"Chikondi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi" - kupanga-kulingalira

Mafilimu ndi mabuku ambiri, ndakatulo, ma buku ndi nkhani zazifupi zimaperekedwa pa mutu uwu. Kwa ambiri, nkhani ya zokambirana zathu lero ndi tanthauzo la moyo ndi chinsinsi cha chimwemwe. Aliyense, kamodzi kamodzi adadziwa izi, adzakumbukira kumverera kwa moyo. Wina adzakhala ngati moto woopa kubwereza, ndipo wina, m'malo mwake, amayesetsa kuti achite. Monga ambiri amalingalira kale, kumverera uku ndi chikondi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi (choyeseko chomwe tipereka pansipa). M'nkhaniyi tidzapereka magawo awiri a nkhaniyi pa mutuwu, komanso tidzakambirana za kumvetsetsa kwakumverera koteroko mu ntchito za zowerengeka.

Kodi chikondi n'chiyani?

Lero lingaliro ili ndi lovuta komanso losavuta. Kuvuta kwa kutanthauzira ndiko kuti kumvetsa kwake aliyense amapereka chinthu chake. Kwa wina, izi ndi mphatso ndi kupsompsonana chifukwa cholekanitsa, koma kwa wina ndikumverera kuti wina sadandaula ndi moyo wake.

Chikondi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi (zomwe mukuyembekezerapo m'munsimu) zingakhale zosiyana: zogwirizana ndi zopanda pake, zokhumba, zamphamvu, komanso platonic. Ndicho chifukwa chake n'kovuta kunena m'mawu ochepa za chozizwitsa choona. Koma ife tidzayesabebe kuchita izo.

Pamwamba ife tatsimikiza kale kuti tikukamba za kumverera. Koma momwe mungamvetsetse kuti ndi za chikondi, osati za chilakolako, chilakolako, kukhudzidwa mtima kapena chizolowezi? Akale akafanizira chikondi, chilakolako cha moto woyaka moto, mphamvu yake ndi yamphamvu, koma imatentha mofulumira kwambiri. Ngakhale chikondi chenicheni iwo amatcha "moto wauyaya", "nyumba", yomwe imawotchera mosalekeza.

Ulendo wa nthawi zolemba ndi ntchito

Chikondi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi (chothandizira m'mawu awiri chidzafotokozedwa m'nkhaniyi) nthawi zonse inali yopambana-kupambana mutu wa ntchito zamakono. Anapereka zithunzi ndi ndakatulo, nyimbo, nyimbo, kenako - mafilimu ndi mawonedwe a zisudzo. Kodi olemba ndi anzeru ankanena bwanji za izo mu nyengo zosiyana za anthu?

Amantes amentes - "Oyamikira - opusa" - analemba Aroma kale, ndipo anali m'njira yawo yoyenera. Pambuyo pake, nthawi ya Anacreon, chikondi chinasangalatsa, wolemba ndakatulo anaiyika pambali ndi vinyo. Koma ndakatulo zakugonana za Sapho zinkakumbanso ku Olympus. Chiwonetsero chokondeka chinafanizidwa ndi Mulungu, kulemekeza ndi kupembedza chikondi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Zomwe zikupezeka mu nyumba yosungiramo zinthu zakale "Zikuwoneka ngati milungu" inali nyimbo yamtundu wachisomo chowawa komanso chowawa panthawi yomweyo.

Kutsitsimutsa

Kukhazikitsidwa kwatsopano, ndi dzanja lamanja la Petrarch ndi Dante wamkulu, adalimbikitsa maganizo amenewa ku mphatso yamtengo wapatali, yokhazikika kwa osankhidwa okha. Iwo anayamba kuimba nyimbo zosinkhasinkha, zoyera, zopanda pake.

Pambuyo pa William Shakespeare mu masautso osafa "Romeo ndi Juliet" adamuwonetsa iye mwamphamvu kwambiri kuti imfa yokha ingakhale pakati pa okonda.

M'badwo uliwonse umasonyeza chikondi ndi zochitika zake mwanjira yakeyake. Koma chofunika ndi chimodzi - kumverera uku ndi mphatso yaikulu kwambiri imene munthu sangagule ndi kupambana. Sikovuta kuti upeze izo, momwe ungasunge ndi kusunga.

Mmene mungalembe nkhaniyi?

Monga momwe tikuonera m'magulu apamwamba, chikondi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, nkhani yolembedwa, si nkhani yosavuta. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti ngati muli ndi malingaliro abwino, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kudzilemba nokha, pogwiritsa ntchito ndemanga yanu. Komabe, pali zifukwa pamene palibe chomwe chimabwera m'maganizo. Ndiye, mwinamwake, dongosolo lanu lidzabwera moyenera. Njira yoyamba:

1. Chidule chachidule.
2. Tsatanetsatane wa lingaliro.
3. Nchifukwa chiyani tikusowa chikondi?
4. Zotsatira.

Njira yachiwiri imagwirizana kwambiri ndi mabuku.

1. Mau oyamba.
2. Chikondi mu ndakatulo ya zaka za siliva.
3. Kutsiliza.

Sankhani chimodzi mwa zosankha - ndipo pangani nokha. Kapena mupatseni ufulu wanu wokhazikika, chifukwa munthu aliyense, monga malingaliro ake ndi malingaliro ake, ndi wapadera ndi njira yake.

Kulingalira kwapangidwe: "Chikondi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi"

Mu ntchito yathu tidzakambirana za chikondi. Ndipo moyenera, ndi chiyani ndipo chimafunikira anthu?

Chikondi ndi mawu akalekale omwe amabwera kwa ife kuchokera ku chinenero cha Proto-Slavic. Lingaliro limeneli linkadziwika ngakhale ku Greece wakale. Komanso, Agiriki anzeru adasankha mitundu iwiri ya chikondi :

Eros ndi mphamvu zamaganizo, zamphamvu zomwe zimatenga chifuniro cha munthu ndi malingaliro ake.

Filia - chikondi ndi ngakhale, kukhala bata; Kumverera-ubwenzi ndi kusankha.

Storge ndikumverera mwachikondi, kotentha. Ubale wabwino muukwati.

Agape - chikondi chenicheni, chomwe chiri chachikulu mwa kudzimana popanda misonkhano.

Kuphatikiza pa chisangalalo chachikulu ndi chisangalalo, chikondi chimabweretsa ululu kwambiri. Kodi ndikofunikira ngati zimabweretsa mavuto oterewa?

Tangoganizani zomwe zikanati zichitike ngati kumverera pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi kunalibe. Ndi ntchito zingati zojambulajambula zomwe sizikanabadwa? Ndipo ife? Tingabadwire bwanji ngati makolo athu sanamvere chikondi? Kodi ubwana wathu ukhala wosangalala ngati manja athu sanasungidwe ndi abambo ndi amayi anga? Kodi tanthauzo la moyo ndi chiyani, osati chikondi?

Mutu wa chikondi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Kupanga

Chikondi chakhala chiri chikumverera chomwe chinalimbikitsa anthu kuzochita zenizeni. M'dzina lake, nkhondo zinayamba ndi kutha, zojambula zinalembedwa ndipo ndakatulo zamphamvu zinalengedwa.

Mu ndakatulo ya Chirasha ya Silver Age, chikondi chimakhala malo apadera. Pempho lililonse la olemba ndakatulo linapereka kanthu kwa tanthawuzo ili. Anakwati awiri odabwitsa - Anna Akhmatova ndi Nikolai Gumilev - adalongosola za malingaliro osiyanasiyana. Anna - wopepuka, wachifundo komanso wosasunthika, wamantha, ngati nkhuni; Nicholas ndi mwamuna amene amanyamula chilichonse ndipo samalola kutsutsa.

Muzojambula zina amajambula olemba ndakatulo achikondi a Blok, Mandelstam ndi Balmont. Akuwoneka akubisala mu maloto ndi malingaliro ambiri, amabwera pambuyo podziwa kwa mlendo wokongola ndikukhala kwamuyaya.

The Imaginists, motsogoleredwa ndi Sergei Esenin, adanena kuti chikondi ndi chovuta, koma adali ndi chiyembekezo chakuti chikhoza kusintha iwo kwamuyaya, kukhala chipulumutso ndi malo ogona.

Chikondi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi (zokangana, zolembedwa pamwamba) ndikumverera kumene ndakatulo tafotokoza kwa zaka mazana ambiri. Iwo sanamupatse iye kutanthauzira koyera, koma chifukwa cha umunthu wake, izi ndi zolondola. Chikondi chimabwera kwa aliyense monga momwe amayembekezera ndi kuona, ndipo amakhulupirira.