Banja limeneli - ufumu kulamulidwa ndi Chikondi!

Choncho, mu dziko amaganiza kuti banja yachibadwa - ndi kuonetsetsa kuti makolo osakwatiwa amene ali ndi ana. Mabanja amene kholo limodzi, adzakhala basi kugwera mu gulu la "zosalongosoka", "chosakwanira" kapena ngakhale mabanja "osokonekera." Ine yomweyo atapereka maganizo zosiyana.

Chiwerengero cha anthu a m'banja sizikutanthauza zidazo. Amphamvu, wokondwa, wosangalala m'banja - ndi gulu laling'ono lomwe aliyense omasuka. Ndi kukhalapo kwa makolo a amuna ndi akazi si chizindikiro cha khalidwe ubale mkati mwake.

Kumene, bambo osakwatira kapena amayi, alikulamusa mwana paokha, ndi povuta kuti ana maphunziro mosalekeza. Koma ndi angakwanitse ndithu! A zambiri Moms amene ndinakutulutsani chidwi, mtima wodzipereka ana. Ndi Papa pali anthu amene anathandiza ana awo akukula wachifundo ndi wofatsa, ndi Hostess zodabwitsa ndi amayi wachikondi. Funso lina, kodi nzeru ... Koma tikulankhula tsopano si za izo.

Ambiri patsogolo pa nkhani yolembedwa kuti wabwinobwino, banja "lenileni" - banja limene pali ana. Kachiwiri maganizo akufunazo.

Makolo ambiri, kukhala ndi ana zofunika kuti amve ngati banja zonse kunachitika. Koma pali ena amene ali ana mwamtheradi safuna, iwo ali nacho kwa wina ndi mnzake ndi mtima wonse wa miyoyo yawo wodzazidwa ndi zilandiridwenso, ntchito, kudzilemekeza wekha bwino. Ngakhale kukalamba awiri kukonda wina ndi mnzake, thandizo, chifundo.

Popanda munthu ali ndi ufulu mowadzudzula chifukwa izo? Makamaka chifukwa mabanja onse ndi ana, akhoza kudzitama omvetsetsa ndi bata waubwenzi mu timu yawo.

Pali wina "nthano" wa ndi mwayi banja, amene Ndikufuna kuwononga. Makolo ambiri atapereka zopanda kuti banja losangalala - ndi kumene ana athanzi mwamtheradi yekha.

Kumene, kuyang'ana pa mavuto a wokondedwa - mayeso si miyoyo ofooka. Komabe, mabanja oterowo zolembetsa gulu la "ngozi," "osokonekera" - cholakwa chachikulu. Ine ndikuganiza chofunika kwambiri kuposa pamaso pa m'modzi wa anthu a m'banja la kulumala thupi, ndiponso mmene ena onse munthuyo monga munthu.

Chitsanzo chimene chikutsimikizira mkangano wanga kuti angakhale ndi banja losangalala limene pali anthu olumala, komanso chakuti otchedwa "chosakwanira" banja ali ndi ufulu kukhala wosangalala, ngakhale abwino, adzatumikira monga nkhani ya mayi ndi mwana.

Iye anali ndi zaka 8 zokha pamene mayi ake ziwalo. Anasiya kuyenda, kulankhula, kudya ndi kuvala nokha. Papa anali kale bwinobwino kwinakwake anakhala, kwathunthu kuiwala za mkazi wakale ndi mwana.

Kodi adzatchedwa kuchoka ku tsokali banja? M'malo mwake, matsoka chinali kuchoka kwake kunachitika mochedwa ... ochokera "zonse" banja ndi makolo awiri mayi ndi mwana anasamukira ku gulu la "m'mabanja a kholo limodzi," "osokonekera." Komabe, iwo anamasulira mosiyana: koma tsopano iwo akhazikika chisangalalo ndi chimwemwe, mtendere ndi chikondi!

Koma mavuto moyo wake okwatira, monga: kumenyedwa, kusagona, khama pa khobiri limodzi, yemwe ankapita pa mwamuna kuimba mowa - anakumbutsa okha. Horror udawaphimba kuwala. Amayi anayamba kudwala. Boy ankafuna kuti pogona pa, nadzawasankhula Iye kwa iye yekha banja.

Wina kulepheretsa. Iye Ndiyeno pa m'ndende mwana. Ndipo mnyamata onse Care Amayi kukazikoloŵeka paphewa. Pa zaka 9 mnyamata wachikulire amatsuka yekha ndi kudyetsa mayi kuchokera supuni, pa dzanja kuvumbitsira kokayenda, wakhala mu chikuku, kuchita kutikita, kulankhula ndi sichitha kuvomereza chikondi chake kwa iye ndi kumpsompsona dzanja lake.

Banja - ufumu ichi, chimene kulamulidwa ndi chikondi! Amayi anaphunzira kuima, anati chiganizo choyamba pambuyo tsiku loopsa anagawa moyo mu "pamaso" ndi "pambuyo." Awa anali mawu akuti: "Ine ... chikondi ... inu ..."

Mtolankhani wina anaphunzira za iwo, anakonza lipotilo. TV chinathandiza chakuti mnyamata - ngwazi ili, munthu wamkulu, munthu wolimba mtima komanso indomitable umunthu ndi mtima chikondi, ndi mphamvu zazikulu za malingaliro - anaphunzira dziko lonse. Lero, iwo tcheru ndi anthu otchuka, mayi anga akukonzekera ntchito, kumene malinga ndi madokotala, n'zodziwikiratu kuthandiza, ngati patsogolo ithedwa.

Ndiko - banja lowona, banja bwino, kukhala m'banja. Ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe ana ake kuti makolo onse zikugwira maphunziro a ana, ngati pali chuma chonse athanzi - ichi ndi banja, osati ankhanza "selo", m'kaundula pa pepala.

Ndi nthano komaliza zimene banja ayenera kuonedwa wamng'ono. Today anayambitsa i m'badwo kwa ubwino kupeza nyumba "mabanja achinyamata." Ayambe kukhota n'chotheka kukwaniritsa mmodzi wa akazi kwa zaka 36. Ine ndikukhulupirira kuti ndi cholakwika.

Young banja - banja limene anakhazikitsa palibe zaka kale kuposa 8 zapitazo, kupatulapo akazi mibadwo. Chifukwa 8 osati 5 kapena 6?

Zamaganizo ndi akatswiri amanena kuti mabanja kumayambiriro zaka 7 sachedwa kutha. Choncho, nthawi imeneyi imafunika chithandizo chapadera, osauka ndiponso maganizo.

Onse amene mwa ine - m'malingaliro anga modzichepetsa. Koma ali ndi ufulu kulibe, kuwerenga ndi zokambirana.