Ulemu wa munthu ndi zofooka zake

Ngakhale iwo ankakhulupirira kuti munthu analengedwa ndi Mulungu mu chifanizo Chake ndi m'chikhalidwe, iye ndi kukhala wochimwa ndiponso wopanda ungwiro. Komabe, ulemu wa munthu ndi wosatsutsika monga zolakwa zake. Ndipo chiwerengero cha kuperewera zikuphatikizapo makhalidwe amenewa wosakongola kunyada, dyera, nsanje, kutsutsidwa, tsankho, Kuuma mtima, ndi zina zotero, mndandanda kungakhale yaitali. Ambiri a makhalidwe awa, mwatsoka, anaika mwa munthu kuyambira ali mwana, kuti chifukwa cha zosayenera angamulerere mwanayo banja kholo.

Ulemu ndi zolakwika anthu samapezeka, ndipo mwadzidzidzi zonse mwadzidzidzi, ndi zomveka. Mapangidwe mbali zapadera khalidwe mwana umagwiritsidwa dzanja zonse kwa makolo ndi bwalo lamkati, mpaka ku sukulu ya mkaka, sukulu ndi zina zotero. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwana, mwana nthawi zonse anathamangitsa kukhonda kuti ndifulumire, pamene iye anakakamizidwa kuthamanga pa ambiri mabwalo ndiponso mbali, yesetsani kuchita chilichonse, mwinamwake izo ndidzatemberera - anasankha khalidwe monga musataye mtima. Kuuma chomwecho Umaoneka makolo akuyesetsa nthawi zonse kuti apite motsutsana ndi zofuna za mwanayo ndi kumuchititsa kumverera zonse za matchalitchi ndi kulekerera M'malo mwake, tidzapeza chiwerewere ndi kudzikuza.

Kuipa, komanso ulemu wa munthu, ndithudi, ndi mizu. Dyera akhoza kupangidwa mwana kuchokera kupanda chikondi komanso chisamaliro cha ichi akhoza kudzali kutaya mtima ndi mtima Izi zidzapangitsa ndiye kudzimvera manyazi. Ndiye mkulu zikuoneka kuti kupondereza chifuniro chake, monga munthu wina aliyense mantha, chinyengo, servility, zomwe iye ku kudzidalira ndi kudzidalira.

Kodi - ulemu wa munthu, monga iwo amati ali moyo ndi wotani? Ndipotu, malinga dikishonare Dahl, ulemu - chikutanthauza ya makhalidwe mokwanira abwino. Ndipo sizikusokonezani ndi kudzikuza, iwo ndi zinthu zosiyana kwathunthu. Pamene tinena kuti munthu uyu woyenera, iwo amatanthauza kuti iye ndi woyenera ulemu, chifukwa cha makhalidwe ake wapatali munthu, makhalidwe anthu, zochita zake ndi zina zotero. Ngati munthu wayamba zingakweze mtengo wake, iye amakhala odzikuza, kutaya, Choncho, kulemekeza ndi ulemu, ndi ulemerero wa munthu. Choncho, tiyenera kudziwa kuti ndi zinthu zosiyana kwambiri.

Ubwino ndi kuipa kwa munthu akupitiriza mawonekedwe, ndi pamene adzamasulidwa ku ubwana mchikakamizo cha anthu. Wounikira zabwino khalidwe kuchita, kukweza iye mu diso anthu. Iwo akhoza kumupatsa mphamvu ndi chilakolako ndi zofooka zawo ndi kuyesetsa kusintha kwinanso. Wachisoni chomwecho kafukufuku ku maganizo a anthu kungachititse kuti aggravation zolakwa izi, kotero Choncho, adziwe ayenera kukhala ndi cholinga.

Kuzindikira ulemerero wa anthu ndi kuwunika zenizeni za makhalidwe ake abwino. The kwambiri kutchulidwa makhalidwe iye monga kuona mtima, kulemekeza ena, kuwolowa manja, chifundo, kudzipereka, kudzichepetsa, tilinazo ndi zina zotero, wamkulu mtengo wa munthu woteroyo ndi anthu. Choncho, ngati makolo akufuna kuti mwana wawo kukula membala woyenera anthu, iwo uyenera kuyika mwana ndi bwino, izi ndi makhalidwe abwino.

Mulinso:

- Kudzichepetsa. Apa ndi pamene munthu, ngakhale ndi zambiri ubwino, khalidwe chabe ndi mwanzeru, osati oumbidwa kunja ndipo iwo kudzikudza.

- Manyazi ndi chikumbumtima. anthu achipembedzo amanena kuti mawu a Mulungu mwa munthu akumuuza zabwino ndi zoipa ndi kumabweretsa chikhumbo atalapa za zochita zawo zoipa.

- Lemekezani. Izi makhalidwe mfundo ndi khalidwe la umunthu, woyenera ulemu ya anthu.

- kudzidalira. Zimenezi kumverera anthu adzakhala sabweretsa aliyense kufika chipongwe, manyazi kapena kukhumudwitsa wina.

Ichi ndi mwayi kulankhula ndi munthu ndi kuwalemekeza.