Kutaya kwa libido ndi vuto kwenikweni?

Poyambirira ndi kofunikira kufotokozera ndi mawu akuti "libido". Kotero, chiani ichi? Zikupezeka kuti zimachokera kwa mlembi wa matenda a psychoanalysis, Zygmunt Freud, pantchito yake yomwe ili ndi udindo wapakati. Anadza kumapeto kuti libido ndi mphamvu yamtengo wapatali, mizu yake iyenera kupezeka kugonana. Kwenikweni, izi ndi zofanana ndi chilakolako cha kugonana tsiku ndi tsiku.

Zikanema, ngati titsatira Freud, ndiye kuti libido ndi chilakolako, chilakolako, chilakolako, cholinga cha kupeza chisangalalo. Mphamvu ya libido, yomwe ikuyenda m'madera ozungulira, imapanga magawo a kukula kwaumunthu. Freud anawerenga asanu mwa iwo:

1. Kuyambira kubadwa mpaka chaka chimodzi - m'kamwa.
2. Kuchokera chaka chimodzi kufika zaka zitatu - siteji ya anal.
3. Kuchokera zaka zitatu mpaka zisanu - phallic stage.
4. Zaka zisanu mpaka khumi ndi ziwiri ndi malo osasinthasintha.
5. Kuyambira zaka khumi ndi ziwiri mpaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu - gawo la chiwerewere.

Komanso, Freud anali wotsimikiza kwambiri kuti ngati chitukuko cha libido chikudodometsa, vuto la maganizo limakhazikitsidwa, komabe, panthawi ya maphunziro a kutsimikizira, chidaliro chake sichinapezeke.

Mukumvetsetsa kwa Karl Youngsters, libido ndi mphamvu yamaganizo ya munthu wonse. Amatulutsa mawu a libido ndi mphamvu ya Qi kapena Prana, yomwe imakhala kummawa.

Akatswiri ogonana masiku ano amakhulupirira kuti libido ndi chilakolako chogonana, chomwe chimaonedwa kuti n'choyenera kwa anthu onse omwe atha msinkhu. Mapangidwe ake amayamba mu ubwana ndi kudziwika kwa mwana wa kugonana kwake ndi kukhwima mwakugonana kwathunthu, kudutsa magawo onse apakati, monga chikondi cha platonic, zochitika zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Chikhumbo chokhwima cha amuna ndi akazi ndikumangokhalira kukondana, kugonana ndi kugonana mogwirizana ndi makhalidwe ndi makhalidwe abwino a umunthu.

Zomwe zimawonjezera ndi kuchepetsa libido

Popeza libido ndi chilakolako cha kugonana, osati chikoka chokha, mphamvu yake imadalira pa zifukwa zosiyanasiyana. Malingana ndi American sexologists, zifukwa zingapo zazikulu zomwe zingathe kuyendetsedwa bwino ndi zotsatira za libido. Kotero, ngati libido yatha, ndiye chifukwa chake chingakhale:

• Moyo ndi vuto lenileni kwa anthu ambiri, monga momwe munthu amadziwira kwathunthu pa kusamalira banja, kunyumba, ntchito zamaluso, ndi nthawi zina nthawi zovuta sizikwanira ngakhale kugona. Anthu ogonana ndi abambo amalangiza pazochitika zotero kuti azikhala ndi kalendala yokonzekera kugonana, ngakhale zitakhala zopanda pake, koma zidzathetsa kusakhutana kwa wina ndi mzake pazifukwa zogonana, kenaka kufunikira kwa izo kudzatha.
• Kusokonezeka maganizo, mantha, nkhawa. M'dziko lino, anthu amaiwala za kugonana. Pachifukwa ichi, sikofunika kuti muyambe kulowetsa mu "kowa", kuyankhulana ndikofunikira, kuti chidziwitsocho chiletsedwe.
• Chisokonezo, chokhalira. Kumverera kuti ubalewo watopera kwathunthu ndipo zokhumudwitsidwa zowonjezereka zingathetsedwe ndi kuthandizidwa ndi chochitika chatsopano pabedi. Kuyankhulana kochezeka pa nkhani ya chilakolako cha kugonana ndi mnzanu, kuphunzira podziwa zinsinsi za Kama Sutra kudzathandiza kubwezeretsanso kugonana kwa wina ndi mzake.

Kuchepetsa libido mwa amuna

Nthawi zambiri mwamuna libido amavutika chifukwa cha maganizo. Zaka zaposachedwapa, anthu ogonana amadziwa kuchepa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana kwa achinyamata, athanzi. Chifukwa cha izi nthawi zambiri ndizolakwika zoletsedwa ndi makolo kuyambira ali mwana, mwachitsanzo, udindo wopanga chuma cha banja lamtsogolo, kukula kwa ntchito ndi zina zotere. Choncho achinyamata ayenera kuika mphamvu zawo zonse kuti akwanilitse cholinga "chachikulu", izi zimatenga zaka, zomwe angathe kukhala mosangalala m'banja.

Amuna ambiri amatha kuvutika chifukwa cha kutopa, nkhawa, ndi kukhumudwa, zomwe zingachititse kuledzeretsa mowa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, mwa njirayo, kugwiritsa ntchito chamba nthawi yaitali kumapangitsa kuti spermatozoa isapangidwe. Nthawi zina chifukwa chochepa cha libido chikhoza kukhala zovuta zogonana. Mwachibadwa, chikoka chachikulu chimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi physiology, ndiko kuti, testosterone mlingo.

Kodi mungathetse bwanji vuto lanu?

1. Yambani kudya mwachizolowezi, osaiwala masamba ndi zipatso, komanso za amuna aphrodisiacs.
2. Kudya zakudya zokhala ndi zincini - zakuthupi zofunikira za ma molecule a testosterone.
3. Ora lachisanu ndi chitatu akugona mu chipinda chakuda ndi chinyontho ndicho chizolowezi cha kupanga mahomoni.
4. Sikofunika kuchita khama ndi zakumwa zakumwa zoledzeretsa, makamaka ndi mowa, womwe uli ndi phytoestrogens wambiri - mafananidwe a mahomoni a akazi.