Wanzeru mafunso anyamata ndi atsikana

Mwina, onse anali kusangalala akafunsa zokhudza mu zaka sukulu. Inde. Popanda m'njira iliyonse. Ndipotu chidwi - izi ndi zimene amapita nafe mu ulendo moyo wathu.

Si za mafunso alipidwa monga "liti?" Kapena "dzina lanu", koma kwambiri mwandale. Chifukwa cha iwo, tikhoza kusangalala zokwanira, kuonera interviewee yaitali komanso yotopetsa "kaphokoso" chinsinsi chake imvi, kuyesera kupeza yankho loyenera. Makamaka otchuka linali funso la chonyowa dalaivala wa basi kapolo Anatoly. Mwina silimveka pokhapokha ogontha. Kuwonjezera zosangalatsa, mafunso anzeru Imatithandiza kudziwa interlocutor wake kapena mnzake. Amene mafunso choncho tiyenera kutsata ndi m'maganizo kwambiri, si monga ngati intrusive osati ulesi chidwi mwa Iye yekha.

Iwo m'pofunika kukhala mafunso lachinyengo pamaso msonkhano. Choncho ndi bwino ntchito ndipo anabwera ndi funso wanzeru, okhoza tinyamuke wa mnzake / mnzake mudziwe zambiri.

Kodi kufunsa mafunso mtsikana?

Pofuna kuti mafunso anzeru atsikana Simufunikanso kuti Roketi wasayansi. Pali akhoza choperekedweratu chidwi. Chinthu chokha - kusankha bwino mawu.

Mwachitsanzo, funso kovutitsa: "Kodi ndinu okonzeka kukhala pachibwenzi?". Ndi kuziika izo, inu poyamba, kuti chiwulule makadi wake, amene poyamba imatengedwa kulephera. Inde, inde, inde. Izo ziyenera kukhala munthu ndi chinsinsi. Koma Kachiwiri, ali mmodzi wa mafunso wotopetsa banal, amene ali, kuziyika izo modekha, ndamva. Apachiyambi, m'maganizo ndi m'maganizo kamodzinso - ndicho Mwambi wa "masikono" wa anyamata. Choncho tione mu fodayi ndi dzina "mafunso Anzeru "Ndipo ife tifika mwa izo njira yabwino. "Kodi inu mukuona moyo wanu zaka ziwiri?" - funso zingaoneke zazing'ono kapena intrusive. Iye ali zonse zochokera, ndi mtsikana sangathe pachimake pa cholinga chake chenicheni.

Mu njira iyi, mukhoza kufunsa mafunso onse kuti Musiyeni inu, satchula okha pa nthawi yomweyo, popeza amamenyedwa ndi chidwi wake, ndi mochuluka kuposa apo - ngati kwambiri choyambirira mnyamata maso ake.

Zitsanzo za mafunso lachinyengo kwa atsikana

1) Kodi malo mu mzinda inuyo mukufuna?

Nkhani imeneyi lidzaloŵa m'malo "Kodi mukufuna kupita kumene?".

2) Ngati ndinu mutu wa Utumiki wa Culture, kalembedwe zimene nyimbo / kanema mtundu wanyimbo kodi inu yoletsedwa? Ndipo kodi pempho kukhala?

Sinthanitsani nudnotu monga "mtundu wanji wa nyimbo mumamvetsera / penyani ena mafilimu?".

3) Kodi ndi malo wanu wakale chibwenzi - mu chipinda mpweya kapena mpando magetsi? Ndipo mwina - kuwombera?

Ambiri mwa atsikana ndi kuseka. Mayunitsi akazi kusunga kulemekeza wakale chibwenzi. Koposa zonse - "mu bokosi anawaona!" Koma ponena za funso limeneli, adzakupatsani chithunzithunzi cha mmene umabweretsa kupatukana, akunena za kale. Izi zimathandiza kudziwa kuti sangakhoze kuima mu anyamata ndi D..

Ambiri - zitsanzo za mafunso amenewa kungachititse kalekale. Chinthu chachikulu - osati kufunsa mafunso anzeru mmodzi. A labwino, koma poyamba linapangidwa kuposa ena, koma onyenga.

Tisaiwale kuti kuwonjezera kukapanga funso wanzeru kwambiri mbiri ya galimoto, muli ndi chidwi chenicheni yankho. Atsikana zindikirani anyamata onse kwambiri bwino, ndipo ngati chidwi pa nkhope yake akusowa, ndipo anthuwo anamvera sadzamva.

Kodi ndi mafunso ati kufunsa anyamata?

Zingaoneke, kufunsa mafunso anzeru Anzanga - chidutswa cha mkate. Iwo sizingagwire tanthauzo zobisika, iwo anamasulidwa ndi iwo samasamala kuti yankho limenelo. Koma apo icho chinali. Pali zina zabwino zambiri zimene zingasinthe cholinga cha munthu ndi chilakolako mwachizolowezi kwambiri. Ndi chidwi mwa munthu wanu - mu lamoto mu nthawi, kuyenda nanu.

Zingatanthauze kuti wamba nthanthi (ndipo pa nthawi yomweyo, monga kugonana chilungamo, pyakubisika) voprosets monga "Kodi inu chinthu chachikulu mu moyo?" - adzayang'ana choyambirira kwambiri. Koma palibe - iye ndi Akhristu ake moona mtima nazo. Chinthu china, ngati mtsikana afunsa, "Ngati inu kupambana ndalama zankhaninkhani mawa, kodi mumathera iwo?". Pankhaniyi, mtsikana amaphunzira za phindu lenileni la interlocutor ake, khalidwe lake, ndi zina zotero D..

Zodabwitsa ndizakuti, palinso geniuses. Pakhala lalikulu kusuntha convolutions, kupanga nkhani zovuta anzeru . Ndi zothandiza kuti aganizirenso kupusa osadziletsa mosavuta kusokonezedwa ndi mwapang'ono. Ziribe kanthu chimene kunena, nkofunika - momwe.

Anyamata sindimakonda izo

Tisaiwale kuti kwambiri anyamata amaopa kuyankha kwake, kuopa kulakwitsa. Komanso, iwo sangakhoze kuima kuyankha mafunso anzeru pamaso pa mboni. Komanso, musamavutike pamene kubvomereza kwawo ndi laughable. Ndipo mantha amaopa atsikana anzeru. Zonsezi ayenera kumwedwa nkhani pokonza mafunso lachinyengo.

Kodi mwaulemu kunyalanyaza?

Zimachitika kuti simukufuna kutaya interlocutor (makamaka ngati / iye ali mapulani kwambiri), ndi funso, palibe chilakolako. Kodi kuchita?

Pofuna kugonjetsa chidwi mwaulemu chidwi chokwanira:

1. Yankhani funso funso. Izi achikale njira.

2. Yankhani funso anecdote kapena Nkhani ya nkhani zoseketsa. Osati kukhala yemweyo mu tanthauzo. Ndiponso mmene kukondera, ndi nthawi kusangalala.

3. Lolani yankho yaitali, kuthera kusanthula kanthu. Yambani philosophize pa chilichonse. Akayankha wotereyo mukufuna kufunsa mafunso konse ulesi interlocutor wanu.

4. yesezera kutopa, musati gesticulate. Izi zokwanira kusiya gwero. Mukhoza, ndithudi, ndipo lembani nthabwala: "Zimitsani ndi maikolofoni", "Funso likuchotsedwa," etc ...