Akhale Kodi mwamuna weniweni

- Ndani munthu wangwiro?

- Aliyense amene amakhulupirira kuti mkazi wake - mkazi abwino.

(Bearded anecdote)

Issues nkhawa akazi nthawi zonse: bwanji kukhala mwamuna weniweni? Poyamba, akazi onse kuyankha ndilipo: anzeru, wamtali, wooneka bwino, wachuma. Kenako Imani ndi kusinkhasinkha nkhani, tentatively anawonjezera kuti: wabwino ... olimba mwauzimu ... kuzimvetsa, kuteteza ...

Ndatsimikiza kuti mkazi aliyense mu njira yake yapadera, unrepeatable, munthu uyu wangwiro. Ndi fano lake zambiri sakugwirizana ndi chitsanzo kuti anabwera kwa ife ku Hollywood mafilimu.

Chifaniziro cha loderako Taphunzira njonda mu ndi woweta chipewa zaka nkhawa atsikana pansi 16. Ndiye iwo anayamba kuzindikira kuti chipewa ndi minofu - si chinthu chachikulu. Ndipo funso kodi mwamuna weniweni, udindo (osati nthawi zonse mokweza): - Olemera.

Atsikana kukula, kukwatira, dziko awo amasintha.

Pa zaka achikulire, funso lomwelo, kodi mwamuna weniweni, kupereka mayankho osiyana kwambiri. Mosakayikira, kulemera n'kofunika, munthuyo ayenera kukhala earner. Ziwerengero amadziwa kwambiri zitsanzo, pamene munthu anali wokongola, ndi olemera, ndi zabwino bedi, ndipo ndi mkazi anapita kutali kwa osauka ndi yonyansa. Chifukwa chiyani?

Mwina, mwa njira ina kuyankha funso kuphunzira sociological lina la padziko lonse, limene oposa 1,000 anali akazi oposheny. Anafunsidwa kuti dzina makhalidwe weniweni, ku maganizo awo, amuna. Zotsatira zake zinali penapake mosayembekezereka. Quality anagawira motere (ukutsika mavoti):

• mtundu, wachikondi, chikondi;
• anzeru, ophunzira;
• achigololo, wokongola;
• woonamtima, zoona
• amphamvu wofuna, wamphamvu wofuna;
• malonda, zachitetezo;
• olimbika ntchito;
• wokongola.

Zikuoneka kwa ine kuti funso mmene munthu wangwiro, zonse angathe sudzaperekedwa. Aliyense woimira theka wamkazi wa anthu omwe, munthu m'chifanizo chake cha ganizoli. Ine ndingakhoze kokha amanena za amene Ine kuimira abwino yekha.

Choncho, mfundo zanga maganizo, mwamuna weniweni ayenera kukhala:

• ngati munthu. Ine akhoza kulekerera pa mfundo yonena za "unisex" ndi "munthu." Munthu uyu ayenera kukhala ndi maganizo pakuwonana koyamba: kukhala zoyenera (osati wochepa thupi, koma woyenera) anasonkhana, woyera, onunkhira kununkhiza mafutawo wabwino ndi kumetedwa mwatsopano. Only pansi pa zikhalidwe izi, sindingathe kusankha izo m'khamulo;
• izo ziyenera kukhala aulemu ndi ophunzira. Ndi chidwi ine. Nthawi zonse kukhala zatsopano, chidwi, mwina penapake wosamvetsetseka,
• kusunthira maganizo ndi thupi. Ine - mkazi, kuganizira mophiphiritsa, koma pang'onopang'ono. abwino anga kuganiza mofulumira ndi kuphunzira zambiri;
• udindo ndi palokha. Ine sanazengereze mbali yachiwiri m'banja, ngati mwamuna wanga amakhala kuonetsetsa chilimbikitso changa (m'maganizo ndi m'thupi), popanda kundipempha mphindi iliyonse momwe chitani;
• wachikondi, womvetsa zinthu, aulemu, achikondi. Iye Uzikonda ine, ana, makolo. Kuti athe bondo, caress, thandizo yake. Munthu - mwala umene mungathe pogona mphepo, kutentha, nyengo. Ndimakonda mawu amene akhala Mwambi: "Mwamuna weniweni nthawi zonse kukwaniritsa zimene akazi akufuna";
• teetotal. Zinali fungo mowa stale ndimacheza ndi mawu akuti "munthu", ndipo iwo, monga ine ndinanena kale, amuna awa, ine sindikuganiza;
• odalirika. Ndi mwina chifukwa ine chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Ine kukhulupirira mwamuna wake. Ndi kukhulupirira;
• mosalekeza. Ayenera kutha kwa mutu wanga kuyendetsa ine wamisala ndipo tisaledzere, anaikidwa pa nthawi yoyenera. Ndipatseni chifuniro, koma kuchita kuti sanafune ine.

Mwina ambiri samagwirizana ndi ine. Ndipo ndicho chachikulu. Chifukwa munthu weniweni - izo nzosiyana: wamtali ndi ang'ono, woonda, ndi mimba chachikulu, dazi ndi unshaven. akazi angati - zithunzi zambiri za mwamuna weniweni. Koma ndikuona kuti aliyense wa ife kugwirizana ndi mizere kuchokera ndakatulo mwa Soviet ndakatulo Edward Asadov. Iye akuyankha funso kodi mwamuna weniweni: "... Iye ndi wokonzeka kubwera kwa chithandizo, ngati icho chili choipa kwa inu."