Kunyada - ndi chiyani? Mawu ofanana ndi kunyada ndi zopanda pake?

Posakhalitsa, aliyense amafunsa chomwe chiri kudzikuza, chomwe chimatanthauza ndi chabwino kapena choipa.

Kudzikuza muzinenero zofotokozera

Poyang'ana dikishonale yofotokozera ya Chirasha, mawu akuti kudzikuza amatanthauzira munthu wodzikuza, wodzidalira ndi wodzikweza. Dikishonale ya Efraimu ikutanthauzira izo ndi monga chuma cha munthu wodzikuza, wodzikweza. Malingana ndi Ushakov, kudzikuza kumawoneka ngati mgwirizano ndi zowona za munthu wodzitamandira ndi wodzitama.

Inde, iwo omwe ali mu kufufuza kwauzimu, ndi anthu ambiri a mawonekedwe apamwamba, ayenera kusankha pa kuvomereza kwa kukhala odzikuza mu khalidwe. Ngati mukuganiza kuti khalidweli ndi lovomerezeka, mwina, sikungapweteke kusankha momwe zingaloledwe. Kuti muchite izi, nkofunika kupereka ndondomeko yoyenera ya mawu akuti "kudzikuza". Zomwe khalidwe ili likhoza kubweretsa moyo wa munthu, ndipo zomwe zingathe kumuchotsa mwini wake, zimatsimikiziridwa makamaka ndi msinkhu wa uzimu wa munthu aliyense. Zimadziwika kuti anthu amzimu ndi omwe amawona zofunikira kupyolera mu zochitika zapadera ndipo samapereka njira zowopsya. Munthu wa mtundu uwu akhoza kudzitamandira chifukwa chodzikuza kwambiri ndi zopanda pake mwa iyemwini, osati kungokwanitsa, koma safuna.

Kunyada ndi Chikhristu

Kudzikuza - nchiyani ichi kwa Mkhristu? Kwa ovomerezeka a chipembedzo ichi - ichi ndi choipa chosatha. Amene awerenga Baibulo kamodzi m'miyoyo yawo sakanatha kuzindikira kuti makhalidwe monga zopanda pake, kunyada ndi kudzikweza nthawi zonse zimatsutsana ndi kudzichepetsa, kumvera ndi kukhululukira. Chosowa chomwe chiri chodziwika mwa munthu wodzikuza, malingana ndi Chipangano Chakale ndi Chatsopano, chimatsogolera ku zoopsa ndi kugwa. M'Baibulo, nthawi zambiri zimatha kupeza njira zoterezi zomwe zimatanthauzira kudzikweza kwa mtima monga chinyengo chobweretsa chiphuphu ndi imfa. Ngati titembenukira ku zolemba za makolo oyera a tchalitchi, onse amalingalira za khalidwe ili loipa, lomwe limasokoneza mtima wamtendere ndipo limapangitsa moyo kukhala wosokonezeka, komanso umene umayenera kulimbana nawo mwakhama. Pachifukwa ichi, munthu ayenera kulankhula za kudzikuza mu Chikhristu, koma mkati mwakutanthauzira kwa chimodzi mwa zikuluzikulu za chikhulupiliro - Malemba Opatulika.

Kudzikuza mu mabuku owerengeka

F. Dostoevsky, yemwe anali munthu wachipembedzo kwambiri, Orthodox, adalongosola khalidwe ili mwachikhalidwe: "Kudzikuza kumapangitsa iye kukhala wansangala, wanyengerera - kudzikweza." Komabe, mu zolemba zapamwamba mawu akuti "kudzikweza" satchulidwa nthawi zonse ngati katundu wa munthu wosanyalanyaza ena ndi zopanda pake. Mwachitsanzo, chithunzi cha mtsikana wa Turgenev: "Ndiwe wodzikuza, wofatsa komanso wangwiro." Ndikutanthauza kuti tanthauzo la mawu akuti "kudzikweza" likuwoneka zomveka. Koma panthawi yomweyi, ndi munthu amene amati ndiye kuti malo oterewa ndi ololedwa komanso osakhumudwitsa ena.

Kunyada - ndi chiyani? Ufulu wa zamakono?

Mtundu uwu ukhoza kudziwonetsera wokha m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Mukhoza kulankhula ndi kudzikweza, kuyesa kusonyeza kuti ali apamwamba pa interlocutor. Mungathe kukhala odzikuza opanda mawu, mwachitsanzo, kusankha njira zamakhalidwe kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mawonekedwe kapena maonekedwe. Kudzikuza n'kofunika, osati kukhudzana ndi kudzikweza komanso kunyada, komanso ndi malingaliro monga kudzikuza, kutchuka, kudzikuza, kugwidwa ndi mkwiyo. Kaya ndi kofunika kuti tikhale ndi khalidwe losamvetsetsana mwa inu nokha ndipo ngati kuli koyenera kulola kuti likhale ndi malo apamwamba pakupanga kwake, munthu aliyense wodziwa bwino ayenera kudzipangira yekha. Kudzikuza ndi koipa, koma kudziwa kuti ndikofunika - ndi zabwino!