Chingalekanitse akugona zoipa ubwenzi wanu?

Co-kugona amathandiza abwenzi kuyandikira. Wachikondi ndi chitonthozo kuti kumva mu chikondi ndi izo, ndi zofunika kuti amange ubale wolimba. Choncho, kugona zonse pamodzi - kuti ndi lingaliro labwino kwenikweni.

Ubwino Tulo olowa

Kuwonjezera pa moyandikana mwachizolowezi, umene umachitika ophatikidzana nawo bedi, co-kugona komanso mipata yambiri pa ubwenzi lachibadwa. Chitonthozo ndi mphamvu ya kukhudza kungakhale chiyambi chabwino cha lovemaking. A kuwombola aulesi maganizo bwino pomvetsetsana ndi zambiri kumayambitsa muzilankhulana pafupipafupi.

Chifukwa chiyani anthu kugona pamodzi

Komabe, nthawi zina zovuta kugona pamodzi. Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zimene anthu ambiri kugona popanda, - kusiyana nthawi tulo. Mabanja ena kupirira vuto ili, kulowa bedi limodzi, koma pamene wina tulo, ena amadzuka ndipo akupitiriza kuchita zofuna zawo. Kapena bwenzi lathu kungakhale kupita kukagona pamodzi okha Loweruka ndi Lamlungu, pamene choti mwamalunji.

Chifukwa china chimene mabanja sangathe kugona pamodzi - ichi ndi vuto Nthaŵi zina mkonono umasonyeza ku imodzi mwa ophatikidzana nawo. M'pofunikanso kukumbukira kuti Nthaŵi zina mkonono umasonyeza osati yosemphana ndi kugona naye wachiwiri, komanso akhoza kukhala chizindikiro cha matenda aakulu, choncho ngati muli ndi Vuto ndi vutoli, mudzakhala Mulimonsemo muyenera kufunsa dokotala. Koma mwamuna amene akufuna kugona pamodzi, wina njira zingakhale earplugs.

Koma izi momveka bwino osati zifukwa kokha chifukwa mabanja kusankha kugona payokha Chrixitu. Nthawi zina zimachitika chifukwa munthu ali kugona kwambiri wosakhazikika. Komanso, limodzi kapena onse abwenzi angafune kuti danga kapena amakonda zinthu zosiyana kugona (mwachitsanzo, lotseguka kapena lotseka mazenera, kutentha osiyana mu chipinda).

Kapena bwenzi lathu kungakhale kukhala mosiyana Chrixitu zifukwa monga ntchito mu madera osiyana a mzinda kapena safuna kusintha miyoyo ya ana kwa ubale m'mbuyomu. Zikatero, mwamuna ndi mkazi adzakhala amakonda kugona pamodzi, koma amaona kuti palibe zingathe.

Ndiyenera kugona ndekha

Komabe, kugona osiyana akhoza kukhala mbali positive. Mwachitsanzo, womasuka ndi wokondwa, inu muyenera kugona. Choncho mudzakhala bwino kuganiza ndi kukhala okonzekera zovuta ndi zokhumudwitsa zina. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, mabanja amene kugona payokha, mosakayika ndizigwirizana ndi mnzake, komanso ndi anthu ena. Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti angathe kwenikweni kusangalala payekha yekha madzulo mochedwa kapena m'mawa.

Choncho, vuto lenileni pamapeto pake, si kuti mukugona limodzi kapena ayi. Ndipotu, pamene inu kugona, inu sadziwa kanthu. Mtengo weniweni wa moyandikana thupi. Kotero ngati inu chifukwa ena sangathe kugona pamodzi kapena amakonda kugona ndekha, yesani kupeza njira zina kulenga ubwenzi.

Ngati inu mungakhoze kuchita izi, thupi ndi maganizo ubwenzi kudzakuthandizani azikondana wosangalala.