Ukwati wachiyuda

The ukwati Ayuda ndi imodzi mwa nsanamira za moyo wa chifaniziro cha Ayuda, ndipo chipembedzo chilichonse - chifukwa chikondwerero chachikulu. Pamaso pa ukwati mu mabanja achiyuda, makolo bungwe ndi "matchmaker" ndipo m'madera ena, mwambo uwu zimawonedwa masiku ano. Ngakhale ngati banja kale ananena, munthu sapewa mwambo - ndi atate Mkwatibwi kupempha dzanja lake, nthawi yomweyo onetsetsani kuti dipo.

Umayamba mwambo kugwirizana ndi ukwati wa Ayuda, ndi mwambo chinkhoswe, wotchedwa Tenali. Kuchititsa mwambo, mbale uyenera unagwa, ndiwo chizindikiro cha chiwonongeko mu Yerusalemu akachisi, ndipo anati kuti Ayuda Ndikumva chisoni ndi imfa ena, ngakhale pakati pa holide. Izi mobwereza pa mwambo wa ukwati.

ukwati Ayuda awerenge tsiku lirilonse, nokha ndi Sabata, anayamba Lachisanu pa tsiku madzulo ndipo itha madzulo Loweruka, ndiponso tchuthi cha anthu Achiyuda, mwachitsanzo, Chaka Chatsopano (Ayuda sizikugwira ntchito pa nthawi imeneyi). Mu England, Lamlungu ndi tsiku wotchuka ukwati pakati pa Ayuda, ndipo mu United States, maukwati nthawi zambiri achiyuda unachitika Loweruka, pakutha pa Shabbat, pamene yozizira imatengedwa nthawi yabwino ya chaka. Nthawi zambiri mabanja amakwatiwa pa mlungu - pakati pa mlungu.

Ayuda ukwati miyambo akulemekezedwa kuyambira nthawi yakale, alibe malamulo oletsa zenizeni pa ukwati nthawi iliyonse chaka, koma mabanja ambiri safuna kuchita pakati Pesach ndi Shavuot, nthawi chisoni mu kalendala ya Ayuda. Pa anthu ake ambiri amakonda osati kudzacheza monga gulu ndi nyimbo ndi kuvina. Sabata, umene poyambirira pa ukwati, ndi nthawi yabwino. Ufruf - choncho mwambo umene mwapadera anakonza zoti mkwati. Iye ayenera kupita ku sunagoge, kumene iye anali nawo utumiki kumaonekera kwambiri mwachangu kenako kulengeza ku mpingo wake za chikondwerero m'tsogolo. Nthawi zambiri pa utumiki pa iye kutaya kwambiri maswiti. Pambuyo utumiki ndi mpingo wonse anakonza tebulo kakang'ono ndi zakumwa kutumikira vinyo, zakumwa ndi zakudya.

Panthawi imeneyi, Mkwatibwi akuyembekezera zopita ku mwambo dziwe mikvah, kumene iye aisadza yekha ndi mbali wauzimu, kumaliza chiyero kumachokera ake pa nthawi ya ukwati. Nthawi zina, mikvah pamaso pa ukwati tsiku ulendo ndi anthu, koma kupatula pa theka wamkazi. Kuti akhala bwino ankatsatira malamulo onse mikvah, mayiyo pamaso pa dziwe losambira akhale unadorned, ngakhale popanda misomali osalala. Iye anali kuwerenga pemphero wapadera ayenera kupanga kumiza mu madzi. Pa zokometsera, ulamuliro wake ndi kupereka thandizo zonse kulondola kwa mikvah lapansi. Ena wa ukwati wa anthu a dziko nazonso ndi Chihebri, amafuna kuti mkwati ndi mkwatibwi sayenera kwa sabata pamaso pa tsiku la ukwati kuonananso.

ukwati wachiyuda kuti mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ikuchitika pansi dongosolo wapadera - denga wotchedwa chuppah. Hupa mophiphiritsa amaimira nyumba kumene m'tsogolo mkwati ndi mkwatibwi adzakhala ndi moyo. M'mbuyomu, kudzachita mwambo wokongola anali panja, koma M'zaka zaposachedwapa anagwidwa mu chipinda, kuti kudalira nyengo. Malo otchuka kwambiri kumene ukwati imagwiridwa, amaona sunagoge, koma chikutanthauza malamulo okhwima si okhazikika. Ngati pali mphunzitsi ndi hoop - Jewish ukwati unachitikira kumene inu mungatero, ndi tsopano ngakhale mu mahotela. Banjalo Ayuda amene Mukwatira, palibe zovala mwambo ukwati. Kawirikawiri akazi kuvala zovala zoyera, ndi amuna wakuda suti ndi tayi.