Mwamuna ndi mkazi lathu - ndi chiyani icho?

Ngati mwadzidzidzi wina wotchedwa mwamuna ndi mkazi - ndi achipongwe kapena ayi? Ndipo onse, mwamuna ndi mkazi lathu - zimenezi si zachilendo kapena kupatuka ena kugonana? Tiyeni tiwone nkhani zimenezi.

Kodi "lathu hetero"?

Kuyenera Mukalongosola yomweyo kuti lingaliro ili ndi yogwirizana ndi kugonana. More ndendende, mawu akuti "heterosexuality". Chimodzimodzi mawu akuti "heterosexuality" wapangidwa ndi mizu awiri. Choyamba - hetero - amatanthauza "ena", "anzake" ndi muzu chachiwiri - "kugonana" - Today kutengerapo sikuthandiza. Koma kuti mwina mukhoza mwachindunji kuti ndi maganizo (zachikondi), imalandira (kumbali) kapena libido. Choncho, tinganene kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi lathu - kugonana umalimbana atsikana. Padziko lapansi, anthu ambiri ndi nyama zonse chokhudza nkhani yogonana wa chikhalidwe cha zolakwika nyama n'zochepa kwambiri. Koma mwa anthu nthawi zina kuchita zimenezi, amene amaletsa anthu. Makamaka, tisaiwale kuti lathu mwamuna ndi mkazi - ndi a boma kokha anazindikira kugonana ku Russia. Choncho, kupeza tanthauzo munthu mwamuna ndi mkazi m'dziko lathu pa siteji pano si zolawula. Izi zimachitika chifukwa chokhudza nkhani yogonana ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi - mmodzi wa zigawo zikuluzikulu za malamulo kugonana dziko.

Kugonana Kale

Lero iwo akunena chirichonse pa heterosexuality kapena mathanyula (kugonana kwa anthu a jenda yomweyo). Koma nkhani ya akutsikira kwambiri ndi zimene zinkachitika m'nthawi zakale lathu lomaliza kugonana. Komano zonse zinali zosiyana. Monga anthu ambiri ndi lathu wapakatikati kugonana, otchedwa bisexuality. kugonana Izi si lilibe kapena lathu mwamuna ndi mkazi pankhani ya kugonana kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ambiri ndipo anavomereza bisexuality anali kalelo. Wokondedwa makolo a m'banja, popeza kuti analibe ana mwakhama posamalira kupitiriza mtundu wina, sanali kugwirizana kwambiri ndi kugonana awo. Mwa njira, zimenezi zinachitika mu nthawi zina zinachitika m'mayiko makhalidwe abwino ndi okhwima. Koma izo zinali mu masiku amakedzana, izo sizinali kuzunzidwa chifukwa chinachake ndipo yatsikira kwa ife lero ntchito monga ambiri a luso losonyeza ndendende zizoloŵezi bisexual ya anthu ambiri.

Chifukwa heterosexuality chimatengedwa ngati olondola okha

Asayansi ambiri ayesetsa kuthetsa chinsinsi cha kugonana. Ena anali okonda amakhulupirira kuti anthu onse pa kubadwa ndi bisexual. Kutsutsa Mwachitsanzo, Freud ndi Kinsey. Ndipo akuti pa kusasitsa ndi maphunziro a anthu mokakamiza Pamilunguyo gulu mwamuna ndi mkazi. Komabe, ngati tinyalanyaza kusiyana pakati pa munthu ndi chinyama (maphunziro, chikhalidwe, malingaliro), munthuyo anthu amakhala ngati nyama. Ndipo apa lagona yankho zazikulu za kugonana chilengedwe! Kodi n'zotheka kulingalira kuti atambala awiri mwadzidzidzi ndi chibwenzi chogonana? Nkomwe. Ndipo zomwe zimachitika ngati selo wina ndi mzake kalulu mbewu kalulu ndi akalulu - kalulu wina? Mu 97% wa zimenezi ndi mavuto aakulu ... Koma podsazhivanie anthu mwamuna ndi mkazi kwa wina ndi mzake, makamaka pa okondwa boma wamkazi, adzakhala anazindikira mwa iwo monga ife ndife a iwo ndi kuyembekezera. Choncho, nyama chilengedwe chawo, nkhani ya kugonana kapena bisexuality nkomwe kukacha. Kuchokera pamenepa tinganene kuti anthu afika ubale kugona ndi amuna bisexual si mogwirizana ndi kuitana kwa chilengedwe, koma ngakhale izo. A lathu mwamuna ndi mkazi - izo anaika kwambiri chikhalidwe cha chibadwa cha kubereka ana.