Mafunso atatu kuti apange dziko: tanthauzo la moyo ndi cholinga chithandizo ndi kuphunzira pa zolakwa

Moni, wokondedwa owerenga! M'nkhani ino Ndikufuna kulankhula za chiwerengero cha zolakwa nzeru zaumunthu, omwe amadza chifukwa chachikulu pa moyo wa anthu ambiri. Ngakhale kuti zoonekeratu, amatulutsa ochepa kukayikira pabvomelezo la anzeru akale. Pali zinthu paradoxical: ngakhale bwino kutsutsana, palibe amene amaona chifukwa limatiphunzitsa ulamuliro kwambiri.

zolakwa zitatu

Choncho, lero tiona njira kukwaniritsa cholinga cha moyo (kwambiri tanthauzo la moyo); mawu a m'Baibulo akuti "kuchita kwa ena monga imwe kuti iwo akuchitireni inu"; ndipo nabivshem oskomu "kuphunzitsa zolakwa za ena." Ndithudi, mfundo zitatu izi bwino kwa aliyense monga "lotengeka ku mitu" kuyambira mchikuta ndi. Chabwino, tiyeni tiyambe kuyambira pachiyambi.

Cholinga cha moyo

Amadziwika kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi mtundu wina wa cholinga lonse limene ine ndikufuna kuti apindule, zivute zitani. Mwachitsanzo, ena akufuna kusintha malo awo okhala; ena - kugula mtengo (kapena ayi) chinthu; lachitatu - chilichonse kuti ndipeze. Magwero ena amanena kuti ngati cholinga cha moyo, ndithu, osati chikangoperekedwa ndi kunja, ndi wochokera moyo mu njira ya wake kukwaniritsa vuto lililonse kwambiri ayenera osadzuka. Chotero mawonedwe Mwachitsanzo, chimakhulupirira wotchedwa Dmitry Verishchagin pa mndandanda wake mabuku zoyenera chitukuko cha mphamvu zambiri. Mfundo izo zikumveka zomveka ndithu: kumayenda mwa ufulu (zoyembekezeka, kufafaniza - amakhulupirira amene) malangizo ndi chimwemwe mu mtima mwanga, kulera mlingo wa umoyo. Mwachitsanzo, tasankhula njira aunika mu masamba gwero Nyumbayi wanga, basi monga choncho. Pofuna wake mphamvu moyo pachimake, ndi dziko zimathandiza kuthetsa mavuto kuyambika. Ichi ndi chifukwa, pamene adampeza kuti tanthauzo la zinthu zonse. Wina chidwi angakhale osiyana, koma ndithudi ali. Nkofunika kuti amvetsere whisperings moyo wake.

Choncho, mavuto osiyanasiyana ndi mavuto kuimira kulakwitsa. dziko palokha zikusonyeza kuti njira ndi yolondola, ndi mlendo, wokhazikitsidwa ndi munthu. Mwachitsanzo, anthu ambiri amadziwa kuti nthawi zambiri m'pofunika kukhala ndi zolinga zimene Kwenikweni, si kofunika. Choncho, mwina mwamunayo sayenera nyumba mtengo mu mzinda wotukuka ndipo moyo wake atamukoka moyo mu dziko, koma dongosolo wamba mtengo atseka maganizo. Izi zimachitika nthawi zambiri. Makamaka masiku ano pamene koposa mavuto a zachilengedwe aukitsidwa, ndi cholinga. Ndipo pamene izo zifika ku ukalamba, munthu wotero, ndi adadzonga pa mpikisano wokalandira Musanyengedwe mphamvu, akadziwa chilakolako chake chenicheni, saatha tanthauzo la moyo, koma kuzindikira palibe nkhokwe zoweta. M'mawu ena, zomwe zimalepheretsa zolinga zambiri amasonyeza kusankha zolakwika.

Komabe, mu moyo tsopano ndiyeno pali zochitika komwe nkhani kufunika kukwaniritsa. The autobiographies wa otchuka ndi amalonda chikuoneka bwinobwino. Kumene, kuyesa choonadi mungathe odzikonda okha, koma amati izi "zosamveka" cholinga, ndithu, kuchokera moyo. Nzeru ndi zotsatirazi: zotheka mavuto - ndi mayeso mdziko pa mtima anthu kupeza mukufuna, kotero kupanda kulimbikira kusewera nthabwala wankhanza. Kumasulira moyo, n'zotheka kuumba ndi kukwaniritsa zolinga kutumikira masitepe monga achilendo. Onse ntchito izi zimafunikira njira kwambiri njira.

mawu lalikulu la bukhu

Mu chaputala chachisanu ndi chiwiri la Mateyu akuti, "... mu zinthu zonse, chirichonse chimene inu mukufuna kuti anthu akuchitireni inu, inunso kuti iwo ...". Koyamba izo zikumveka ndithu zomveka: kuthandiza ena - ndi chifukwa mfulu, koma tione limasonyeza "mbuna". Kuposa chitsanzo Sikuti: achinyamata zimadziŵa bwanji zoipa kuzindikira nyimbo chi mibadwo yapita. Pankhaniyi ntchito wotchulidwa m'Baibulo? Ndipotu, amuna achikulire, achinyamata pa mtima ndikufuna kugawana bwino - Retro zoyambirira ndi kalembedwe chachiwiri lolemera. Mwachitsanzo, kuwerenga maganizo a anthu akumidzi ndi osiyana ndi mzinda, ngakhale palibe chinyengo pa nkhaniyi. Yankho; pamawu ichi - kuweruza ena paokha, ndi zolakwika, ndi kuthandiza ena apite osati kuchokera mu mtima, komanso malingaliro.

zolakwa za ena

Kuyambira ndili mwana, mwamuna anamuuza kuti akufuna kudziwa kuchokera missteps ena, ndipo awo, monga kuti asachite. Kunena za atayamba njinga akhoza zimachitika chimodzimodzi. Komabe, zolakwika, koma anapanga ndi zonse enviable. Chifukwa chiyani?

chifukwa chake n'chapafupi: kuzindikira chinachake, muyenera kugula zinachitikira anu, ipyole chilichonse. Iyi ndi njira chabe. Akutali zitsanzo safuna kupita: mu tsiku yozizira frosty, munthu atakulungidwa mu mpango ndi, amaponya nyumba amabisa manja ake mu matumba ake ndi osafunda. Ndikhulupirireni - Iye sadali kunamizira izo. Pa nthawi yomweyo, winayo ali wopanda kapu ndi, mu jekete lili losamangidwa bwino malo ndi onse, ngakhale otentha (pokonzekera monyoza, Ine anazindikira kuti iye anali wodzisunga). Ndithudi, chochekera lililonse. Kutsiliza: tonse ndife osiyana ndi kuti n'kosatheka kwa mmodzi, ena akhoza popanda kuchita khama lililonse owonjezera. N'chifukwa chake zimene zinachitikira katundu aliyense ali, yake payekha. Ndipo pakupita pa yemweyo rakes anthu Adzayesetsa nthawi ndi nthawi. Aliyense kamodzi, koma ndi kudzaza anu "kwerani."

Kufotokoza, tikhoza kunena kuti olakwika awa atatu amene anapereka choonadi chapamwamba, ndi chikoka chidwi mapangidwe dziko ndi moyo tsogolo la munthu pakati pa anthu. Mwina nthawi mavutowo? Lekani kwa kamphindi ndi kutanthauzira olakwika wamba.