Kuti kuyankha chipongwe chiyani? Nsonga

Nthawi zambiri mabwenzi, masitolo, mabasi ndi magalimoto kapena kungoti pa anthu msewu akhoza kukwiya ndi munthu wina. Anthu ena monga amanena lokha motere: iwo anayamba kukhala wamwano, ndipo imautsa inu kuyankha enieni. Ambiri mwa manyazi - "kudzipangitsa mmwamba": ndi nkhawa kudya otchedwa MIZUKWA mphamvu. Ndipo tsiku lina sizinatero, mtsikanayu waponya, anachotsedwa ntchito yake - apa iwo ali ndi amayesetsa kusokoneza maganizo a wina aliyense. Kuti kuyankha chipongwe chiyani? Ndipotu, kuchoka popanda kunena chilichonse - kamodzinso kungadzutse Nahal manyazi ofooka.

Ngati inu akhumudwa kapena chipongwe, ndiye woyamba wa zonse muyenera kukhadzikika ndi "kukoka nokha pamodzi", komanso kuthetsa chisangalalo musanaganizire chifukwa cha zinthu zoipa. Mulimonsemo sikutheka kuyankha mwamwano kuti mwamwano - musakhale ngati khalidwe negative. Kupeza kuti modekha molimba mtima ndi Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, munthu akhoza ngakhale kumwetulira. Kunena, "Ine ndikukuonani inu ndi tsiku chalakwika? Ine chisoni, "kapena" Chinachake Ine sindikukumbukira kuti tinaona, ndi alendo simuyankhula. Tsalani bwino! "Ndipo zotero, zoopseza.

Kuti kuyankha chipongwe ndi Zankhanza msewu, amene anaponya inu kuitana? Imeneyi m'pofunika kukhala mtsogoleri ndi kuyesera kuti mawu anu anali womaliza. Mwachitsanzo, mawu akuti: "Bwerani, bwerani kuno!" - kuima ndi kunena, "Inu muli nacho chinachake kufunsa? Ndikukuyembekezera, kupita ndi kufunsa. " Ngati mmodzi wa gulu unabwerapo ndi kuika dzanja lake kwa moni ananena, mlekeni. Khalani otsimikiza ndi kuyang'ana pa iyo. Funsani: "Ife tikudziwa mzake?" Kwa amene akukuvutitsani N'kutheka kunena, "Kodi inu mukukumbukira ine?" Yankho lanu: "Kodi ine? Inu - wotchuka m'deralo? Kodi onse? Ine ndinapita Affairs kwathunthu! "

mayankho zoseketsa zomunyoza ndi kutha chochitika chosangalatsa, si wotero zotsatira ankayembekezera chipongwe. Mukhoza monga kuseka ndi kunena, "Zikomo inu, kuseka," Ngati inu kuchotsa nthabwala sachiza, muyenera Kuneneratu boor malo ake, kuyankha ndi ulemerero, ndi bata. Mayankho nkhanza akhoza kukhala otsika-kiyi kuti sizichepetsa zotsatira za iwo. Monga olakwa zambiri amayembekezera kuti munthu kukwiya idzagwa "bazaar" awo mlingo, ndi pamenepo pokha iwo ali ambuye! Siziyendera pa iwo nthawi zina, kukhala chete wanzeru. Mu dialogues zambiri komanso alibe kulowa - yankho laconic kukupulumutsani ku kulankhulana ndi nkhani zosasangalatsa.

Kuti kuyankha chipongwe, kapena zambiri, mawu anapangidwa ngati izo ziri zoona kuti keyala yanu? Inu akhoza kungoyankha kunyalanyaza kapena kunena, "Zikomo adafotokoza!" Kapena: "Onetsetsani kudzudzulidwa, zikomo!" Chitani izi ngakhale zimakuvutani kuvomereza iwo anali kulakwitsa.

Ngati mulibe nthawi yomweyo zochokera ndipo sanapeze yankho chipongwe, koma kungoti anabwerera, ndiye muyenera mlandu okha ndipo ganizirani njira zimene zikhoza kunenedwa. Munthu - osati makina, ndi maganizo zambiri akanagonjetsa chifukwa, choncho musadandaule ndi kuiwala chabe. Nthawi yotsatira ndinu wotsimikiza kuti kusochera.