Kodi ndizitani ndi mnzanu pamsewu?

Si chinsinsi kwa wina aliyense kuti mwana wathanzi akuyenda nthawi zonse. Nthawi yaying'ono yamakhala yokhazikika pamene mwana wanu akugwira ntchito, kujambula kapena kusewera ndi okonza ndi masewera ena. Nthaŵi yonseyi amathawa pamsewu kapena m'nyumba, kusewera ndi kusewera. Ndi bwino kukhala ndi anzanu ambiri okhulupirika ndi odalirika omwe mungathe kusewera masewera abwino ndi oseketsa.

Funso la zomwe mungasewere ndi bwenzi, ana samadzuka, chifukwa ana amadzipeza okha ntchito zosangalatsa. Mudziko muli masewera ambiri okondweretsa omwe amatha kusokonezeka, mphamvu ndi liwiro la zomwe zikuchitika. Kuwonjezera apo, masewera olimbitsa thupi amathandiza kuti mwanayo akule bwino, chifukwa ambiri mwa iwo amafunikira nzeru zochuluka ndi zovuta za mwanayo.

Mwachitsanzo, taganizirani masewerowa "otsika ndi otsika". Chosewera ndi mnzanu, mosasamala kanthu za masewera okondweretsa ndi osangalatsa, omwe ndi awa. Ophunzira ambiri amagwirizanitsa manja ndikuyenda mozungulira. Wopereka msonkhanowo amaitana nyama iliyonse yodziwika, ndipo ana, malinga ndi dzina lake, akhoza kupita ku masokosi kapena kuchepa. Zomwe zazevalsya kapena zosalungama anachita, amachotsedwa pa masewerawo.

Masewera osangalatsa ndi "Mukuganiza kuti ndiwotani?". Zomwe zimakhalapo ndizoti anyamata akuyambanso, ndipo amafunsidwa kuti ayankhe funso la kuchuluka kwa malo kapena malo (malo, chiyambi cha mpanda, mwala wawukulu, ndi zina zotero). Wina aliyense amafotokozera malingaliro ake, ndipo mtsogoleriyo amayang'ana kulondola kwa malingaliro ndipo amathokoza opambana.

Ndizosangalatsa kusewera ndi ana, chifukwa zimapangitsa mzimu wa timu ndikuthandizira, kuphatikizapo, kumvetsetsa za udindo ndi chilango. Masewera apamwamba pa mibadwo yambiri ya ana a mibadwo yonse ndi mitundu ndi mpira. Masewera enieni omwe amachititsa kukula, mphamvu ndi mphamvu, akhoza kukhala chozolowezi chenicheni cha mwana wanu kwa moyo. Ndipo kwa odziwa bwino masewera a mpira palibe masewera abwino kuposa iye, chifukwa, zomwe amasewera ndi mnzako, bwanji osati mpira. Komanso, mukhoza kuphunzira kusewera basketball kapena volleyball, zomwe zingapindulitsenso mwana wanu.

Masewera okondweretsa omwe angakhale othandiza pa chitukuko cha kutayika ndi kugwirizana kwa kayendedwe kamatchedwa "Duel". Otsatira awiri amakoka pansi mabwalo awiri, mamita 1 mmitala, ali pamtunda wa masentimita 50 wina ndi mnzake. Pakati pa aliyense wa iwo amaika masewero, ndipo otsogolera amakhala m'malo awo. Pa gulu limodzi, ophunzira omwe ali ndi ndodo m'manja awo akuyesera kukankhira mabokosi a mdani kunja kwake. Amene anapambana, adapambana.

Choncho, zomwe tingasewere ndi mnzanu si nkhani yaikulu kwa ana athu. Maganizo a mwana aliyense amadziwa zambiri mwamsanga moti nthawi zambiri amafunika kuyimitsa masewera a ana, chifukwa, pakati pa zochitika, mwana amangokhalira kuiwala nthawi.

Kawirikawiri ana amayenera kufotokoza kuti pangakhale munthu mmodzi yekha amene amapambana mu masewera, chifukwa onse akufuna kutuluka mwa osewera mpira aliyense. Kodi tingasewere bwanji wina ndi mzake m'njira yoti pali opambana ambiri? Pano mungathe kugwirizanitsa malingaliro a mwanayo ndikubwera ndi masewera okondweretsa. Malingana ndi msinkhu wa ana, masewera akhoza kukhala ovuta kwambiri. Atakalamba, nthawi zambiri amasewera masewera a masewera, chifukwa amakhala okondweretsa kwambiri komanso amaphunzitsa ana kuthandizana komanso amatha kulimbana pamodzi kuti apambane. Tiyeneranso kukumbukira kuti masewera a ana ndi ofunikira kwambiri popanga malingaliro abwino a mwana, chifukwa amamuthandiza kudziwa bwino makhalidwe omwe ali nawo.