Kodi kuthetsa choipa tokha ndi dziko

Masiku ano, anthu ntchito kusamalira okha nokha, iwalani za zofuna za ena, kuvulaza ena kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo. Ambiri amakhulupirira khalidwe ndi wakudziko Komabe, palibe amene amafuna poyerekezera kuti zitero. Zoipa ndi kumene ikuchokera? N'chiyani chimachititsa izo? Kodi kuthetsa choipa anthu ndipo kodi n'zotheka?

Choipa?

Lingaliro la mawu akuti "zoipa" amatanthauza kupereka dala kuvulaza munthu wina ndi mzake, kuwonongeka ndi mavuto. Izi zikuphatikizapo chilichonse chimene ofunika anthu ndi nkhani zoipa. Mu Zitsanzo zoipa: mabodza, chiwawa, nsanje, udani, chinyengo, chinyengo.

Zoipa kumafuna kupereka zoipa makhalidwe kapena thupi kwa anthu ena, nyama, dziko lonse. anthu onse amoyo kudzizunza wina ndi mzake. Koma munthu wokhoza kupanga zimenezo mozindikira, kupanga kusankha kwawo motsogozedwa Muzingoona.

Chikhalidwe cha uchimo wa anthu

Ku maganizo a Chikhristu anabadwa zoipa munthu, pamene Adamu ndi Hava anakhala mayesero ndipo sanamvere Mulungu, analawa chipatso choletsedwa. Kuyambira pamenepo, ngakhale wongobadwa makanda amene anali anakwanitsa kuchita m'moyo uno chilichonse cholakwika, uchimo kunditumiza ku chidutswa cha makolo awo. Man ana aang'ono ali Ambiri Amakonda kusamvera, zoipa ndi zochita zachinyengo.

Poyamba, ana onse amabadwira wangwiro ndi wopanda chimo. Njira imene anthu adzakhala mwachindunji amadalira analeredwera. Mothandizidwa ndi makolo ndipo anthu anapanga makhalidwe onse a munthu. Mu dziko lathu, pali anthu abwino omwe ali okonzeka kuthandiza ngakhale mlendo Komabe, ngati ochepa. Ana amene amakula ndi mabanja oterowo, monga ulamuliro, yesetsani kuchita zoipa, osati nkhanza kwa ena.

Kodi kuthetsa zoipa za m'dzikoli

Mwina ambiri timafuna kuona mdziko konse kuletsa nkhondo, upandu wapita, ndi anthu kuchitira ulemu kwa wina ndi mzake. Ngati mtima wofuna kuthandiza anthu ambiri, n'chifukwa chiyani kuipa zilipodi?

Mwatsoka, ana ambiri aukitsidwa mu kotentha, ndi zotsatira zimene timapeza kuchokera akulu awa kukhala omangidwa ndi ofunitsitsa kuchita chilichonse kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo. Kodi kuthetsa choipa, ngati ku ubwana anthu amakumana ndi nkhanza ndi chiwawa?

Ndipotu, kuti amange anthu amene pali mwamtheradi choipa ndi zovuta, mwinanso zosatheka, osachepera posachedwapa. Ngati olamulira a m'mayiko onse kugwirizanitsa, tifunika kuchita khama kuti lofalitsidwa ndi mndandanda wa malamulo umalimbana bwanji kuthetsa choipa vutoli chikanadzakhala chophweka kwambiri. Komabe, izi ndi chodziwikiratu kuti zichitike, chifukwa anthu mphamvu sindikufuna kusintha dziko, pa chiopsezo ubwenzi wake mu dera ndi ubwino onse amene ali.

Mumatani kuti anthu? mungokhala kudikira zoipa sadzakhala kutha palokha, kusangalala anthu sawononga lokha ndi nkhondo ndi masoka zachilengedwe? Anthu ambiri amaona kuti sangathe kukonza chilichonse ndipo adzapitiriza moyo popanda kuganizira kuti munthu penapake akukumana mavuto. Komabe, munthu aliyense angathe zimakhudzira miyoyo yawo, kuyamba kuchita zinthu zabwino kwa ena ndi kulemekeza zofuna za ena.

Yambani ndi nokha

Ngati inu kusintha dziko mphamvu si aliyense, ndiye kuganizira mmene kuthetsa choipa palokha, munthu aliyense. Ndithudi, anthu ambiri angayesere kubisa mawonetseredwe onse a negativity, ndi wokoma mtima ndiponso zoyeretsa atero anthu athu.

Ngati mukuganiza kuti muli kuthetsa choipa palokha ndi losavuta kwambiri, ndinu kwambiri kolakwika. Anthu amene akufuna kutero, kuphunzira mtima pa moyo wake. Osati mophweka kuchita Muzingoona, makamaka pa nthawi imene kwa inu kuchita mosiyana.

Udzachotsa zoipa mwa tokha kumatanthauza zinthu okhazikika wauzimu wa munthu, kufuna kupwanya maganizo onse oipa, luso losiyanitsa chabwino ndi choipa, luso kukana mayesero chopatsa zochita ochimwa. Ndi zambiri za ntchito pa okha, kuti mphamvu si aliyense. Komabe, ngati munthu watsimikiza monga kuyankha funso mmene kuthetsa choipa, koma kuyesa kutero, muyenera kuyamba loyamba la onse ndi iyemwini.

Kodi polera mwana munthu wabwino

N'kuthekanso kuti dziko lathu malo abwino ndi mwayi kuphunzitsa mwana wanu mtundu ndi munthu wachifundo. Masiku ano, pali zambiri onse milandu, makolo amakhala otanganidwa, kuonetsetsa banja ndi chuma bwino. Ambiri sadziwa mphamvu zokwanira kuti apatse ana awo chisamaliro choyenera.

Kuti kukula munthu wabwino, mwana ayenera nthawizonse chikondi ndi kusamalira makolo awo. Ana amafunika kusintha zonse zochita zawo ndi khalidwe limene akulu. makolo okha angathe kuphunzitsa mwana wanu kupanga maganizo oyenera zabwino ndi zoipa, nachiyika pa njira yoyenera, kuphunzitsa ndi chidaliro a dziko.

Wamkulu ngakhale kuti iye amakhala ndi cholakwika, zovuta kwambiri kumvetsetsa mmene kuthetsa choipa mkati mwathu ndi kudziwa ikukhudzana kwa dziko ndi kwa anthu m'njira zosiyana. Ana ndi chikumbumtima choyera. Zimakhala zosavuta kuti poyamba kwezani mtundu wa anthu, kuposa kuyesa kukonza zolakwika ndi kuthetseratu kuipa.

Kodi n'zotheka kuthetseratu zoipa

dziko lathu lakonzedwa kuti alipo zabwino ndi zoyipa. Kodi n'zotheka kwathunthu ndi mmene kuthetsa choipa amuna?

Amadziwika kuti patsogolo kwa sayansi ukufika umunthu, zambiri woganizira anthu chathu. Mwina, mu zaka mazana angapo, chitukuko cha chitukuko chathu lidzafika pamlingo wotere kuti upandu ndi chiwawa kuchepetsedwa asatayike, ndipo anthu kumvetsetsa mmene kuthetseratu kuipa. Yankho la funso liti zimenezi zidzachitika, ndi ngati chinthu choterocho zikanadzachitika sakudziwika kwa ife.

Ngati mu miyoyo yathu, palibe kwenikweni chilichonse choipa, munthu wovuta akazindikira zabwino. Satana akhoza kupezeka kuti anthu kuzindikira zabwino ndi kuwala, zimene pinaacitikira. Ngakhale kuti sitikukhala bwino lero kuti kuthetseratu zoipa za m'dzikoli, aliyense akhoza kuyesa miyoyo yawo ndi moyo wa ena bwino.