Ubwenzi - ndi mungachite

Posachedwapa unachitikira magawo ndi awo achinyamata "zovuta". "Ubwenzi. Kodi izo? "- kuti wakhala mutu wa kukambirana. anyamata ndi atsikana anga kuchita kukonzekera ndi chimwene. Tidapeza kwambiri za mawu a anthu otchuka, miyambi yambiri. Gulu Ine ngati anali, anyamata zambiri mokwanira zokwanira, kotero mwayi wolankhula ndi kukhala lofunika kwambiri, iwo sanali kuphonya. Chifukwa cha maphunziro zinali zodabwitsa kwa ine.

Iwo likukhalira kuti ena mwa osewera anga sanagwirizane kuti ubwenzi - ndi koposa zonse, ubwenzi wauzimu. Si onse, koma ena mwa anyamata pa funso la chimene ubwenzi kwa maganizo awo, mu malo oyamba osaika patsogolo tanthauzo lalitali. Apa mmene adawomba mayankho awo:

- Ubwenzi - ndi pamene zosangalatsa kukacheza pamodzi. (Mawu).

- Apa ndi pamene mukhoza kuwerenga pa thandizo, kutenga chinachake apo kapena kubwereka ndalama. (Mawu).

- Ubwenzi - ngati inu kupita ndi bwenzi, nthawi yocheza. (Mawu).

Ine, kumene, kuganizira kuti ana anga onse kutali mabanja olemera, koma ndi maganizo oterewa ndi mfundo "Ubwenzi" Ine adakwiya kwambiri. Choncho ndinaganiza kuti mupitirize kukambirana popanda mafunso a.

Kunapezeka kuti ana anga, ambiri kudziwanso kuti ubwenzi ayenera kukhala wodzipereka kuti umakhala ndi kuika mtima. Popeza kuwerenga zambiri za zolemba ndi mawu (mwatsoka ayi mu mabuku, ndi Intaneti), iwo ali notionally kudziwa kuti ubwenzi - kufunitsitsa kukhala oleza mtima, malire chikhulupiriro, mphamvu ngakhale mphindi mosayembekezeka anathamangira kwa chithandizo, kuthandiza comrade wake .

Koma ali mawu enieni kwa achinyamata uyu sanali okonzeka. Mayendedwe maganizo anandisonyeza nkhawa zawo.

- Inu mukuti kuti ubwenzi - kukhulupirira. Bwanji ngati ine nditakuuzani bwenzi chinachake ndipo anadzayankhula zonse? - kudutsa Alice.

- Kodi kuuzako munthu maganizo awo, makamaka zoipa, kutsanulira pa munthu maganizo anu si dyera - anayesa kupeza kuwerenga Anton.

Malingaliro ndi kukayikira akhala anasonyeza ambiri, phindu kuti anyamata sachita manyazi kundiuza zimene amasamala. Ine ndi zoipa kwambiri ku mapeto.

Ife kawiri kawiri za kusungulumwa anthu mumzinda waukulu. Ambiri a ife sitili okonzeka kutsegula maganizo munthu wina, sanafune kuika patsogolo zofuna za ena awo. Kodi ndiyenera kuchita mu dziko ano? Zofunika kukambirana ndi kwambiri osokoneza.

Mofananamo, chimodzi chokha chinthu: anthu amene alibe bwenzi mmodzi woona, kawirikawiri kwambiri wosasangalala.

Koma kukangana za kusungulumwa, ife sindikuganiza kuti tili tokha, osati kudzera vuto lawo, koma vuto la aphunzitsi awo, makolo. Ine ndikuchidziwa momwe kumbvera mphunzitsi pa ine tsopano. Ine ndikudziwa kuvuta iwo ntchito: zaka zambiri ntchito ndi achinyamata. Koma inu mukuvomereza, kuwauza ana za moyo wa anthu aakulu, abwenzi awo ndi okondedwa, timalakwitsa musakhudze moyo wa ana athu. Sitikunena kuti kuti ubwenzi - ndi mkhalidwe mtheradi chimene chapangitsa zogwirizana wa munthu. Pakati pa abwenzi mtima umodzi ziwiri, mfundo yomweyo, dziko. Sitikunena kuti kuti sangathe anasankha pa cholinga. Ubwenzi ukapezeka kokha kumene kumvana, vzaimovlechenie popanda wokhala aliyense kugonana.

Ubwenzi weniweni - lalikulu ndi ili maganizo kuphatikana, kufuna kuona wamba, kumvetsa intuitively, chosefukira chidaliro.

Ndipo zonse izi, m'pofunika kuphunzitsa ana. Phunzirani kuthandiza ndi kupirira, kuphunzira kukhulupirira ndi kuwakhulupirira kuti kuphunzira kulankhula.

Kodi kuchita izo? Zovuta funso lomwe ndi kosatheka kupereka yankho lolozeka. Mwina, m'pofunika kuphunzitsa ana kuti azilemekeza ena, kukhululuka kumvera comrades, kuti kulimbana ndi kudzikonda zawo. Ndipo komabe ayenera kuphunzitsa ana kukhulupirika, kudzipereka, chipiriro, kukhala zachilendo awo kudzidalira. A mwana amene akhulupirira mwa Iye yekha wakutha kutsegula kwa munthu wina ndi kutenga kuphatikana wake maganizo.

Phunzirani ichi akhale chibadwire, osati kwambiri mawu monga khalidwe lake, chitsanzo chake, njira yonse ya moyo.

Ngati ife monga makolo ndi aphunzitsi, tili ndi mabwenzi enieni, ngati ndife sociable ndi kulemekeza ena, ndiye ana athu amakula wosangalala, kudziwa kuti ubwenzi zimapangitsa moyo watanthauzo, kwambiri maganizo, wopambana kwambiri.