A nthano Likhanova "Good zolinga": Mwachidule, wolemba udindo ndi lemba kusanthula

Inu simungakhoze kukhala mwana popanda banja. Amene adzaphunzitsa Iye mphamvu kukonda dziko lapansi? Ndani mawu mtundu? Amene angawateteze ku zoipa ndi nkhanza? Akunyozera asatengere makhalidwe oipa?

Ndipo ngati palibe wina? Nanga bwanji? Njira zothetsera wankhanza chilungamo A. Likhanov analemba buku lake "Good zolinga".

"Zolinga Good ..." (About buku A. Likhanova)

Vuto la kusiyidwa m'buku zamakono zoyenera Likhanova "zolinga zabwino." Short nkhani zili kulumikiza mu mawu ochepa: mphunzitsi wamng'ono anadzazidwa ndi chifundo kwa ana awo, ana amasiye ndi anayesa kupeza makolo awo, koma osati onse a ophunzira ake, iye anathandiza, ndipo iye m'malo iwo mayi. Ntchito imeneyi - imodzi yofunika kwambiri mu ntchito ya wolemba.

Albert Anatolevich Lihanov - Angachitsekereze ubwana

Pamene Albert Likhanov adapanga ichi lalifupi, koma ntchito yakuya, iye ankaganiza kuti ana anamuthawa makolo awo sati ndekha ndi matsoka ake zoopsa. Choncho, chotero chidaliro kuwala chinamulowerera ntchito.

Sikutheka kuti abwerere amasiye a makolo, koma n'zotheka kuteteza nzika pang'ono a dziko lalikulu tsoka oopsa. Dziko adzakhala kutengera, dziko lonse adzabweretsa anthu - ndicho chimene wolemba adakhulupirira mu 1981.

Wolemba analandira mwansangala kukonzanso lapansi. Iye akhadikhira kwa kusintha mbali ya makhalidwe ya moyo ndi kuyembekezera kusintha kwa zinthu bwino ana amasiye. Koma adzakhumudwa, ananena kuti mtundu wonse tingachititsidwe manyazi pamaso pa ana chifukwa sanachite.

Mu mabuku ake, wolemba akhala womenya kuima ndi deformities za moyo wamasiku ano. Muyezo wa thanzi mtundu, iye amaganiza kuti chimwemwe mwana, izo ichi, limafufuza mmene uweme dziko.

Ndi ana mu dziko adakali muzisowa mphwayi wankhanza wa akulu ndi osayanjanitsika ngakhale kuti okondedwa awo. Albert Anatolevich Lihanov amaona kuti ndi udindo wake kukumbutsa m'nthawi yake kuti mtundu sasamala za ana, sangakhale m'tsogolo.

Chifanizo cha khalidwe waukulu

Likhanov adakhulupirira iye yekha kuti ntchito yake si kwambiri za mphunzitsi wachinyamata ndi ana ake, ambiri a mtima woona, kuti msewu ku Gahena wopalidwa osati ndi zolinga zabwino, ndi Kulephela kugwila mpaka mapeto a zolinga zawo zabwino.

Chifanizo cha khalidwe waukulu - Pokhala munthu amene angathe mpaka mapeto a udindo wake. Ikupempha njira iyi! Iye chidwi ndi mphamvu ya chikhalidwe, kusadziona kukhala wopambana ena, kuona mtima ndi chikondi kwa ana.

Retrospective nkhani - nkhani imeneyi zikuchokera Likhanova "zolinga zabwino." Chidule cha nkhani ya khalidwe ndicho: mkazi okhwima reminisces za mwana, za njira yake yoyamba wodzilamulira mu moyo kuti zinali zovuta. Mavuto chifukwa mu motsogozedwa Hope wogonjetsa (monga wotsogolera ake adzaitana chiphaso) yekha maganizo awo. Pepani ana osauka chinamugunda iye mtima ndi kudzutsidwa mwa iye wofuna kukonza adzawonongedwa. Kudziimba mlandu pamaso pa ana amene akhudzidwa ndi anthu amene sangathe kuganiza za munthu wina osati nokha, inamchititsa kusamalira adzawonongedwa.

Motsogozedwa ndi malingaliro awo, mbali yaikulu kukayika ntchito yake - utumiki ndi ngongole yabwino.

Anthu kuwuluridwa poyerekezera ndi mwana

Muyenera amatanganidwa dziko ubale wa ana ndi akulu ntchito Likhanova "zolinga zabwino." Chidule osati kupereka chithunzi thunzi chokwanira cha kuya kwa ntchito.

Pankhani mwana umakhala ndi munthu chimene iye ali.

Banjalo wopanda mwana Zaporozhtsev - anthu ooneka ngati anzeru - mwachionekere kungasokoneze mwana, amene kusankha pakati pa ana ena, kuganizira maonekedwe, ngati chinthu.

Msungwana wokongola kwambiri kuika mu banja lawo. Pambuyo zinachitikira woyamba, iye anasintha iwo. Zovala, madiresi wokongola, zidole mtengo, galimoto lomwe adawatenga, anabweretsa Cossacks, asokoneza khalidwe lake. Nthawi yomweyo iye anamva koposa zonse, mwayi ndi wapadera.

Ndipo mukamayesetsa zinali kubwerera pambuyo chinyengo mwa awa awiri anthuŵa odzilungamitsa mu udindo wake mwachizolowezi amasiye. Zionetsero, kutentha mphatso Alla kwa makolo akale oterewa. Chiyembekezo G. akhoza sanalange mwana moto anakonza. Iye akudziŵa bwino msungwanayo, koma lingathandize chidaliro kuti tikumupachikaso Zaporozhtsev - dalitso kwa Allochka. Aliyense iye anakulira m'banja? A buku la zochepa egoists narcissistic?

Kupanga Stepan, mosiyana ndi Cossacks anakana Seva Agapov zifukwa osati malinga iye. Komanso sananene kuti akupita kutengera Seva. Zenizeni kudutsa, ndikupita pa ulendo wautali kunja, ndipo akulonjeza yomweyo kubwezeretsa mgwirizano ndi mnyamata atabwerera. Kukakamizidwa kulekana zochititsa chidwi osati kwa Seva, koma Stepan Ivanovich. Komabe, komabe pali malo kunena kuti mu nkhani iyi, ndi wamkulu sukupita kupyola mu ndi zolinga zawo zabwino mu ubale wawo kwa mwanayo.

Muyenera mosamala kutenga kuwerenga buku "zolinga Wabwino". Analysis wa mankhwala adzatsegula kumvetsa zinthu zambiri zovuta kuzimvetsa. Chitsanzo cha masamu wotereyo - ubale Ani Nevzorova ndi mayi ake.

Mtsikanayo nayo nthawi kuti amange limodzi Evdokia Petrovna, koma Anya akachita mayi akumanidwa ufulu makolo. Ndipo pa usiku Chaka Chatsopano, iye anaba mtsikana. zochitika wotsatira kusonyeza kukhudzana mmene yoopsa ndi mayi a mwanayo, kumwa shampeni mwana.

Anya, onse odziwa za mayi anga ali ndi nkhawa kwambili ponena za iye, ndipo amakana kukhala udocheronnoy Evdokia Petrovna. Pali bwino nkhani komwe mwanayo m'kati wolimba mwauzimu kuposa munthu wamkulu. Nadezhda Georgievna kugawana maloto awo, Anna limafotokoza ndondomeko zake "umwana" mayi. Ndipo Hope sazindikira kuti amphamvu mphukira wa udindo mtsikana wamng'ono uyu, ali wamphamvu kwambiri kuposa mkazi wamkulu akumanidwa ufulu makolo.

Amene amapereka mphamvu mwana wamng'ono? Chikondi zonse kukhululukirana zonse ofala, woyera ndi chikondi yosavuta.

Banja losangalala mu nkhani Likhanova

Palinso zitsanzo za mabanja mu nkhani "zolinga zabwino." A retelling mwachidule za ubale yokha Chiyembekezo ndi mayi ake atha kutumikira ngati umboni: mayi anga amakonda Nadia momwe iye angathere, mwana adores mayi ake. Koma pamene mwana afika kulamulira kholo. Amayi wakhumudwa poyamba, ndiyeno chiyembekezo. Mtsikanayo anali osangalala kwambiri chiyanjanitso, koma mayi sanabwerere. Ndizo zonse. Koma ili ndi vuto wamba aliyense m'banja labwinobwino osangalala.

Izi ndi banja Apollona Apollinarevicha ndi Elena Evgenevna, wotsogolera ndi mutu mphunzitsi wa zikukwera. mwana wawo komanso kukhutitsidwa makolo kusamvera powonekera, koma chikondi cha makolo ndi ana kugonjetsa onse.

Abwino banja - Mayi ndi mwana Martynov omwe. Natalya Ivanovna Martynova - mkulu wa ana amasiye, kumene ana analiko kufika pa sukulu yogonera komweko.

khalidwe Nkofunika kumvetsa lingaliro la ntchito yonse, ngakhale fano Martynova ndi sekondale ku nkhani Likhanova "zolinga zabwino." Chidule cha gawo la nkhani, umene yonena ake, zikugwirizanira masentensi angapo. zaka makumi asanu ndawapatsa amasiye mkazi. kunyumba ana, kumene amagwira ntchito - chitsanzo chabwino malo. Mu palidi ana. Koma iye adzakhala osangalala ngati tsiku lina chinatsekedwa.

Ndipo kumene zimaonekera monga mwa kalilore mfundo zikuluzikulu za nkhani yonse, ngati pali ana wosasangalala amene muyenera moyo wawo wonse kuwapatsa kukonza choipa zoopsa.

Mkazi uyu amakhala chilakolako chimodzi - kumfuna ana ovutika. Iye anasiya zonse zimene kumalepheretsa utumiki wake. Mwana wamkazi monga mayi ake, kunja osati kokha, si kophweka katundu magawo chimene chinachitika pa lokha Natalia ndi mwana wamkazi ndi kuti awerenge mantha.

Pali chinachake kwa oyera mu zifanizo za akazi awiri, mozindikira Likhanov ananena chithunzi awo chikhalidwe, anatchula nkhope wodziwika bwino. Ndipo ubwenzi mayi wamkazi ndi abwino kwa ndendende chifukwa ichi: Oyera Musakangane sadabvomerezana, ndi zinthu zofunika kwambiri - wabwino ndi utumiki ngongole.

Kuti amatilola kuwatcha oyera? Kachiwiri chikondi. Only pano mu funso si za chikondi cha ana anu, ndi chikondi chanu kwa ana onse, kuti anthu onse. Ndi zothandiza kukumbukira kuti: ". Uzikonda mnzako mmene umadzikondera wekha" Apa ndi - mfundo yaikulu ya ntchito Likhanova, ndipo osati zokhazo, koma zonse ntchito zabwino.

Tsoka la zithunzi izi woyera Tingaone ndi ziyembekezo tsogolo la Chigonjetso. Ichi ndi tsoka la anthu amene ali pa msewu wa zolinga zabwino kutha. Ndipo pa mapeto a njira iyi akuyembekezera iwo gehena, koma china.