Misozi: kalata atate wake ndi mwana wake wamkazi ndi matenda Down mu tsiku la ukwati wake

Pol Dogerti, wotchuka English Wolemba ganyu bambo, analemba chogwira kalata kwa mwana wake wamkazi ndi matenda Down pa tsiku la ukwati wake. Pano pali malemba a kalata imeneyi anatembenuzidwa Russian.

Kalata ya mwana wamkazi Paulo Doherty a

"Wokondedwa Gillian! Masiku ano, ukwati wanu udzachitike. Kuyambira lero, inu ndi Ryan adzadutsa moyo pamodzi. Tsiku limeneli lidzakhala chiyambi cha mbiri banja lanu. Ine sindikudziwa momwe N'zachidziwikire kuti mtsikana syndrome Down amatha kupeza chikondi cha moyo wake ndi kukwatiwa ndi mwamuna wina, koma ine ndikudziwa kuti inu munazichita izo!

Tsopano inu muli mu chipinda chanu. Pamodzi ndi mayi wake ndi operekeza akwati mukuchita kukonzekera komaliza kuyang'ana pa tsiku limeneli makamaka wokongola. tsitsi lanu kale zakhala zikuzunza m'miyoyo mu tsitsi lalitali, kutsegula khosi woonda. Zovala zanu jeweled (inu mwanthabwala kuwatcha "zokongoletsera zawo") amakopeka iliyonse cheza cha madzulo dzuwa. Lanu ongowalingalirawa (ndipo makamaka atadzipaka mmilomo owala) kukutsimikizira mbali wanu wokondeka. Ndi kumwetulira ukufalikira pa nkhope yanu.

Ndine tsopano m'bwalo la nyumba yathu Ndapereka mutu wanga ndi kuyang'ana pa zenera lako. Mu mphindi pamene mitima yathu imadzaza ndi chiyembekezo cha tsogolo labwino, timamva makamaka moyo. Zonse zimene ife ndinalota, anachita dziko ndi ikuimira ungwiro abwino. Chimwemwe kwenikweni. Ine bwino kumva izo, atayima pansi zenera lako.

Ine ndimafuna kuti ndikuuzeni inu, koma ine ndamva kuti ndilibe mawu ...

Pamene iwe unabadwa, ndipo pamene kukula, amayi anu ndi Ine makamaka nkhawa kuphunzira patsogolo. Kumene, tachita zonse zimene angathe inu maphunziro, tinapeza aphunzitsi abwino. Taonera kupambana kwanu, chifukwa taona momwe inu kuyesedwa, ndi tiyenera kulemekeza.

Tinachita zonse zimene ife tingakhoze kuchita. Chinthu chokha chimene chinatsalira kunja athu - ubale wanu ndi anzanu. Tinkafuna kuti ana amavomera inu, kuthandiza inu, ndi inu lotsatira. Tinaganiza kuti: "Kodi moyo wa mwana aliyense ayenera kudzazidwa ndi misonkhano ndi abwenzi, mukugona ndi nyumba wina ndi mzake? Kodi mtundu wa mwana, ngati palibe akubadwa waubwenzi ndi gule? Kodi sayenera zonse izi mwana wathu? "

Ndinkaopa za inu ...

Ndinalira usiku kuti pamene munabwera kwa ife ndi mayi ake ndipo anati mwachisoni: ". Ine ndiribe abwenzi"

Tonse timafuna kuti ana athu akhale osangalala. Tikufuna iwo thanzi ndi chimwemwe, ife ndikungofuna ana athu kuti ana. Ndi ufulu wa kubadwa mwana aliyense ali ndi mtima wofuna kukhala ndi mwana. Ndipo ine ndinali nkhawa inu, nkhawa kuchita ndi chikhumbo chanu yachibadwa msungwana wamng'ono.

Koma ine analibe nkhawa ...

Inu munali ngati masoka pankhani kulankhulana. Ku pulayimale, inu mwanthabwala amatchedwa "meya" chifukwa inu mosavuta kusonkhanitsa ana onse pamodzi ndi chinthu ali mokhudza za. Ndipo sekondale mukuchita kuvina ndi kuchita pa siteji. Mu nthawi yonse imene muli ku koleji, mukhoza kusiya chidwi mu moyo wa munthu aliyense bwino inu.

Kodi mukukumbukira zinthu monga zinanenedweratu, inu simungakhoze kuchita? Inu munati inu konse kuphunzira kukwera njinga, inu simungakhoze kusewera masewera. Anthu anati kuti inu simungapeze mu koleji, palibe wina amene amam'konda ndipo inu simukhala okwatira ... Ndipo tsopano ine ndimayang'ana pa inu mu izi kavalidwe wokongola ukwati!

Ndinu opambana aliyense Ndinadziwa. Inu - Munthu angathe kukhala moyo wopanda chinyengo ndi chinyengo. Mudziwa momwe angachitire chifundo, ndi nthawizonse ndayesera kuthandiza. Mwina aliyense wa ife kuti akufuna kuonana naye mu moyo wa munthu monga inu.

Inu ndi Ryan ndi mwayi kwambiri kukumana wina ndi mzake. Ndikufuna ndakupatsa udindo kumkonda Iye ndi mtima wanga wonse, koma anachita, ndipo n'zoonekeratu kuti mukumva iye malingaliro ambiri oona mtima. Ndikadakuuzani inu kukhala wodekha ndi zofewa ndi iye. Koma inu ndipo popanda malangizo anga ndi zoterezi. Ndikanakonda awiri a inu ubwenzi ndi kulemekezana, koma chifukwa maganizo amenewa pakati pa inu ndi bwino kuti aliyense amene akukudziwani inu.

zaka khumi zapitazo, munthu suti ndi maluwa anafika pakhomo pathu ndipo anati, "Ine ndikufuna kuitanira mwana wako wamkazi kuti gule, bwana." Zinali nthawi yomweyo ndinazindikira kuti moyo wanu lidzadzaza, kuti iye adzakhala wosangalala.

Ndipo tsopano ndi Ryan kutenga sitepe mu moyo watsopano. Usaope izi, chifukwa palimodzi inu bwino.

Ndipo tsopano, kukonzekera zonse atamaliza msungwana wanga wamng'ono kudzakumana nane atavala zoyera. Ine mpweya kutali, ndi chinthu chokha chimene ine ndinganene: "Kodi inu taonani!".

Koma ndiye ine kutenga ndekha mu dzanja: "Ife tiyenera. Ndi nthawi kutenga sitepe yofunika iyi. "