N'chiyani chingachititse chete mu ubale?

Kuti timvetse anyamata kungakhale kovuta kwambiri. Pali mavuto, amene si zotheka popanda chikhumbo chimodzi kuwathetsa kudzipereka ndi kumvana. Zimachitika kuti zoyesayesa zonse Musafooke. Tinganene kuti kaye ubale - ndi mankhwala amene angathe kubwezeretsa chikondi losweka?

Kupanda zolimbikitsa

Ngati pali kufunika kusamuka, kapena zabwino zimene silinena. Kwenikweni, kuthawa mavuto - chizindikiro cha umunthu ofooka. Kapena chilakolako cha anzanga kukhala pamodzi ang'onoang'ono kwambiri motero kuti sindikufuna kuthetsa kusemphana.

Kaye pa ubwenzi akhoza kukhala chizindikiro kuti anthu saona chingatilimbikitse ntchito pa iwo. Monga ulamuliro, poyamba onse chidwi kwambiri, abwenzi kumanga zithunzi abwino mwachangu kufufuza mzake, iwo ali ndi chilakolako ndi chikhumbo, koma choyamba mbuna mabanja ambiri kuphwanya mu mayunitsi ziwiri zosiyana. Iwo kachiwiri kupita kukafunafuna theka lachiwiri, pofuna kupeza okonzeka zopangidwa abwino, osati ntchito pa chimwemwe ambiri.

Ubale ayenera ntchito, onse

Mu unyamata wake, timalakwitsa kuti ife adzamva chikondi pamene anakumana, kuti chilichonse chimachitika mwachibadwa. Ndipo ife modzichepetsa mu izo, kuyembekezera theka ake ena, kuyang'ana pa maso ake ndi kufunsa tsoka: "Mwina nthawi yafika? Chifukwa ndimachita nokha? Kodi cholakwika mwa ine? "

mfundo ndi yakuti kuti mogwirizana jenda amapezeka chipani chimodzi ali ndi chidwi, ntchito ndi chidwi. Koma mu m'badwo uno amakayikira zinthu kwambiri akupita kuti wina chimakakamiza mabwalo padziko zina, atsogolera gule onse pafupi ndi mtengo Christmas, ndi zimakondwerera ena mu ulemerero wake mu kuwala kwa kusirira anthu ena.

Kaye chibwenzi angayambe pamene chikondi kwambiri bwenzi zikubweretsa kwa ulemerero wa kugonana, kutembenuka ndi kupita kukafuna wina amayamikira kwambiri. Ngakhale iye, kwenikweni, mabwenzi onse anali limodzi mosalekeza kaye ndi nthawi yocheza.

Pamene cholinga kukufika

Kwa anthu okonda atsikana ndi bwino kufotokoza tanthauzo ziboola ubale pambuyo yovuta chilakolako. Mwachitsanzo, kwa kugonana chilungamo kwa mwezi umodzi chibwenzi ndi mnyamata. Kuwonjezera, ndi onse chilakolako ndi chikhumbo chake. Ndipo pamene iwo kufika kusangalala mgwirizano, iye kutha kaja, monga Mwamsanga kwinakwake. Ngakhale zinali zodabwitsa kwambiri.

Mwachibadwa, mtsikana zinali zabwino, chifukwa iye chosiyanasiyana zofunika, ankafuna, nthawi zina kwambiri. Mu mutu wanga yomweyo tumphuka mafunso: "Kodi ine chiyani?" "Mwina iye ali lina" Kapena, mwinamwake, pali zifukwa zabwino.

Koma pena, pamaso vuto lililonse kumuletsa kunyamula ake kupyola mu mzinda, ngakhale osati kukondana osachepera misonkhano nthawi zonse. okondedwa A chiyambi chabe monga. Akazi ambiri pankhani imeneyi si mofulumira chiwawa ndi amuna. Iwo amafuna kuyang'anitsitsa, koma mtima kwambiri prikipet kuti mofulumira mwadzidzidzi mnyamata plunges iwo mu chisokonezo kuya abwino.

njira kunja ndi chiyani?

Tikukhulupirira, izi ziri chete mu chibwenzicho. Kodi kuchita kuti adzatsirize ndi kubwerera ku kukambirana mofanana mode kubwekera?

Monga ulamuliro kuyesa kupambana kumbuyo Munthu kapena mnyozo, ndipo ndi osangalatsa kwa lingaliro la chifundo, mapeto enieni zoopsa. Onse, amuna ochepa amatha chisoni munthu wina osati nokha. Choncho njira yokhayo chidwi - kusonyeza kuti mtsikana, ambiri, popanda choipa. Ndithudi, bwino ndi izo, nanenso, koma popanda kugwirizana pa dziko ali ndi zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa. Only mu nkhani iyi munthu kuganiza kuti chinachake akusowa yekha zosangalatsa, koma sangathe kuchotsa cha katundu kuti adzakhala katundu wake.

moyo angadziwe

Anthu ambiri monyanyira moyo angadziwe pamene pali chete mu chibwenzicho. Kodi khalidwe - theka nkhondo. Ndithu zilili - maganizo kuzindikira kuti vuto si inu. Chifukwa maganizo chisoni chikondi zakale anabadwa kapena ndakatulo wokongola kapena nyimbo, koma m'kati mwawo ali Chowawa kwambiri, makamaka pamene munthu akudwala umbuli ndi kulekera yekha. Ndipotu saganizira iye, akutembenuzidwa, ndipo sizikumveka chake.

Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti chete mu ubwenzi kwambiri kumverera kwa chinthu choyamikiridwa. Ndipotu, ngati munthu eluta, ali bwino kuposa ife. Ndipo mu nkhani iyi m'pofunika kuyesetsa kuti, mopitirira kwa izo. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, inu kwenikweni wosakanikirana ndi mzake, makhalidwe abwino sanaone kapena sankaona kuti zimenezi pomupembedza ntchito monga feteleza kukula kwa cholinga chanu, maganizo anu sakufuna kuphunzira ndi kugawana.

Kodi kuchita?

N'zosatheka zimenezo zingakhale mtengo kuganizira kuti palibe lingaliro pothamangitsa munthu, akukumana kutali ndi inu. Koma pamene maganizo a chikondi akanagonjetsa chifukwa, munthu kutengeka chilakolako ndi achibadwidwe, limene zonse zomveka ndinangowasiya mozondoka.

Inu mwina unsaid bwenzi zinthu kwambiri popanda ndiponso Mwachinsinsi mobisa. Kodi iye ndikudziwa yemwe inu muli, ngati inu simukufuna kuti kulankhula? Osati kuti kufooka pa mtima wa Georgia, ndi bwino mu mawonekedwe omasuka kufotokoza maganizo anga onse.

M'pofunika kwambiri kuti wosasamala mawu bwenzi si anakutulutsa nokha ndiponso musadziponye chilichonse chopangidwa akuthwa kuposa kuyembekezera. Ndiye chete kwa adzatembenukira kwa mapeto a m'banjalo. Kawirikawiri, anthu kutembenuka ndi kusiya akaona kuti kuika zinthu, linatseka bokosi, momasuka. Ngakhale mphindi onse zosangalatsa anakumana pamodzi, ambiri amakonda lamulo la kumtima kwawo.

Kodi ngati simugwira ntchito?

Ngati inu kuti zikhale zosavuta moyo, mwakachetechete kufunsa mafunso anu onse ndi kufotokoza malingaliro awo, zotsatira anakhumba zimatheka ndi kukumananso osangalala mabanja m'chikondi sizichitika, izo basi ayenera kutenga.

Kusankha yopuma pa ubwenzi bwenzi limasonyeza kuti simuyenera kuti zoipa kwa iye popanda inu ndi chete pakuti ndi bwino kwambiri mawu anu. Chiyembekezo chokha ndi incompleteness chimene kuchotsa poyambira kukambirana unakhazikitsidwa.

Ofooka ku chosadziwa ndi ovuta kwambiri kuposa kuona pang'ono manyazi, koma pa nthawi yomweyo kuphunzira chirichonse chimene limakusangalatsani. Ndipo ifetu kunjenjemera pamaso amene timawakonda, timaopa kunena mawu cholakwika, mantha. Koma ngati, pofuna kulankhula ndi munthu kuti akamagwiritsa ndi kugwedeza ngati inu pitani pa odzigudubuza pa benchi dongo, musati inu akhoza kumasuka ndi kuilandira ubwenzi woterewu?

Ndi kumanga fano la chiyembekezo komanso losangalatsa, anthu amatha miyezi kuyembekezera, kumamunyengerera okondedwa ndi kukhulupirira chakuti, zikuoneka, iye limangoletsa zitani. Kudzikonza chete mu ubwenzi mulibe munthu amene amakonda ndi kulemekeza inu.

Izo ziyenera zingafunike mosamala

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri - kuchita zonse zitheka ndi dzanja lake, ndipo ngati yankho si adzaimira, izo ziyenera kukhala zosavuta, ndipo osati kuzunzika nokha chikondi unrequited. Okonda zambiri amagwa mbali ziwiri:

• kwambiri mobisa, mantha ndi liwu za maganizo ake;

• pamene palibe mphamvu kuti apirire ndi maganizo analeka, pali chovuta kuphulika chiphala - utuluke chiphalaphala zimatha kuyambitsa kunja, moto zonse mu njira yake, kuphatikizapo mwayi pang'ono a chiyanjanitso.

Chenjerani onse zoipa awiri awa, kufunafuna pansi pakati, kukhala nokha, chifukwa atavala chophimba kumaso ndi kukhala kumverera bwino kuti ankafuna kumulavulira zonse ndithu.

Pali nthawizonse mwayi

Kodi onse opanda chiyembekezo? Ndipotu zimachitika kuti mabanja converge kachiwiri. Kumene, zoterezi zikuchitika. Koma zimenezi zimafuna kufunitsitsa ya akazi. Mosakayikira, palibe munthu wangwiro.

Ndi povuta kuti akakumane ndi munthu osachepera chaka, ndi kulakwitsa. Oyera pakati pathu, ndipo ubwenzi abwino, ngati kumwamba buluu popanda mtambo wosakwatiwa, unalipo pa masamba a mabuku. Ngati Mlengi wa nthawi kwanthawi kupendanso zinthu ndi kusintha njira yake kanthu, zonse bwino mwayi kupanga. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti atakhala chete mu ubale kumverera wozungulira kwatsopano kumayambika.

Pali chidwi filimu ndi American wotsogolera Jerry Rees, "kukwatirana Man". Malinga ndi nkhaniyi Makhalidwe amene ankaimba Kim Besindzher ndi Alek Bolduin anawabweretsa patsogolo pa guwa kasanu. mbiri mwawo mwadzaza chilakolako ndi maganizo owala, koma si wathunthu, inde popanda zovuta kumvetsa. Komabe, abwenzi, mwanjira ina, kubwerera mu mikono ya wina ndi mzake. Amene ali mawunikidwe kwambiri pa chitukuko zina pa moyo wawo munthu, zingakhale zothandiza kwambiri nthawi amaona sewero lanthabwala chikondi.

Pitirizani kulemekeza nokha ndi mnzanu

Cipo ningadzakulambeni "konse"! Ndi zovuta kuti tinene mmene kumatenga chete mu chibwenzicho. Mugulu ndi osiyana. Kodi chimachitika ndi kuti anthu sitinamuone kwa zaka, ndipo kenako pakati pawo linakhala alikukonzeka watsopano mphamvu kumverera.

Mulimonsemo, chibwenzi ndi Zitatero mwa ubwino osati chifukwa handcuff ukwati. Nthawi zambiri, ndikuzolowera theka lake chachiwiri, ife kwa inuyo sinkhani, athe kuzindikira, koma adagawana kwa kanthawi, kukhala ngati munthu wapaulendo m'chipululu amene akufuna kumwa madzi kuchokera kwawo bwino.

Pali onse otchuka akuti: "Kodi umakonda - tiyeni. Ngati wanu - adzabwerera. Apo ayi, ine sindinayambe wanu ndipo sanali. " Choncho naye yabwino kwambiri akusonyeza zimene inu muli nayo chidwi. Ngati akufuna kupita - ndi dzanja lake lamanja, sakufuna kuti abwerere - Iye adali okondwa.

Pankhaniyi, mudzakhala bwino kwambiri kuposa ngati manyazi ndi smashing mbale ndi kufuula: "Ndinapereka (a) inu zaka zofunika kwambiri za moyo wanga!" Ngati mukonda - tiyeni ... The apa sikuti molemekeza okondedwa, komanso za zinthu kudziletsa, chikondi. Kudzidalira - ndi maziko a umunthu, amene ambike masewera kusalankhula mahomoni. Ndipo mikangano adzathetsedwa ndi chilolezo cha onsewo.