Ukwati atakwatirana: bwino mochedwa kuposa konse

Mabanja ambiri kusankha kukonza ukwati atakwatirana. Nthawi zina masiku awiri awa amasiyana kwambiri nthawi. Ndipo okhulupirira zambiri itanani ku ukwati mu mpingo, osati mu kulembetsa mmboma. Kumene, chabwino, pamene ukwati atakwatirana chikuchitika mu yomweyo kapena tsiku lotsatira, koma Sizotheka. Pa masiku ena, mpingo korona, koma m'malo komanso kuti kaye mwambo. Ukwati muyenera kuganiza, mwachitsanzo, mogwirizana ndi mimba Mkwatibwi.

Nthawi zambiri anthu ali ofunitsitsa umboni ku chikondi cha Mulungu, patapita zaka zambiri anakhala mu chitsanzo mayina a banja boma. Ena amakhulupirira kuti zingawathandize kukhala pamodzi kwa muyaya. Ndipotu, ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi adzapita paradaiso, akakumane kumeneko. Ndipo mu gehena yonse yekha, momwemonso ukwati sikungakuthandizeni. Baibulo limati kumwamba palibe mkazi, kotero kukwatiranso pambuyo umasiye - osati woukira boma. Choncho ukwati anapangidwa kwa moyo uno, ndi zina ayenera kumanzere kwa chifuniro cha Mulungu.

Sam ukwati ndi wokongola kwambiri, nyimbo yapadera osankhidwa kwa iye, amene ali ndi tanthauzo lakuya. Aliyense wa Ansembe kanthu zinthu mwamwambo. Palinso zikhulupiriro zambiri zokhudza ukwati, koma ansembe Orthodox akulangizidwa kuti nawo chidwi. Ndithudi, nthawi yathu si ofunika kwambiri amene adzakhala mutu wa banja (monga zogwirizana kwambiri miyambo), zochita m'banja kutenga onse malodza malinga ndi malamulo mpingo - tchimo. Chinthu chachikulu - kukhulupirira chikondi ndi ntchito pa mabwenzi, chikondi, ndiyeno pambuyo ukwati kokha kwambiri.

Nthawi zambiri anthu amafunsa ngati amuna ndi akazi ochimwa Azidzazifuna. Palokha, mwachibadwa ndi zabwinobwino ndipo sayenera kuyesa kunena zolakwa za chikondi ndiponso ukwati. Aliyense amene amanena kuti udindo maganizo - yonyansa, kuti anathema, kotero musamvere nkhani za mpatuko ndi zigawenga. Koma maonekedwe kapena atsikana ayenera kutengedwa ngati wamng'ono. Ndi chinthu chimodzi ngati galu amathandiza mbuye wake mu kusaka, ndi zina - ngati pa gome kudya mbale makamu. Choncho ndikofunikira maonekedwe ankadziwa malo awo.

Mu Russia, ukwati atakwatirana - zambiri chifukwa iwo korona pokhapokha boma kulembetsa ukwati. Mu Sacramenti ya ukwati banjali atasonkhana pamodzi, anayamba kupanga thupi limodzi ndi mzimu umodzi. Choncho chisudzulo monga zopweteka ndi nthenda, thupi womwetula. Yekha malo akuoneka kuti banja - chigololo, chifukwa zasintha mwamuna anathyola banja likhale lolimba.

Makolo dalitso pa ukwati - wakale kwambiri ndi chachikulu mwambo. Asalole ngakhale mu masiku akale, achinyamata ndi kumukwatira ndi zofuna za makolo awo, koma ziri zabwino tipezekemo thandizo la anthu ofunika pa moyo wathu. Kupatsa ndi kulandira madalitso? Young kugwada pamaso pa makolo awo, ndipo amabatizidwa iliyonse, simukulankhulanso mawu a madalitso, kenako wamng'ono chipsompsono manja a makolo. dalitso si chinachake atathana ndi kumanga, aliyense makolo anadalitsa mmene akufunira. Ena amangonena kuti: "Bungwe ndi kukukondani," pamene ena kukhumba chimwemwe ndi ana ambiri, ena kupereka uphungu, zimene zimachitikadi. Pali mulibe malamulo aliyense zovuta ndi kudya, funsani monga makolo kunena zimene ziri mu malingaliro awo ndi zimene iwo akuganiza zofunika kwambiri.

Mwina muli pabanja kwa zaka zambiri, komabe si m'banja. Ukwati atakwatirana akhoza anakonza, ndipo patapita zaka zambiri. Izo siziri konse mochedwa kwambiri, makamaka chifukwa ndi boma ukwati mpingo chimatengedwa ndi tate aliyense ndikuuzani inu kuti mukukhala mu tchimo. Ngati inu munena ichi - mukhoza bwinobwino kudandaula. Social mfundo Mpingo Orthodox ndithudi n'kukulemberani kulemekeza mpingo kuti akalembetse ukwati wawo. Komabe, pamwamba akazi pamodzi mosavuta, chifukwa banja lawo kuteteza mphamvu za kumwamba. Tsono izi ndi zoposa mwambo wokongola.