N'zoona bwanji? Chavuta ndi chiyani ndi izo?

"Musati muziyang'ana mphatso kavalo mkamwa" - mawu amenewa amadziwika onse, koma ambiri naye amatsutsa, makamaka masiku ano, pamene mphatso imene tanthauzo pafupifupi padziko lonse. Ndipotu, akukhulupirira kuti zodula mtengo pano, ndi apamwamba phindu inu wopereka. Pakuti ambiri, ambirinso akukhuzidwa ndi "dongosolo" mphatso, ndiko kunena kuti m'banja kumveka chinenero kuti iwo kuti ndikupatseni inu. Chabwino, mwinamwake izi ndi nzeru zina. Tiyeni mphatso iyi choncho ndi sadzakhala anadabwa, koma nyumba sadzatero zotere. Zofunikira "chizolowezi" zinthu kusangalala kwambiri kuposa zodabwitsa zosafunika. Munthu angakhale, mtima wake ndi moyo padera mu Apereke anu, ndipo osadziwa chimene kupereka yaitali anamusankha, modzipereka kukhulupirira kuti mumakonda. Mwina akanakhala okondwa kupereka chinachake zodula, koma palibe mphamvu ndalama. Ndipo izi sizitanthauza kuti agwiritsidwa kwa inu ndi woipa kuposa amene inu amapatsa ndi golide, diamondi ndi iPhones. Iye analipira mwapadera kwa inu, iye sanaiwale za holide anu, ndipo izi palokha ndi lofunika kwambiri.

Komabe, inu sindimakonda uyu anabwera "diso loipa wotchipa" fano kapena chachikulu Teddy pinki mvuu, ndipo inu kale kuganizira za kumene chamanyazi kuika. Koma samabwera kwa malingaliro anu, bwanji N'zoona? Ayi, ndithudi, kupatsa, koma kaya ndi yabwino osachepera ku mfundo koyenela bwanji? Tiyerekeze kuti womwewo zosafunika pinki mvuu munthu wina. Koma n'kutheka kuti iye adzakhala bwino ndi anthu amene anaupereka kwa inu. Peredaril chidole kapena munthu wina amene adziwe mwiniwake wanu. Kuti, tayerekezani kuti anthu amaona kuchokera pansi pa mtima kupanga inu mphatso, ngati inu modzidzimutsa kuona chinthu kuperekedwa kwa inu pa alendo. Inu Zingakhale zabwino kuona mphatso anu alibe munthu amene anafuna? Ndipo ichi chimodzi chabe mwa zifukwa za mphatso zonse.

Chifukwa china angagone chakuti poyamba mphatso ankanyamula zina maganizo kapena cholinga, kuti ali wopereka ankafuna kuchita chinachake mwa njira iyi. Posankha kachikumbutso, anaika mu izo chidutswa cha moyo wake ndi mphamvu positive. Koma inu sankamvetsa lingaliro, wakupatsa sitikusowa kanthu kwa munthu wina, amene manja abwino kukhala zoipa: mphatso anali "anatsekula" kwa inu, ndipo inu inkaweyulidwa iye. N'zokayikitsa kuti chinthu ichi chidzabweretsa chimwemwe ndi chisangalalo cha mwini latsopano. Komabe pali maganizo ndi kuti Koloko siinakambidwe. Akukhulupirira kuti zimenezi adzapemphedwa kumawachititsa kusokoneza ubale (makamaka ngati sakonda). Munthu akavomera ndi malodza izi, ndi kale zinakuchitikiranipo Kalanga n'kuwononga pambuyo anapereka maso ake, ndi munthu, ndipo pambuyo chakhumi "wotchi Alamu" akupitiriza moyo wosangalala ndi mnzake.

Komabe, bwanji N'zoona? Ambiri mwina, chifukwa ngati munthu apereka kwa inu kwenikweni mtengo, ndiye chabe chikumbumtima tisalole kuthawa mulimonse kanthu. Inu chomwecho / manyazi pambuyo pake kuti nthawi anapulumutsa pa kufufuza ndi ndalama kugula mphatso zabwino, n'kupereka chinthu choyamba chimene chinapezeka mwa nyumba zosafunika. Ngati ndife ofunitsitsa kuchotsa zapathengo mphatso ndipo simukhulupirira mu mitundu yonse ya tsankho likuvutika mphamvu, ndiye, ndithudi, mungapereke chinthu amene akufuna thandizo, kapena kugulitsa mapeto. Pa funso bwanji N'zoona kuti ndikhoza kungoliyankha anu "Ine".