Wakunjayo - izo ... ali ankafufuza ndi chiphunzitso cha

Nthawi zambiri timamva mawu "wakunjayo." Zimenezi n'zosadabwitsa, chifukwa chakuti tikukhala m'dziko limene amadziwika kuti kwambiri variable. Ndi malo ndi atsogoleri, ndi munthu wamba, ndipo, ndithudi, ndi kuwapatula.

Mwina nthawi zonse akhala, ali ndipo adzakhala anthu ena amene zifukwa zina sizikugwirizana mu timu. Awa anthu ngakhale mwasayansi sakudziwika. Choncho, mlendo - ndi munthu amene mavuto osiyanasiyana, likukhalira, monga anakakamizika kuwonjezera anthu a m'dziko limene lilili.

N'chifukwa chiyani anthu amenewa? Kumbukirani, mu kalasi yanu anali pafupifupi ndithu amene amachitiridwa nkhanza kapena maganizo, kapena makamaka mantha, mwathupi. Nanga chifukwa maganizo amenewa kwa munthuyo? chakuti aliyense wosanjikiza lagawidwa anthu adakali zigawo bwino (kapena kagawo kakang'ono), lopatsidwa nambala inayake malo anthu ndi statuses osiyana. Mwachitsanzo, pali nthawizonse kuli kagulu ngati chikhalidwe monga "osankhika". The sukulu, monga ulamuliro, anyamata ndi atsikana mabanja olemera. ana, kodi alibe chidwi, wopangidwa mu ubwenzi wabwino ndi m'kalasi ndi aphunzitsi - Palinso otchedwa "pafupifupi". Ndipo, ndithudi, malo apadera zapatsidwa kwa akunja. N'zochititsa chidwi kuti iwo Sali sangakhale. Komabe, chiwerengero oposa atatu, nayenso, ali ndi ufulu wokhala ndi moyo, monga anthu ufulu pochitika kuti "gulu la otaika."

Ngati pazifukwa wakunjayo wina anali kunja kwa gulu, malo pomwepo adzatenga munthu wina. Chifukwa chiyani? Ana (ndi akulu) makhalidwe kawirikawiri amasiyana anthu. Wakunjayo - izi ndi likuvutika ena onse amene amaona bwino, "kumwamba." Iwo adzazindikira kuti pali zinthu zingapo zovuta (osati mochenjera kwambiri, wokongola, kukula, ndi zina zotero. D.), Koma chifukwa iwo basi ayenera kudziwa kuti pali munthu wina woipa kuposa iwo.

Kodi muli ndi wopanda khalidwe zizindikiro zofanana? Kodi kudziwa zambiri kuti munthu (mwana kapena wamkulu) - ndi wakunjayo lililonse? Yankho wopezeka mafunso amenewa. Komabe, monga ulamuliro, anthu olumala, atsekedwa, alibe luso cholimba chimene chiri chonse. Ndiko kuti, poyamba - wovulalayo. Komano, pali milandu pamene chifukwa maganizo olakwika ali, pa mwake, luso lapadera kwambiri. N'chifukwa chake chiwerengero cha wopanda khalidwe zambiri zikuphatikizapo maulemu.

Malinga ndi kafukufuku, ndi zambiri alendo zamaganizo sukulu - ndi wakunjayo. Kufunika kwa kulankhulana ndi mwana dokotala wodziwa bwino sitingalephere kukambapo. Mu ndondomeko ya kuphunzitsa nthawi yambiri ayenera akudzizindikiritsa mphamvu zake, zofooka zolondola, komanso ntchito zosiyanasiyana kokoka kuti iye asangalale maganizo.

Ngakhale kuti mlendo - makamaka vuto la gulu, amene anthu osiyanasiyana a zaka kusukulu ndi mabungwe maphunziro apamwamba, ndi pa ntchito, zodabwitsazi kwafalanso ndithu.

Anthu amene akuda nkhawa kapena kungofuna vuto, zimene ife okha zochepa mafunso ati m'nkhani, ine ndikufuna kulangiza kuwerenga bukhu. Njirayi imatchedwa "Geniuses ndi akunja" (Mlembi - M. Gladwell). Tikukhulupirira kuti adzakuthandizani kumvetsa nkhani zambiri ndi wamphamvu.