The mwana uyo makadabo ake - zoyenera kuchita?

Nthawi zambiri tikhoza kuona kuti si mwana komanso wachikulire, kuganiza, kapena m'mwamba kutafuna pa zikhadabo zake. kudzaona zochitikazo, inu mukuti, si limodzi zosangalatsa, ndi zoona. Pomwepo ndi bungwe ndi manja zauve, zimene zinathandiza kuti munthu mkamwa, ndi zambiri tizilombo mu m'thumba. Makolo ambiri amadzifunsa kuti: "Mwana uyo makadabo ake - zochita Sitingathe kuyamwa iye kuchokera pamene anatenga chizolowezi?!?"

Iwo onychophagia kotero mwasayansi amatchedwa ichi chizolowezi zoipa, ndipo kungachititse kuti zifukwa zosiyana kwathunthu. Choyamba, izo zikhoza tinatengera. Ngati mudzapempha kholo labwino, chikhoza kukhala kuti ngati mwana iwo anachita chinthu chomwecho. Choncho musanayambe kugunda manja a mwanayo kapena chirema, kuyang'ana chifukwa mu ubwana wake, kenako kudzifunsa kuti; mwana uyo makadabo ake - chimene tingachite ndi khalidwe?

zimayambitsa Onychophagia akhoza kukhala ambiri: kotero mwana anatani maganizo, nkhawa, mantha. Ndiko polimbana khalidwe choyamba tiyenera kupeza chifukwa ndi umene kugwirizana. M'pofunika kuyang'anitsitsa pa ulonda mwana, kodi zinthu zenizeni, izo wayamba kuluma zikhadabo zake. Mwina zimachitika pamene kuonera ena mapulogalamu pa TV - ndiye m'pofunika kuteteza ku mavuto, zilibe monga TV, pamene pali mtundu ngati wa pulogalamu, kotero zokhudza mwanayo.

Ngati vuto liri pachimake, ndipo ndinu okonzeka kuti tibwerere kwa dokotala ndi funso: "Mwana uyo makadabo ake, kodi ndichite chiyani?" - n'kuyamba kumvetsera kwambiri kwa mwana, kuti kukumbatira ndi caress iye, kuyankhula kwa iye. Mwina chifukwa lagona mu kusakhutira mumtima mwa inattention wanu. Mwina iye akuganiza simuyenera, chifukwa inu nthawi zonse wotanganidwa ndipo musawononge nthawi zambiri momwe iye angafunire izo.

Mukaonera mwana wanu, mungaone kuti uyo makadabo ake pa nthawi imene munthu makani ndipo ankafuna akuthandizeni kulimbana ndi adani ake ndi adazolowera chokani palokha. Ndipo mwinamwake iye akuyamba kuluma zikhadabo zake, pamene poona, mantha kapena kuopa chinachake? Mulimonsemo, musati amaumiriza mwana, chifukwa amachita mosalingalira, mwachindunji. Iye akusowa thandizo lakuti tipilile chizolowezi choipa, iye sangakhoze kuchita izo.

Ngati mukuphunzira onse ndi zimene zingachitike kapena kuti alephera ndi nkhani ya "mwana uyo makadabo ake, kodi ndichite chiyani?" - izo wotseguka, n'zotheka kuti tiyandikire vuto kuchokera ku mbali yina. Yesani kusewera ndi mwana motere: kuyamba kupanga iye zozipakapaka, utoto wake chitsanzo pa misomaliyo, kusonyeza mmene kusamalidwa bwino manja anu ndi mmene yonyansa ankawoneka. Mwina zonsezi zingathandize mwana m'njira yosiyana kuyang'ana pa manja ake, ndipo pang'ono ndi pang'ono kuyamwa ku chizolowezi.

Kwambiri kwa ana. Koma nthawi zambiri timalimbana ndi akulu amene akufunsa kuti: "Ine ndinadziluma makadabo ake, zoyenera kuchita" Wamkulu kukhwimitsa yokha. Izo zikhoza kukhala maofesi wapadera kuphimba misomali, lomwe kulawa kulawa zowawa choncho ulesi chilakolako kumamatira manja wake mkamwa mwake, ndi misomali. Ndikwabwino kuona mmene majeremusi ambiri kukokera m'kamwa ndi yomweyo perehochetsya kuchita izo, chifukwa pali nthawi maganizo amachita mbali.

Koma ngati munthu anakwanitsa kuchotsa khalidwe yonyansa, angakonde, pomaliza, kuti zikhadabo okongola ndi manja anu manicured. Ndi zabwino kwambiri, chifukwa ngati dzanja wa mkazi ndi kunyada kwake, ndi chodziwikiratu ngakhale mu zinthu zambiri wopsinjika kumawakoka iwo mkamwa mwake. Ndichite chiyani kuti iwo kukula misomali, okongola ndi amphamvu? Simufunikanso kuti ntchito yambiri.

Choyamba - m'pofunika kukhazikitsa kudya mokwanira, wachiwiri - kuchita kusamba ndi mchere, masamba mafuta (bwino ngati mafuta), opaka mu msomali vit.E. Wabwino misomali kukula minofu zala, izo awalimbikitse mu magazi ndi yotithandiza kukula misomali. Palinso zimathandiza anakonzedwa kuti msomali chisamaliro zipangizo, iwo tsopano pa malonda zokwanira. Chifukwa, mphoto chifukwa chopatula nthawi kukhala amphamvu ndi wokongola misomali.