Mowiriza munthu - munthu sagwira kapena wolimba mtima?

Lingaliro la "akulembayo" ntchito Masiku ano mu njira zoipa, ndi munthu wa unpredictability, kusowa ulamuliro, impulsiveness. Koma posachedwapa chimatanthauzidwira modzidzimutsa chabwinobwino ndipo unexpectedness kanthu. Mowiriza munthu amachititsa ena kukayikirana, kukayikirana ndi mtima kudzichepetsa, chimatipangitsa mantha amene anali pa mphindi iliyonse akhoza kuponya chinachake kuchokera wamba. Malinga ndi maganizo agwirizana zachitika pa anthu, kuti munthu sangathe wodalirika chifukwa cha unpredictability ake wakulungama. N'koopsa akulembayo, ndi mmene tingadziwire ndi "loopsya" khalidwe liti?

Mwaufulu - ndi wabwino kapena woipa?

Mu maganizo, ndi akulembayo mbiri mosiyanasiyana. Ena magwero mowiriza munthu - munthu amene wapeza kuti alimbe mtima kuchita zinthu mogwirizana ndi pomamvera mumtima, kunyalanyaza chikoka kunja. Ena, ndi kulephera kulamulira khalidwe lake, ngakhale pang'ono zochita kuzindikira anachita. Choncho, akulembayo, choyamba anamangidwira pa pedestal, ndiyeno wake m'malo mwamwano kuti achoke malo moyenerera azigwira. Lingaliro la zimaonetsa ufulu wa munthu akulimbana ndi kupanda ulamuliro, ndi mosemphanitsa. Zikhulupiriro onse osangalatsa kwambiri, chifukwa mowiriza umunthu kwa nthawi yaitali anachititsa kapena kuzizwa kapena kunyoza.

A mphindi mwachidule chikondwerero cha akulembayo

Mamba mu kuwerenga maganizo anapitiriza kokani akulembayo mu njira imodzi kenako zinthu zina. Ena akhala akunama kuti anthu zokha - ndi munthu woopsa ndi wosadalirika, chifukwa sadziwa mmene ndipo sanafune kukhala odziletsa, pamene ena kutamandidwa anthu azikhala ndi luso nokha. Mapeto a mkangano protracted kuika ziphunzitso Moreno, Jung ndi Fromm, amene analengeza molimba mtima kuti tiganizire chodabwitsa - mmodzi wa mphamvu ya munthu wokhalapo galimoto, ndi luso lachibadwa - ndi chizindikiro cha kwathu kwenikweni. Malinga ndi lingaliro lawo, ndi khalidwe la munthuyo amati ndi mphamvu yaikulu kukankhira munthu kudzimvera kuzindikira ndi ufulu wa kulankhula.

The akulembayo m'kamwa mwawo anayamba kutsutsana ndi maziko okhazikika ndi khalidwe stereotyped. Yakhala yapamwamba kuti "kukhala nokha", "kuti angayerekeze ayambe njira yake" m'malo alipidwa "kotero zonse, ndiye kuti ndiyenera", "kukhala monga ena." Mwaufulu anali definitively kukhazikika pa olankhulira ndi analengeza "msewu kudzimvera chitukuko."

masiku athu. Khalani mowiriza - osati otchuka?

Patapita zaka, wadutsa mu ambuye anaiwalika wa sayansi maganizo amene anatha bwinobwino akulembayo dzina wabwino. Ndipo kamodzinso anagwa asayanjidwe wa anthu, iye akutchedwa makhalidwe oipa monga kusowa kulamulira, impulsiveness ndi unpredictability. Masiku ano, anthu zokha - munthu infantile, zachibwana ndi osakhwima, sangathe kulamulira mu losakhutiritsidwa wake "Ine". Khalani mowiriza - kalanga! - yekha ana mungathe.

dziko Mphamvu ife maondo pansi pake ndi kuphunzira kutsatira maudindo, ndandanda ndi olakwika. Moral ntchito, maphunziro, zoletsa anthu Adamanga manja athu, ndipo ife ayi, ndipo ankakhulupirira kuti akhale. Ngakhale kulankhula mowiriza lero si amalemekezedwa kwambiri - zonse kuti ndinaganiza, calibrated kumbali zonse ndipo panopa yopezeka chophimba zidindo za. Ndipo ochepa a ife mphamvu kutsatira chikhulupiriro mkati, popanda kumva kulira anakwiya wa anthu kusuntha kwa ufulu wawo "Ine". Ndipo ife simungakhoze kusankha okha omwe iwo ali - kuwapatula wa anthu kapena kudziwa zoona zenizeni?

Road akulembayo!

moyo mpaka kalekale m'dziko mfundo olemera ndi chisoni. Aliyense ali ndi ufulu kwa mphindi mwachidule dotage wina ndi omasuka, kumulola kuchoka nthunzi ndiponso kubwerera ku moyo bwino. Pakuti akulembayo, ngati zinthu zonse zabwino, ayenera kuti nthawi ndi malo. Kodi akhoza kukwaniritsa boma zimenezi?

• Zimitsani foni usiku.
• Buku Cafe mu mbale, zomwe sizinachitikepo anayesa.
• Tikufufuza kuyenda kuzungulira dera.
• Pitani pa ulendo bwino, amene si anakumana.
• Basi ndipo anapita m'misewu.
• Ikani pa chinachake chimene sanayambe ankavala.
• Pitani ku mafilimu a kanema kuti filimu iliyonse.

Zimene adzakupatsani zabwino mtima ndi mphamvu. Mudzatha kuti akhale omasuka mowiriza umunthu.

Ziribe kanthu momwe inu nkhani imeneyi, mafunso mmene anthu zokha - ndi zabwino kapena zoipa, akulembayo - ngozi yaikulu kwa anthu kapena zimasonyeza, munthu aliyense ali ndi ufulu woyankha njira zawo, zochokera masomphenya awo zosiyana. Koma osati panopa alipo mpweya ngati akulembayo kwa inu - gwero la chimwemwe, kuyenda ndi moyo.