N'chifukwa chiyani tiyenera kuiwala chinachake mwamsanga pamene ife pochitika pakhonde?

Izo zimachitika kwa aliyense. Inu anathamanga masitepe kukatenga mafungulo, koma kuiwala kuti ankafuna kuti atenge iwo mwamsanga kupita mu chipinda. Inu kutsegula firiji ndi kuyang'ana pa nkhani zake zokha kuzindikira mulibe kumbukirani, chifukwa Musiyeni kutsegula izo. Kapena, dikirani mpaka mnzanu agwirizana kumuuza zofunika kwambiri, koma monga mukangofika mwayi chinachake zofunika kutha kwa mutu wako. Ndipo inu mukhoza kunena kuti: "Kodi ine ndinena chiyani?" Ndipo zonse yekha ndikuganiza: "Kodi tikudziwa bwanji?" Choncho, zitseko ziribe kanthu - iwo ndi angwiro monga kuwerenga maganizo.

Mbiri ya omangawo

Ngakhale zolakwa zimenezi zingachititse manyazi, iwo ndi zachilendo. Iwo amatchedwa "zotsatira za pakhomo," ndipo amanena zinthu zina zosangalatsa za mmene ubongo wa munthu ntchito. Pakumvetsa izi zingakuthandizeni kuona mphindi yokha kuyiwala si monga ngati chowiringula kwa kuyabwa (ngakhale iwo adakali zosasangalatsa). Izi mbali ya ubongo wa munthu mosavuta kwambiri kutchulidwa mothandizidwa ndi nkhani za mkazi amene anakumana omanga atatu chakudya. "Kodi lero mukutani?" - anafunsa woyamba. "Ine ndinaika njerwa imodzi pamwamba pa mzake, ndipo kotero mobwerezabwereza," - pa akuusa choyamba. "Kodi lero mukutani?" - anafunsa chachiwiri. "Ine sakumanga khoma" - anali yankho wosalira zambiri. Kumangidwa lachitatu anasangalala ndi kunyada ndi anati: "Ine kumanga mpingo"

magulu chidwi

Mwina munamvapo nkhani imeneyi chilimbikitso ndi kuonetsetsa kuti onse view wa zinthu, koma kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo pa inu ndi makhalidwe ofunika wa nkhaniyi kuti aliyense kanthu muyenera kuganizira pa magulu kukwaniritsa izo bwinobwino. Anaumanga lachitatu chingakhale mantha kuyang'ana pa ntchito, koma palibe amene adzatha kumanga mpingo, osati pakumva ndi njira yomwe muyenera kuika njerwa wina ndi mzake, monga amachita anaumanga choyamba. Tsiku lililonse tcheru wa munthu anazimitsa pakati pa milingo awiri awa, ndi zolinga zathu ndi zokhumba za mapulani ndi njira, ndipo kenako pa mlingo m'munsi - zimene anachita. Pamene chirichonse chiri pansi pa ulamuliro, kawirikawiri zinthu bwino, anthu ndi mavuto palibe kusamalira kusunga maganizo chakuti iwo akufuna kuti achite, ndipo gawo othandiza kumachitika yokha. Ngati ndinu odziwa dalaivala, muyenera kupewa kufala, lakutsogolo ndi chiongolero basi, ndipo ganizira lolunjika pa ntchito zochepa chizolowezi monga akuyendetsa mwa mtsinje wa magalimoto kapena kulankhula kwa anthu. Zinthu kumakhala kosavuta chizolowezi, chidwi akugwiritsa kwa mwatsatanetsatane zimene muyenera kuchita kuti kwa mphindi amapanga malingaliro a munthu zimalepheretsa ku chithunzi zambiri. Chifukwa chake kukambirana ndi okwera pali chete pamene dalaivala chimakakamiza ku mphambano zoopsa kapena injini wayamba kupanga phokoso lachilendo.

"Zotsatira za pakhomo"

njira imene tcheru anthu amasuntha ndi pansi pa utsogoleri wolowezana wa kanthu, zimathandiza munthu kuonetsa dongosolo zovuta khalidwe lake. Choncho limachititsa kuti akonze dongosolo coherent chifukwa kukhazikitsa ambiri ntchito panthawi zosiyanasiyana ndiponso malo osiyanasiyana. "Zotsatira za pakhomo" Umaoneka tcheru chanu ikuyenda pakati pa misinkhu, ndipo amasonyeza kudalira yokumbukira anthu (ngakhale zinthu inu muchita mu miniti yokha) ku malo omwe muli.

phunziro nkhani

Tayerekezerani kuti inuyo mupite ku masitepe yopita ku chipinda kutenga mafungulo, n'kuiwala anadza kwa mafungulo mwamsanga nokha mu chipinda. Kuyambira mfundo maganizo view, zotsatirazi zinachitika mmoyo wanu ( "Chinsinsi") linasiyidwa kale m'kati kumasulira mu zenizeni njira kumatanthauza ( "Tiyenera kupita ku chipinda chogona"). Mwina dongosolo ndi mbali ya dongosolo zikuluzikulu ( "Tiyenera kukonzekera azisamalira nyumba"), zimene pamapeto, ndi mbalinso ya zazikulu ndi zazikulu mapulani ( "kupita kuntchito", "Sungani malo", "Kukhala akhama ndipo woonamtima nzika "ndi zina zotero). Mulingo uliwose amafuna chisamaliro nthawi ina. Ndipo penapake mu njira ya panyanja mwa interweaving zolingalira onsewa anayamba m'maganizo ganizo mwadzidzidzi za mafungulo. malingaliro anu msanga lolunjika pa iye, analenga dongosolo zimene muyenera kutenga makiyi amenewa, kenako n'kuyamba kale pa zolinga zina, monga kukwera mwamsanga mu chipinda, ndikuganiza za amene kale anasiya zinthu zawo pamakwerero, akukonzekera tsiku ndi miliyoni zinthu zina.

Zifukwa "pakhomo zotsatira"

Ndipo ngati inu mungalingalire dongosolo lonse onsewo mbale pa mitengo mu masewera aja, tingathe kumvetsa kuti n'zovuta. Ndipo nthawizina ena a mbale onsewo kugwa. Anthufe (ngakhale kukumbukira cholinga chathu) kuluka zopezera mayanjano. Zimenezi zingakhale chilengedwe thupi lanu kumene iwe anapanga cholinga kapena aona vuto lililonse. N'chifukwa chake ulendo kwawo ubwana zingachititse funde lalikulu zokumbukira, ndipo ngati inu muiwale chinachake, muyenera kubwerera kumene inu mukuganiza chiyani za izo. Zingakhalenso chilengedwe maganizo, ndi chimene inu ndinaganiza, pamene lingaliro makamaka akuti. A "pakhomo tingati" zimachitika chifukwa chakuti kusintha onse chilengedwe thupi ndi m'maganizo.