwa mwaganiza mafunso ofunika mkati. Chabe, ndipo anawonetseredwa mu njira ziwiri: nkhawa ndi wosafunika ndi mphamvu ya kupalamula.

Mulibe chilichonse aliyense, ndi aliyense ndiribe ngongole chilichonse. Mumakonda banja lanu. Amasamala za kukhudzidwa kwake. Kukakamiza ndiponso kukhulupirira - kusiyana akuluakulu awiri. chikhulupiriro palibe udindo komanso kukakamiza. Onse amene zopha malire anu, nenani, "Ine ndiribe mngelo. anthu onse si tchimo. Ndilibe kukumana zoyembezereka za ena, kugwetsera mitsempha ndi nsembe cha iwo Ine ndi ena. "

Kuwonjezera pa mkati, muyenera akadali atamaliza kufunika kunja, omwe amasonyeza kumachitika ndi kuvuta mavuto. Mawu akuti "Izo nthawizonse bwino uko, kumene palibe ife," monga mwa zino. Wopanda kwa kufunikira kwa zinthu za mdziko. Izi zimapangitsa m'chikaiko chowakaikitsa ndi nkhawa. Mwachitsanzo, mukufuna kupeza ntchito, koma osaganizira nokha woyenera malo wolakalakika - odzikayikira zimapangitsa lokha anamva. Nkhondo malo - iyi si njira zanu ndi kalembedwe khalidwe. Mudzaona nkhawa ndipo mopitiriza Wopanda maganizo. maganizo awa adzatenga mphamvu zonse. Ngati chikumbumtima bwererani kwa aura ya kufunika kwa malo anakhumba ndi kuzindikira kuti si milungu miphika, ayenera utenge udindo uwu. Iwo likukhalira kuti tikwaniritse udindo umene inu kwathunthu kukumana, kunali kofunika okha kuchepetsa kufunika positi. Mphamvu zimene poyamba anali ntchito pa chifundo kuona wosafunika awo, ndipo tsopano ukupita kuti ulaliki unobtrusive kwa bwana makhalidwe awo abwino.

Ngakhale nyama auŵakhe pa kukokomeza tanthauzo la zinthu za mdziko kunja. Pa TV, ife kuwauza nkhani ya stallion thoroughbred, zimene sakanatha wophatikizidwa ndi Mare lapansi. Atam'peza atsala pang'ono wokongola kwambiri, ndipo nthawi iliyonse stallion kupereka kwa iwo. Kenako doko anamvetsa. Iye topaka matope wokongola Mayi ndi stallion moyo izo anakwera. Mochenjera ndi kukongola kwa stallion manyazi, koma pamene izo topaka, topaka matope, iye anazindikira kuti iye anali zawonjezeka kapena bwino. Anthu kawirikawiri kulankhula za mmene mahatchi.

Nthawi zambiri munthu osatetezeka kufuna kutsimikizira wodzikuza kwa dziko lakunja ndi khalidwe boorish ndi odzikuza. Kuti zimenezi zitheke, iye akhoza manyazi ena, kuchita zinthu azitengapo. Boors ndi achipongwe - ndi anthu osatetezeka. Kuti mwanjira ina amanena yekha, kutsimikizira okha ofunika, iwo ayamba kusonyeza khalidwe chipongwe.

Pankhani kumachitika: ndi mawu mu malo osakhazikika ndipo alibe mfundo zonse za zimene zidzachitike m'tsogolo, tiyenera mwanjira kusamalira mavuto. Sitisoŵa zenizeni za nkhaniyi, ndi kusamvetsa choonadi ichi. Kwenikweni sangakhoze anatha. Tengani malo a malonda kapena ndalama. Business - ndi chiopsezo. Ngati ife sititenga vutoli, ndiye ife sitikudziwa kupeza chilichonse. Amene alibe pachiswe, kuti, monga ife tikudziwira, si kumwa shampeni mu ndende si atakhala. Muyenera osabanikira njakata monga kwa givens mosalephera. Ife tonse tiri mu zinthu zofanana yemweyo bwato moyo. Waukulu dontho kufunika, ndi njakata idzapita.