Ukwati chodabwitsa chikhalidwe ndi malamulo. Ndondomeko ukwati

Mbiri ya ili lopatulika ali mizu. Choncho kwambiri kuti apite ku zigawo woyamba kale kwambiri. Ndondomeko ukwati amafotokozedwa m'Baibulo. Kuyambira Old Testament chitomero ndi mgwirizano zaufulu za mwamuna ndi mkazi, amene atenga mwagwirizana ndipo sadziwa chisankho kukhala limodzi komanso mogwirizana ndi mfundo za Mulungu. mawu akuti "zachilendo" timvetsetsa ndizosowa la chilamulo banja, monga mu Malemba.

N'zosadabwitsa kuti ngakhale zovuta chipangizo zafotokozedwa malamulo a m'maiko ambiri ndipo palibe bwino tanthauzo la ukwati. Ichi ndi chifukwa enieni mfundo yakuti ukwati - uwu si pangano malonda komwe ufulu onse ndi udindo zibwenzi ndi amawasonyeza mosiyanasiyana molondola amenable lamulo malamulo. Banja - mgwirizano ndi tanthauzo limeneli ufulu ena ubale wa pakati pa anzanga. Kuti tikhoza chifukwa banja analenga osati osati kwambiri kukwaniritsa ena wosamalira anthu kapena kulera ana, momwe, kufika wauzimu mogwirizana ndi logwirika ( "ndipo awiriwo adzakhala thupi limodzi"), chisamaliro zosoŵa zauzimu ndi thupi la wokondedwa, kuti azitha ndi kuteteza mzake. Ndipo izi suoneka wauzimu, palibe lamulo sangathe zonse bwino.

Poganizira dongosolo la ukwati monga chinthu malamulo, pali mitundu ingapo ya mabanja otere: amene analemba ziwalo wapadera, mpingo ndi leni (anthu omwewo amene analakwitsa otchedwa yapachiweniweni). Non-kuchulukana mu Russia, koma zikuchitika mu dziko mitundu ngati wa ukwati polygyny (mitala), polyandry (Kumbali ina, pamene anthu ambiri), zosakhalitsa kapena fictitious mgwirizano ndipo potsiriza kuchititsa nkhondo zaposachedwapa aukali mwa opanga malamulo ndi pakati okhala okhaokha kapena akazi okhaokha.

Nkosafuna kuchita ndi malamulo umene chitomero imatengedwa malamulo m'mayiko osiyanasiyana ndi Lamulo mosiyana. Ukwati mu Russia, monga zotsatira malamulo a zimenezi kumachitika pamene adula zidzachitika mu mabungwe a boma (monga ngati mu France, Japan, Germany). M'mayiko ena, kusankha mtundu - boma kapena mpingo kulembetsa - amakhalabe ndi akazi a, boma chimatengedwa ngati mmodzi ndi mgwirizano ena (Spain, England, Canada, Italy). maukwati lachitatu lokha mwa mawonekedwe achipembedzo (Israel, ena limati mu US ndi Canada, mayiko achisilamu).

N'zochititsa chidwi kuti mawu "ukwati" amachokera ku mawu achigiriki γάμος, lomwe lachokera ku "kutenga". Kum'fotokozera wakale Russian "brachiti" amatanthauziridwa chinthu umalimbana kusankha bwino zabwino ndi kukana cholakwika, cholakwika. Kuchokera pa zimene takambiranazi, tinganene kuti mawu "ukwati" ngati mgwirizano wa anthu awiri ndi Dzina lake, kusonyeza katundu otsika quality, osati mopitirira tanthauzo lake lexical. Nzosadabwitsa kuti m'mayiko ambiri pali zoletsa ndi ndondomeko ya ukwati achinyamata. Mwachitsanzo, banja Code limanena kuti mapeto a ukwati mu Russia n'zosathekadi, ngati wina akufuna kuyamba banja kale zogwirizana ndi mataye boma banja ndi munthu wina. Komanso si zotheka kugwirizana pakati pa achibale kapena ngati mkwati kapena mkwatibwi zowawa matenda aliwonse maganizo. Ndikoletsedwa ndi lamulo braksochetaniya pakati pa makolo omulera ndi ana atsopano. Pa nthawiyi, banja mu Germany zimenezo n'zotheka ndithu. Koma ngati ophatikizana asiye izi kwa abale, mwachitsanzo kholo ndi mwana. Ndondomeko alipo ukwati lamulo wachibadwidwe wa dziko lino ikutha mu Zikatero udindo umwana.

Monga mmene taonera, kwa zaka za mbiri yake, anthu ndipo safuna njira logwirizana mapangidwe dongosolo ukwati. Mwina ndicho chifukwa nsinga yachibadwa banja lero anali chitetezo motsutsa kumangotsatira maganizo onse ndi ufulu ali osayenerana ndi makhalidwe mkulu.