Mawu anzeru za ana

Nthawi zonse makolo ndi mantha wapadera mbamphedza mayi a mwanayo. Nzeru anasonkhanitsa zaka pang'onopang'ono anapanga aphorisms za kukula ndi maphunziro a ana, omwe angathandize chilengedwe chawo. Mawu omveka a ana alola lero kuzindikira mavuto alipo mu maphunziro ndi kuthetsa iwo kudzera njira zaphindu kwa anzake. Izi aphorisms okha zili zofunika kwambiri. M'nkhaniyi muli mfundo za ana kuti zingaoneke chidwi ndi wofunika kwa makolo awo.

"Aliyense amene alakwira mwana, anyalanyaza wopatulika" (Cato Wamkulu)

Kuyambira kale ankakhulupirira kuti kupereka ululu mwamuna wamng'ono n'chimodzimodzi ndi zosayenela manda. Ana mwachibadwa bwino ndi lotseguka, monga angelo. N'kosayenera mwano pa chizindikirochi, wangwiro mukhoza asawononge mwana. Zilibe kanthu, wamkulu kapena chabe mwana.

Mawu omveka a ana, ngati limeneli likutiphunzitsa chiyani kudzichepetsa, kukoma mtima, Kuyankha, luso kuzindikira zimene muli nazo. Ngati munthu wamkulu akulola kuvulaza mwana wamng'ono, iye manyazi umunthu wake, iye kusewera ndi moto. Malinga ndi nthano iliyonse mwana ngati mwana asamalidwe ndi angelo kuti ndinu wotsimikiza kusamalira kubwezeretsa chilungamo.

"Mwana aliyense ali muyezo wina wanzeru ndi anthu aluso nthawizonse kukhalabe ana" (Arthur Schopenhauer)

Amadziwika kuti mwamuna wamng'ono akuyesera zonse mu mphamvu yake. Iye konse kwa mphindi ankakayikira kuti adzafa bwino zazikulu mtsogolo. Pamene akupereka, amatero ndi wamkulu wofewa ndi kudzikonda kuyiwala, kusangalala njira yokha, ndipo osati womangidwa zotsatira yochepa. Ana safuna kupita ku ntchito tsiku lililonse ndi ndalama, kotero iwo akhoza kuchita zimene iwo akufuna, koma pa nthawi yomweyo omasuka mwamtheradi ndi osangalala.

Tiyenera kuzindikira kuti mwana aliyense - katswiri wamkulu, amene manja ndi umodzi wa dziko. Iye ndi mlengi ndi wojambula, pali chinthu chosatheka kwa iye. Kodi ife anthu aakulu, limaleka ntchito chidziwitso ana, tisalole kuti afotokoze paokha. Ndiyeno mwana amaphunzira dissemble, kupewa kusakondwa kwathu makolo. Ziganizo za ana nthawi zonse zolondola ndiponso anzeru.

"Penyani ana - ndi kuona nokha" (Yan Makyuen)

Makolo ambiri moona anadabwa ndi kudabwa chifukwa ana awo kukula Moody ndi wopanduka. Zikuoneka kuti amacheza ndi zonse muyenera: wachikondi, chisamaliro, chithandizo, chikondi. Koma kwenikweni, kuwonjezera pa zimenezi, n'kofunika kwambiri kumverera zimene amachita masitepe onse awa: wabwino (tcheru) mtima kapena basi zosowa. Ana bwino kumva maganizo owona kulinga okha, iwo mosavuta kuzindikira chinyengo. Pamene ife tikuyang'ana pa ana awo, nthawi zonse iwo kuona kuti ndi chimene chiri choperewera mu umunthu wathu anapanga. mawu Great za ana oyenera kuwamvetsera.

"Ngati ana sindimakonda, iwo kukula mu akulu amene singakhale mtundu" (Perl Bak)

Akamanena mawu ali kokha chikondi cha kholo amalenga chidaliro mwana mtsogolo ndi ambiri bwino. Kaya zochitika kumachitika mu dziko, mwana nthawi zonse zofunika kudziwa kuti amakondedwa ndi kutetezedwa mavuto aliwonse. Ubwenzi mayi ndi bambo mitundu mwana m'njira kumapeto kwa maganizo zotengera malingaliridwe a chowonadi, omasukirana kwa dziko.

chikhalidwe ichi zimakhudza kakulidwe ka umunthu wake, kuthandiza mwana kuti athetse mavuto ndi muyenda motsogozedwa ankafuna. Ngati makolo alibe katundu mwana wokhala ndi chisamaliro chake, usati uyankhule kwa iye mawu odekha, iye anakhala kupatuka ndi kukhulupirira zonse momuzungulira. Ziganizo za ana kuthandiza akulu kuzindikira mlingo yaikulu kwambiri udindo ndiponso udindo wawo angamulerere munthu wamng'ono.

"The woyamba mwana - ndi chidole otsiriza ndi mdzukulu - mwana wanu" (mwambi)

Mu unyamata wake, nthaŵi zambiri sitichitapo ngoziyo zithumwa onse oona a umayi ndi utate. Panthawi imeneyi, aliyense wa ife anapereka palokha ntchito yeniyeni kuti ayenera analankhula, ndipo mwana zina mosadziwa amaona chopinga kukhazikitsa kufunika.

Monga kukhala wokhwima, munthu amatha kuyamikira ndi chimwemwe chachikulu makolo awo ndi udindo wa mfundo ubale mgwirizano, "abambo ndi ana". Ziganizo pa nkhani imeneyi nthawi zonse zomveka. Nthawi zambiri yekha mkubwela kwa adzukulu akubwera kumvetsa wapadera wa chofunikira ndi tanthauzo la moyo.

Choncho, mawu a ana kutchula nzeru zaka zakubadwa kuti sangathe bwino chifukwa, koma phunzirani kuganiza za mtima wotseguka. Momwe ife kulera ana athu zimadalira zathu, ndipo tsogolo lawo.