Mawu anzeru ndi wokongola wa mkazi

Otchedwa "chofooka kugonana" khama kwambiri za ndakatulo ndi nyimbo, mabuku ndi nkhani yochepa, ndipo ndithudi, aphorisms. Ziganizo za akazi alolera wokonda moyo wodzimana Indian anati yoga, anamatetule kum'maŵa ndi agulupa akale, woyamikiridwa andakatulo Provencal ndi titans ya Kubadwa Kwatsopano. Iye anamupeza "Mtedza" chifukwa omasuka ndiponso ochezeka ndipo chikondi zodzikongoletsera, inventor ake anaganiza temptress zoyipa ndi amene kuwononga mtundu wa anthu. Koma iye - Hava, Pandora, mkazi ndi likulu kalata, ndipo ankakonda mnzanu - wofunika kulemekezedwa, akulemekezedwa. "The Kugonana Chachiwiri" sikuti akubera ndi kuletsedwa, koma adayesa bwino ndi changwiro kuposa amuna. Taganizirani chomwecho ndemanga anzeru za akazi.

Amene analankhulapo za iwo mu Muslim East

Akukhulupirira kuti Chisilamu, Chikomfyushani, ndi chikhalidwe Indian ankawanyoza amatchula "kugonana chochepa mphamvu". Kumene, maganizo akazi pali pano, koma ndi chitukuko European sanali mizoginichna pamaso feminism anabadwa. Komanso, mawu abwino kwambiri akazi mbali ya ndakatulo Oriental. Mfumukazi Chess masewera a chikondi, chirengedwe kwambiri changwiro cha Ambuye, moto mtima eyebrow kuukitsidwa - likunena za temptress anakhumba Omar Khayyam. Iye anawauza mobwerezabwereza kuti mkazi ndi nzeru zambiri, monga mu bukhu, koma izi ndipo ngati wina, kumvetsa olembedwawo akhale ophunzira. Mtundu wa Bedouin Rudaki popanda wake wokondedwa kumwamba akufuna kutseka maso ake kalikonse mozungulira. Ndipo Afghanstan ndakatulo Jami si ngakhale anatsutsa ndi kukongola anamutcha cholemetsa galu, koma kusankha pakati ena, mphekesera za iye.

Ziganizo za mkazi Kale

Agiriki musati kwambiri bwenzi lake wokongola. Iwo anapitiriza iwo anatsekeredwa mu nthambi wapadera wa nyumba - Hynek ndi adaseleula motere naye zimene mkazi wabwino kawiri kokha mu moyo wanga - ukwati ndi atatsala pang'ono kufa. Adawopa okondedwa awo. Ngakhale Socrates anati kuti anyamata kukongola wamkazi ngati poizoni, koma ndi oopsa. Ndipotu, zinthu zoipa zimenezi n'kosangalatsa. Koma Aatene tragedian Euripides analangiza konse kukhulupirira akazi. Ngakhale zitakhala kuti choonadi. Ambiri mwa anzeru wakale Greek ankaona tsokali akazi, msampha kwa amuna. Choncho, pofuna kuti aone nzeru ndi kukongola kwa "kugonana chochepa mphamvu" m'nthawi yakaleyo, m'pofunika kusiya oimira okha. Sappho, ndakatulo kuchokera Lesbos, ali asamalidwe mawu chodabwitsa kwambiri kutamanda akazi abwino a kukongola, malingaliro ndi mphamvu. Kulambira Aphrodite, amene ankachita mu bwalo la mkazi lodabwitsali ndi wanzeru Greek, anabereka zithunzi kwambiri mabuku a atsikana. Apa pali mmodzi wa iwo, ngati duwa mwezi, yomwe kumka, imaonetsa nyenyezi zonse kuwala mwa ena, kuwapanga wosaoneka. mapazi wachifundo, tsekwe khosi, zodabwitsa mapini msasa ngati duwa golide - kuposa mawu abwino zoyenera kugonana mkazi, n'kovuta kupeza mabuku Greek ndi nzeru.

"Art wa Chikondi" ndi troubadours

Mu Middle Ages, mkazi woyamba ku Ulaya kuti mfumukazi yeniyeni ya ndakatulo. NdiAmene wa mayiko onse - troubadours, trouveres, minnesingers - mopikisana anaimba mumangire dona amene akufunira anathamangira kuchita pa akumufuna. Iwo ali mawu kwambiri za mkaziyo. Lady wokonda - ndi munthu wamkulu, ndilo tanthauzo la moyo kwa mtumiki wake courtly. Mtima wofuna si mu lawo, ndi kusintha moyo ndi ubwenzi abwino. Lady kutumikira, ndi izo zokha waganiza bwanji apamtima kupita wokonda ake, ndiponso ngati munthuyo ali woyenera maganizo ake. Iye - zenizeni dona, Akazi, iye ngwanzeru ndi wokongola. Sangatikhululukire kuwala, "chikondi kutali" - ichi ndi mawu ambiri amene tadzipereka kwa wokondedwa. N'zochititsa chidwi abwino kwa anthu a nthawi imeneyo anali mkazi wokwatiwa, osati mtsikana, chifukwa, monga ndakatulo, ndi pa mlingo wokwererapo kuganiza ndi zauzimu chitukuko.

Kodi nzeru ena kuti?

mawu anzeru za mkazi anaonekera osati kale. Anzeruwo amakonda komanso akhala kukhulupirira kuti oimira "yosanja" akhoza kukhala anzeru, koma osati waluntha, ndi kuti mwano kwambiri zimene iye - ndi kuwatcha iwo yonyansa. Choncho ankaganiza maganizo awa yowala ngati Kant ndi Hegel. Koma kwambiri mpaka lero, kotero kukhala njira yapadera kwambiri ndi ubale ofanana ndi kugonana mkazi. Semyuel Dzhonson ananena kuti chifukwa iwo kulemba za theka wokongola wa anthu makamaka amuna, zimene amati ake monga ndifotokoze mavuto awo ndi Zingwe za dziko. Ena anzeru ngakhale kuposa alakatuli m'mawu ake za akazi. Mwachitsanzo, Maks Veber kuti munthu Inde, akhoza kukhala wodziŵa kwambiri. Ngakhale kuposa mkazi. Koma sadzakhoza kunena zambiri ngati kuti maso ake, ndipo samalowa zosiyanasiyana zoterozo.

Olemba ndakatulo ndi za akazi

Amene analemba nkhani kuposa wina aliyense? Kumene, olemba ndi mwaluso kukhala ndi ndakatulo mawu, amene anasonyeza kuti dziko mawu abwino kwambiri a mkazi. "Intuitiveness Awo ndi luso Chapafupi mphezi zambiri zolondola koposa azidzidalira a anthu", - anati Rudyard Kipling. A Balzac ananena kuti mkazi ali bwino ndi zambiri odzipereka chikondi. Nthawi zonse amayembekezera otsiriza, ndi kupha chikhulupiriro, ndiribe nthawi kugunda lupanga. Ndipo ngakhale ndiye, mkazi adzakonda mpaka dontho lotsiriza la magazi. Ngakhale Nietzsche, amene anali ndakatulo ndi nzeru zapamwamba, zoyenera kugonana wokongola mawu ochepa wabwino. Ngakhale ankamutcha wodana ndi akazi okongola Komabe, iye anavomereza kuti mtima wachikondi wa mkazi ndi wokonzeka kutaya chilichonse, ndi china chirichonse ndi wopanda phindu kwa iye. Ndipo Leo Tolstoy limanenela amuna kuti iwo amafuna kuchokera ankakonda awo monga onse ubwino, zomwe iwo alibe ndi omwe si oyenera.

Kodi akunena za iwo okha

mawu Great za akazi sangathe idzakuphimba chakuti iwo amaganiza okha. Nzosadabwitsa anthu ena otchuka ananena kuti palibe munthu amatha kumvetsa zimene woimira amaganiza "kugonana chochepa mphamvu" ndipo simungathe kuzindikira izo. Zimafunika izo. Kotero izo ziri. Wolemba Virdzhiniya Vulf Palibe zodabwitsa iwo amanena kuti kwa nthawi yaitali kwambiri mkaziyo anali galasi munthu nthawi. Only anasonyeza chinyengo wake. Chithunzi cha mwamuna pagalasi anaonekera kawiri kuposa izo kwenikweni. A loteteza ufulu wa akazi Lisa Kremer ananena kuti akazi oterewa anthu ambiri okhala pa dziko lapansi. Only izo apo, mwatsoka, ndi ufulu ochepa. Ena madona wotchuka akudandaula kuti mbisoweka chikondi troubadour ndakatulo m'dziko lathu. Chifukwa tsopano ndi Ngopambana nthawi. mkazi ali mmodzi wa zolengedwa, adawayitana - ulamuliro, osati kulamulira. Osachepera, kotero anati Delphine de A Girardin.