Ndinagwa mchikondi. Kodi kuchita?

Chikondi chimatichititsa dzuwa, potsogolera zinthu nasintha kapangidwe ka matupi wandiweyani. Mphamvu ya chikondi chakudya ndipo wayamba, Iyamba ndipo akutumiza ndege. Mtsikana kapena mkazi, yokutidwa ndi mphamvu ikutha kuzindikira zenizeni njira kwakhala, ndipo akumvetsa: "Ine chibwenzi. Ndichite chiyani? "Mwatsoka, lero, mu m'badwo wa kufanana ndi mwayi kwambiri, ukazi ukhala mu ukapolo mabwenzi, ndi chikondi, nthawi zambiri imayambitsa mavuto kuposa chimwemwe. Zachitikiranji zimenezi? Chifukwa cha chisokonezo mu mfundo. Masiku ano, ana amaphunzitsidwa kulemba, masamu, sayansi ndi chikhazikitso cha chuma, koma saphunzitsa munthu kulemekeza ndi kuteteza mkazi. Sanaphunzitsidwe kuwerenga mu mitima yawo, kusiyanitsa pakati pa chikondi ndi chikondi. Zolinga zabwino moyo wosalira zambiri ndi asayansi yafupika kugonana kugonana. Koma akazi musangotchula amanyalanyaza mtima kukopeka, ngakhale ambiri kuchita zimenezi, popeza anakumana anakhumudwa choyamba ...

Kodi ndimatani ngati ndili mchikondi?

Anzeru kunena, mapazi anu ofunda ndi wopita ku kuzizira. Koma, inu mukuona, iwo ndi mwayi mu moyo - sanasoŵerepotu madzi izi mwatsatanetsatane mu kumulakalaka: mtima ukugunda kwinakwake mu mmero, otentha mpweya uphwetsa milomo, chizungulire, manja ake ali yonyowa, ndi dokotala sanali ngakhale kulembetsa kuwonjezeka kutentha. Zikatero, inu mukudziwa, ine chibwenzi. Kodi kuchita zimenezo? Ngati inu muli ndi zaka khumi ndi ziwiri zokha, sizitanthauza kuti simuli okonzeka mayeso aakulu. Ndikuganiza palokha - tsopano, pamene inu muli mu chikondi, dziko lonse akuda ndi mithunzi zatsopano tsiku lililonse mumaona tingati zodabwitsa za chimwemwe. Inu ankakonda kukacheza kukhumbira sakugwirizana ndikuutsa makombola lonse.

Koma munachita iye ankadziwa kuti njira kwa Sun akukumana moto. Ngati chinthu chilakolako anakhala nyenyezi sizingatheke - inu muli mwayi. Pa inu mukhoza kucheza ndi anzanga - izo ambike chikondi chanu idyll. Koma malingaliro a mnyamata chenicheni chikhala ndi kusunga chinsinsi. N'zovuta kwambiri, koma inu amphamvu. Khalani magazini, ndipo tsanulirani mitsinje mwachikondi patsamba wake. Kodi inu ndimalota? About reciprocity? Ndizo zabwino, koma nthawi zambiri mwaiwala kuti ndikuuzeni inu chinthu chimodzi chofunika: ngakhale wachinyamata chaperekedwa kwa ubale ndi inu ndi kufunafuna chidwi, muyenera fufuzani, tikupeza kuti iye ndi munthu wotani. A kuzindikira kwenikweni moyipa maganizo - kawirikawiri kutuluka.

Malinga ngati muli nthawi - kusangalala ndi chikondi chake chokha. Osati kuulula chinsinsi chake kwa aliyense.

Udzanena kuti Romeo ndi Juliet anali wokondwa kuti tikufuna kufa? Yesetsani. Izi chidwi Shakespearean mbiri ndi mathero ake zachisoni, aliyense amaiwala osati zochepa zomvetsa chisoni chiyambi. Re kuwerenga, kumene izo zonse adayamba: Romeo ku woyamba mphindi maonekedwe mu sewerolo anali kale ku chikondi - kutifotokozera ndi mosasamala, ndipo, monga ananena - moyo wonse. Mtima ndi maganizo ake pa fano la Rosaline. Koma chimachitika n'chiyani? Only maola ochepa utachitika Mkwatulo ku adiresi yake, ndi kuvutika chenicheni, tikuona Romeo amene walumbirira kukonda Juliet. Ngati anali ndi nthawi kukumana ndi kudziwana wina ndi mzake, kumene ndi chitsimikizo kuti Romeo mu posachedwapa sakanati kutsogoleredwa Juliet nyanga ... Chinachake kuganizira, sichoncho?

Ndingapeze madalitso misala m'dzikoli?

Ine sindikuganiza kuti chikondi - ndi vuto achinyamata okha. "O mantha, ndinagwa mu chikondi, choti tichite?" - mafunso ngati yanthanda pa akazi a m'badwo uliwonse. Asayansi, azamisala, zamaganizo amanena chochitika ichi ndi gulu la matenda obsessive-zinazake ndi zoona ndithu. Chikondi - Chiyeretso chiri vuto limenelo nacho mkazi kuganiza za zimene akufuna, chifukwa iye amakhala. vuto lililonse - ndi kuthekera kwa imfa ndi kubadwanso kwa moyo watsopano. Mwatsoka, sitingathe kusankha - kugwa m'chikondi nafe kapena ayi. Ndi zabodza zenizeni, matenda a maganizo ndi mtima, tinapatsidwa mu zotengeka. Koma ngati mkazi amadziwa chimene iye amayenera kulandira - lili ndi mwayi bwino kutembenukira mavuto a mu chinachake wabwino. Ndipotu, si koyenera kuthamangira chamutu maelstrom mgwilizano watsopano.

Ngati ife kukumbukira, anthu ambiri kulenga kuti ntchito boma la chikondi kumapangitsanso mphamvu zawo kwa mawu maganizo zaluso. Kodi ndi woyenera zina misozi mu pilo chiyani?

Ndinagwa mu chikondi, choti achite? Gwiritsani ntchito mwayi wanu!

Mukhoza sitimagwirizana, koma Ndimakonda kukhala mu chikondi. Kumva ali wopatsa moyo kuti mphamvu zomwe sizingafanane palibe khofi, palibe mowa, palibe chokoleti. No vitamini omwera sanali ataima pafupi ndi mbale wa chisangalalo, wodzazidwa ndi chikondi. Ndipotu iliyonse mtsikana amadziwa bwino kutaya zinyalala izi. Ngati inu anakondana - chochita kuti: kuyimba, kuvina, jambulani, kulemba ndakatulo ndi prose. Gwiritsani ntchito mwayi wanu. Izi boma la ndege adzakhala kosatha. Ikani ntchito. Amam'konda kaŵirikaŵiri anthu maluwa pa cipangizo. Ndi kukhala nthawi zonse mu chikondi ndi moyo - ndi chinsinsi cha chimwemwe.