Uthenga Tsalani bwino kuti bwenzi

Si onse amene ali ndi maphunziro okwanira ndiponso luso woyenera kusiya, kusiya moyo wa munthu, osati slamming chitseko, ndi cholowa, ndipo anasiya ukhondo, kuti ndi kukumbukira. Ndipo komabe nthawi zina mulibe mtima kulankhula kamodzi wokondedwa ndi diso kwa diso, chifukwa mu nkhani iyi tikhoza kulemba kalata kwa mzanga yemwe dontho i. Ndithudi, izi si njira yabwino kunja si njira koyenera koposa kunena tiwonana, koma nthawi zina palibe mankhwala ena.

Kodi ngati kutsanzikana kalata mnzake? Pali zosiyanasiyana mitima zogwirizana ndi maluwa, akutsikira misozi ndi magazi a zolemba za Tionanso chisoni ndi opusa. Pamene aliyense ali kalembedwe awo kulankhulana ndi njira olekanitsa. kalata mnzathu, amene simudzaliona, ayenera kumva, yowala ndi woonamtima. Mmenemo pasakhale chipongwe, manyazi, mitundu yonse ya zinthu chonyansa. Zonsezi kenako adzachita manyazi ndipo mukufuna kusintha chilichonse. Kalata kalata ndi kuti n'zotheka kuganiza zinthu kudzera, kuti kulemera, kukatenga mawu okongola.

Tsopano, yachiwiriyo kutsanzikana makalata kukamba. Mbali yoyamba, kuti ndinu wovulalayo. Mwachitsanzo, sitifuna, manyazi, mudzakhala zasintha, inu pakupereka, kuponderezedwa, ndipo mukufuna kusiya ubale, koma pofotokoza mmene Ungathabusa zoipa. Yachiwiri ndi zambiri zovuta: wozunzidwayo ndi inu. Inu kufotokoza chifukwa kutaya wokondedwa. Ndi kuchita ichi adzakhala ndi yolondola kwambiri, popanda kusiya ziyembekezo, osati kupereka mwayi kwa chitsitsimutso ubale, mwinamwake zingakhale wamantha kwanu.

Mbali yoyamba, kalata kwa mzanga, amene anali wompereka, sayenera ngati chisoni. Musagwiritse misozi, kukonza mtendere Mzere ndi kutembenukira moyo mkati ndi kunja komwe. Ambiri mwina, pa inu basi kamodzinso kuseka. Yakuti, yeniyeni, coolly, mwamwano ndithu kufotokozera munthu kuti iye ndi saperekanso inu ndi zimene mukufuna mwakachetechete ndiponso mwamtendere kusiya maubwenzi anu onse. Sikuti kulowa altercation iliyonse ndipo makalata, izo siziri m'njira iliyonse. Inu akhoza kungoyankha kulemba pa pepala ndi kugonjera m'malo kutumiza kwa Intaneti lalikulu chikhalidwe, inu mukhoza kuyikamo iyo pansi pa mtengo Khirisimasi kalata La «Chaka Chatsopano kwa mzanga yemwe alibe malo moyo wanga" ndipo n'zotheka kutumiza kalata makalata. Fotokozani addressee a boma bwino (mwachitsanzo, Sergei, Katerina, Olga), musagwiritse ntchito maina diminutive ndi suopa zomunyoza. Wokwanira ziganizo pang'ono ndi pempho sadzamangidwanso Musiyeni inu.

Ngati chachiwiri, muyenera mosamala kukonzekera. Ndipotu, mudzachita zinthu ngati ampatuko ndi. Muyenera kuyesa ngati kuli kotheka kutsegula akumva ululu uliwonse, analandira kalata. Kuyenera otchulidwa ndi kudziŵika kuti kuponya munthu kudzera m'makalata kapena correspondences mwanjira otsika, choncho adzakhala wamkulu ngati inu lembani mtima n'kuuza munthu munthu. Ngati mtima - uyu si mfundo lanu lamphamvu, tikhoza asagwiritse kalatayo. anali mnzake, kuwerenga uthenga wanu, ayenera ndalama maofesi owonjezera ndi phobias, choncho zingakhale bwino kufotokoza kuti iye ndi munthu wamkulu, ndipo zikuoneka ndi inu kuswedwa, chifukwa "..." (more mukhoza kutsata zifukwa zosiyanasiyana).

Mosakayikira chiyani pa zimene zinachitikira zapamwamba: kuwerenga Marquez, Zweig, Pushkin, Yesenin, ndi alembi ena ambiri, kuwukitsa nkhani ya yotsanzika kalata. Izi zidzathandiza kuti khutu omaliza kuzindikira kuti simuli nokha ku dziko lino lapansi, kuti mwa nthawi imeneyi zovuta anthu ena, kuphatikizapo luso olemba, wotchuka zisudzo, oimba thanthwe ndi masewera basi. Kulekana - nthawi zonse imfa ndi imfa ndi misozi ndi kupweteka, koma chifukwa kumeneko, m'chizimezime likuoneka moyo watsopano zonse za Zopatsa ndi atsopano. kalata mnzake, ngakhale wakale, zikhale monga boti kuti wakulanda inu ku banki moyo wina. Usaope kufukiza milatho sitiri kuyang'ana mmbuyo, chifukwa moyo uli wokongola, ngati mu mtima mwanu mukuona kuti akuchita zolondola.