Zilombo zam'mimba: Mmene Mungadziwire Zaka ndi Gender

Kwa karoti kakang'ono, karoti ndi abwino kwambiri. Chiweto chabwino chidzakhala wamkulu mu khola ndi wogwidwa muzithunzi zojambulidwa. Ogulitsa odalirika kwambiri a mbalame zoterozo adzakhala akatswiri obereketsa kapena okonda kukhala ndi mbiri yabwino kwambiri. Masiku ano, kusankha kwa ambiri ndi mapulotoni a wavy. Momwe mungadziwire zaka ndi kugonana kwa mbalame zotere, tidzakambirana zambiri.

Mtengo wakhala wakhalapo ndipo udzakhala umodzi wa zinthu zofunika kwambiri pakupanga kugula kulikonse. Posankha mbalame, ziyenera kukumbukiridwa kuti ziphuphu za avy, zomwe zaka zawo zimakhudza kwambiri mtengo, zimataya mwayi wophunzira pambuyo pa zaka zingapo. N'chifukwa chake mtengo wawo umagwera nthawi. Kuwonjezera apo, ndalama zawo zimasiyanasiyana, malingana ndi ngati mbalame ikhoza kuyankhula, imaipitsa izo ndi momwe zimakhalira pakati pa anthu. Nthawi zonse ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi mantha mukamamva mtengo wotsika kwambiri. Mwinamwake, wogulitsa wonyenga akufuna kugulitsa chinthu chopanda kanthu. Nthawi zonse mumayenera kudziwa momwe mungayang'anire mapeyala a zinyama, momwe mungazindikire zaka ndi kugonana kwa mbalamezi, momwe mungayang'anire mawu awo. Ngati pali ziphuphu pazofunikira zofunika kusankha mbalame, ndiye kuti nthawi zonse n'zotheka kugwiritsa ntchito ntchito za akatswiri. Mu mzinda uliwonse mungapeze gulu la okonda mbalame, omwe mamembala awo adzakondwera kuthandizira posankha chinyama kapena kuyambitsa okhulupirira omwe ali odalirika.

Mukapeza pepala, muyenera choyamba kudziwa nthawi yake. Mbalame zazing'ono zimakhala zosavuta kusintha kuti zikhale zatsopano komanso mwamsanga zimakhala zovuta. Kuonjezera apo, mpaka zaka zinayi, karoti akhoza kuphunzitsidwa kulankhula, kubwereza pambuyo pa munthu. Pambuyo pa malire awa, kuthekera kwa kuphunzira kuchokera ku mbalame kugwera kwambiri.

Chiphalala chowopsa: momwe mungadziwire msinkhu

Pambuyo pa molt yoyamba, kuti mudziwe bwinobwino zaka zingati peretiyo ndi yovuta kwambiri. Ichi ndichifukwa chake otonlogist onse amalangiza kugula mbalame izi mpaka m'badwo uno. Kuti mudziwe, muyenera kumvetsera magawo otsatirawa:

• Mchira wafupi (umakhala kutalika kwa miyezi iwiri);
• Mphamvu yakuuluka - anapiye onse amadziwa momwe angachitire izi kuyambira pa mwezi umodzi;
• Maso akuda - mbalame zazikulu zimakhala ndi mphete yoyera kuzungulira wophunzira;
• Mlomo wofiira - zonse zamphongo zapakati zimakhala zofiira pamlomo, zomwe zimatha pakati pa zaka ndi theka kufika miyezi iwiri;
• Nthenga zonse ziyenera kukhala ngakhale, ndipo mtundu wawo uli wosiyana kwambiri.

Aliyense amene akufuna kukhala ndi mnzako, ayenera kudziwa momwe chakudyacho chimadyera, momwe angadziwire zaka ndi kugonana kwa mbalame, ndi zinthu ziti zofunika pamoyo wake ndi zina zambiri. Mtundu uliwonse wa mbalame kapena wobereketsa mbalame zamphongo akhoza kuthandiza kupeza mayankho a mafunso awa.

Chiphalala choopsa: momwe mungadziwire kugonana

Kuphatikizana ku malo ena ake nthawi zambiri kumayikidwa ndi mtundu wa sera. Mnyamata, nthawi zambiri imakhala yonyezimira, yobiriwira buluu, pomwe akazi amakhala ndi bulauni kapena imvi.

Mmodzi ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti palibe chiyanjano chokhala m'chilengedwe kusiyana ndi ziphuphu za wavy. Momwe mungadziwire zaka ndi kugonana kwa mbalamezi, mukudziwa kale. Zimangokhala kuti mutumizire malo ogulitsira katundu ogulitsidwa ndipo mutenge nokha mnzanu wabwino ndi wokondwera yemwe angakondwereni inu ndi ana anu kwa zaka makumi angapo.