Choyamba Chikondi: Mbiri ya moyo

chikondi choyamba ... Izo posapita kenako aliyense. Zilibe kanthu kuti munthuyo akufuna kapena ayi, izo sizidzakhalaponso kutali malire a chowonadi, amatenga mu dziko la maloto, maganizo, malingaliro acuity, ndipo nthawizina, tsoka, kukhumudwa chachikulu. Choyamba Chikondi nthawizonse amabwera nthawi pamene ali kuyang'ana. Izi zimachitika nthawi zambiri mu zaka sekondale. Kumene, pali anthu amene amakumbukira akumwetulira maganizo amphamvu ngakhale mu gulu wamng'ono wa sukulu ya mkaka, koma nkomwe kwambiri wotchedwa chikondi chenicheni.

Ndipo kwenikweni ndi maganizo oyamba amene anthu akukumana poyerekezera ndi atsikana, nthawi zambiri amabweretsa ululu okha komanso mavuto. Ambiri kale Subconsciously anakonza, ndi kuwerenga mabuku ndi kumva zambiri nkhani za ena. Iwo amakhulupirira kuti poyamba chikondi adzabwera, kenako pakubwera ena. Ndipo umboni wosonyeza kuti zimenezi n'zoona. maganizo amenewa kawirikawiri zimachitika nthawi yotsiriza. mbiri A kumene anthu kulumikiza miyoyo yawo ndi chinthu chikondi choyamba, ndi m'chipani. Koma zimenezi sizikutanthauza kuti maganizo atsopano akuwuka mu unyamata, tinganene kuti ngati chinachake mopusa, zosafunikira, achibwana.

Malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo, chikondi choyamba ndi mayeso aakulu kwa umunthu. Zimenezi zidzakhala, zimadalira m'tsogolo, ndiye kodi kugona ndi anyamata m'tsogolo. Akatswiri amanena kuti, Choncho, chikondi achinyamata ayenera kutha kwathunthu. Za tanthauzo limeneli ndiye basi ayenera kukumbukira ndi chisoni pang'ono, kumwetulira kapena wachikondi. Koma, mwatsoka, kuti mukupatsidwa chifaniziro cha wokonda woyamba amayesetsa moyo wake wonse, ali kutali ndi zachilendo. Nthawi zambiri iwo kukumana ndi akazi. Mwina ali osatetezeka kwambiri kuposa anthu zolemekezeka onse ndipo sachedwa oona. Koma, koma, madona nthawi zambiri munakhala kudzera mmakhalidwe awo zokhudza chikondi chake choyamba kumva ululu, simungathe kumanga ubale wabwinobwino ndi anthu amene ayandikira, ndi amuna enieni. Iwo sangakhoze kukhala moyo kukumbukira ndi chipsompsono woyamba kapena kugonana ndi wokondedwa, poganiza kuti palibe Mulungu kwambiri adzatha. Inde, chikondi choyamba silidzaiwalika, ndi ichi - mfundo. Koma kumbukirani m'pofunika yekha pa nsonga ya kutsitsimuka.

Sindidzaiwala chikondi amayamba kubwera kwa madona aang'ono, amene sanathe kupeza chimwemwe m'banja. Ndiko kuti, iwo akhoza kukwatiwa, kubereka ndi kulera ana, koma moyo kwa kuutsiriza ndekha ndi malingaliro a Iye. Ngakhale Ndipotu iye anali kalekale aiwala za moyo wawo, ndipo ndithudi palibe wabwino anawachitira, ngakhale kale ngakhale kwambiri mu nthawi ino. Akazi amene mukufuna masochist, nthawi zonse kukumbukira masiku akale, mufunika kuleka utsi palokha ndipo ena. Ndi bwino kuthetsa mavuto awo mu dziko lenileni.

Komanso zimachitika kuti idealize unyamata wawo tanthauzo la iwo amene basi amakonda kuvutika. akazi awa ndi kukankha mwa oipa. Iwo anabwera ndi kupitiriza nkhani analephera ndi moyo mu mutu wanga mobwerezabwereza. Pali anthu nthawi kuti sachedwa maganizo losanganikirana. Iwo amakukondani ndipo mwamuna panopa, koma pa nthawi yomweyo, ndipo musalole malingaliro akale.

Kodi pali malangizo aliwonse mungapereke wofera zimenezi? Moyo mu nthawi ino. Ndipo ngati chikondi choyamba kwa inu ndi mtima kwambiri, ndipo anayamba ululu zosaneneka ndi kukhumudwa, kumasula izo. Iwalani wake wa munthu, koma mmodzi yekha kukumbukira moyo iliyonse sadzatero. Zonse zimene anthu, kupita ziyenera kukhalira. Choncho ndikofunikira kuti ndikuuzeni za tsogolo la "zikomo" chifukwa anapereka maganizo kamodzi kwambiri. Ndipo pamene iwo anachoka, "chilonda" mtima, kuchititsa ululu, ndiye chizindikiro kuti moyo chabe. Latsopano kumverera ngati kwenikweni kutsegula moyo wanu, amene amakhala ndi limathetseratu vuto lina lililonse mavuto.