Zilakolako unmet

Aliyense wa ife m'moyo panali unmet zhelaniya.Ochen chowawa wotere pankhani chibwenzi, osati kokha. zilakolako zosakwanitsika nthawi zambiri amachititsa anthu kuti ayembekezere mavuto deta yanu kunja, makhalidwe , etc. Izi zingawathandize kuona zolakwika, koma, Komano, chifukwa cha kudzipenda inept akufuna kusakhutira chingayambitse mtima wonse wotsika.
Zosasangalatsa kumverera wosakhutira kwalimbitsa chilakolako mbali monga reverie: "Ndikufuna kukhala dona wa panyanja ndi kuwalamulira ndi nsomba." Dreaminess ndi kulekana zenizeni kumalimbitsa zambiri khalidwe lililonse zosasangalatsa. Kugwiritsa ndi zosayenera m'maganizo amawononga kuganiza. Ndipo mavuto a reverie chiri motere: mismatch wa chowonadi kuti maloto athu amalenga mtima, chisoni. Ngati munthu ayamba chopambanitsa kuoneratu kuti adziwitse kosangalatsa, imafoola zosangalatsa iye anafika pa chochitika weniweni (chifukwa filimu, scanned kachiwiri si monga chidwi choyamba).
Komanso timapitiriza kumverera kuti apange zilakolako zosakwanitsika ndi zilandiro akufuna kukomoka. Nthawi zina munthu amakhala ndi chisoni zosamvetsetseka, koma nthawi zambiri amachititsa kuti kusakhutira ili ndi chilakolako kuti ife sanazindikire. Ngati anazindikira, zingaoneke - kuti ife, ndi kutsogolera kukhumudwa. Mankhwala abwino kwambiri kuwongolera maganizo anu, mu nkhani iyi - kuzindikira zofuna zawo.
Tiyenera kudzifunsa ndi kuyesera kupereka nokha tawerenga, anakambirana ayankhe. Ngati inu kubva, ndipo mukuona kuti mwina chifukwa ena zilakolako zosakwanitsika ndi zilandiro kudzifunsa mafunso awa. Tikufunika ndikufuna (kapena ankafuna / ndikufuna) kukumana pakapita zimenezi (a ntchito, zochitika, kulankhulana)? zimenezi zingakhale kufunika kutchuka (kubvomerezana, chiyanjo), mgonero, chidziwitso kutero. Chisangalalo chimene ine kuoneratu ku kukhazikitsa zimenezi (tcheru, chisamaliro, chithandizo, pakuvomereza, chifundo)? Kapena kuchokera maganizo zosasangalatsa ine ndikufuna kuti tichotse? Mwachitsanzo, Ine ndine nsanje ogwira ntchito bwino. Ndikufuna kulankhula za izi ndi ndani. Pankhaniyi, ndingakonde zosasangalatsa osati nsanje komanso chikhumbo zosakwanitsika ndi kusekera, koma ngati ine ndikuzindikira zimene ndikufunika si kukhuta, makamaka kanthu kapena mawu ndinkaganizira kwa mnzake, ine zidzakhala zosavuta. M'pofunika kuti atchule makhalidwe enieni a anthu ena, amene amayembekezera iwo, ndipo izo kukwaniritsa cholinga chanu. ndi phindu kwa inu chifukwa cha zochita zimenezi zotsatira awo? Kodi angakhale mitundu imene kukwaniritsa zofuna zanu? N'chifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti munthu kapena zinthu mopambana kukumana zilakolako?
Ngati inu raspishesh mayankho a mafunso amenewa mu kulemba, zidzakhala bwino kuposa maganizo maganizo. tsatanetsatane adzakhala utoto poyankha funso lililonse bwino. Izi zingathandize kuchepetsa boma limene inu analumphira zilakolako zosakwanitsika. Ndipo musati muiwale, kuti zikumveka, pamene onse "mtundu kudzera", ndi kuganiza lolamulidwa - ndi yabwino koposa yoteteza wozingwa iliyonse. Zabwino zonse!