Ukwati - ndi mwambo okongola kwambiri omwe alipo okha mitundu yonse ya dziko. ndondomeko kumaphatikizapo zosiyanasiyana miyambo. Koma mmodzi wa mfundo zikuluzikulu tiyenera kuziganizira dalitso la achinyamata. Popanda sachita chilichonse chikondwerero ukwati. Choncho, mwambo kuyang'ana mwatsatanetsatane.
Makolo Young momwe akudalitseni mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. Mu masiku akale izo sankandilola kukwatira ngati akazi m'tsogolo sichimaperekedwa otchedwa mwambo wa kudziyeretsa moyo. Masiku ano, ndithudi, zonse ndi zosavuta. Young sadzakhalanso kukutsutsani anachita kwa makolo ngati dalitso akadali asalandiridwe. Ngakhale kuti mwambo ndi makamaka ofunda, banjali akadali akuyesa kupeza madalitso a makolo awo. Ndiye, zinkakhalira pa chikondwerero amakhala osangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo kuti banjali otsimikiza kwambiri, zambiri kufika kusuntha pa moyo wake.
Madalitso makolo achinyamata masiku ano lagawidwa Orthodox mwambo ndi zamakono. M'mawu ena, ngati mkwati ndi mkwatibwi sindikufuna njira kwambiri moti nkhani imeneyi, ndondomeko akhoza kwambiri m'Chingelezi chosavuta. Choncho, ngati titsatila mwambo amene anabwera kuchokera masiku amakedzana lakutali, m'pofunika kuti tikhale chizindikiro kwa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. Kuvomerezedwa chofunika: ophunzira onse ayenera kubatizidwa. Zikatero, ngati munthu sanali pochitika ubatizo wa, izo zikhoza kuchitidwa chabe pamaso pa ukwati. Dalitso achinyamata, malo oyamba mu nyumba ya Mkwatibwi, ndipo patatha kaundula, mu nyumba ya mkwati.
Pa mwambo woyamba wa akazi tsogolo kuvala chopukutira, ndi achinyamata kugwada, ndiye makolo a mkwatibwi amaloweza mawu chofunika ndi crisscross ndi zithunzi wamng'ono. Madalitso a makolo achinyamata a mkwati ndi motere: banjali kuvala otchedwa "umoyo wa pamphasa," mayi ndi bambo kuti asiyane mawu.
Koma mwambo wamakono kutenga malo popanda zithunzi, "pamphasa" ndi ananyema magalimoto. Makolo a mkwati ndi mkwatibwi kuti mtundu zokwanira ndi mawu ofunda polimbikitsa ana awo. Ngati njira Cholinga anawo akakula amaganiza chinsinsi, n'koyenera mwambo. Pambuyo dalitso la achinyamata umatulutsa, aliyense wokhudzidwa mu phwando la ukwati chikupitirira, nenani mawu Zabwino kwa banja, kusangalala ndiponso kuvina. Koma mwambo zikuphatikizapo mwambo wina waung'ono: makolo a mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ayenera kupereka kwanu achinyamata. Izi zimachitika motere: azimayi ali ndi makandulo kuwalako kusesa mu chipindacho, uko wochokera magetsi latsopano. makandulo Recent ali anayatsa pa mkwatibwi tebulo ndi mkwatibwi. Kapena makolo mbali zonse ali anayatsa nyali wina, amene akuvutika ndi moto kandulo manja a achinyamata. Motero, kumene-banja akhale ngakhale otentha ndi zambiri zosangalatsa, komanso chikondi kuonjezera ndi kangapo.
Ndithudi, kwambiri miyambo lero, ndi tichisankhe, aliyense kudzisankhira lokha. Young madalitso sayenera chokhwima, koma kuchokera mumtima woyera ndi mtima.