Kodi kutengeka kwa munthu ndi mmene kuthana nawo

Ngakhale kwambiri wofatsa ndiponso anthu ali ndi kutengeka. Koma kodi ndi maganizo ndi chifukwa iwo tcheru kwambiri? zamaganizo ambiri amakhulupirira kuti uyu ndiye woyamba ndipo nthawi yomweyo anachita chochitika, chinthu kapena chochitika. Ichi ndi chinthu chosakhalitsa, amene Komabe, nkofunika kwambiri kwa thupi.

chakuti mtima kutumikira monga ngati galasi kwa dziko lakunja. Wachisoni limasonyeza kuti munthu ndi osakhutira ndi zinthu, kapena chinachake monga icho.

Zabwino, Komano, anali kulondola kwa zochita, amatumikira monga ngati "karoti." Pankhaniyi, maganizo ndi zambiri kapena zochepa amphamvu. Mwachitsanzo, mantha angathe kuthetsa, koma chodabwitsa - ndi wamphamvu kwambiri kutengeka - aipa koposa ulamuliro. Pankhaniyi, mantha akuuza munthu kuti anayenera ndi zowopsa zina ndi mantha - kuti vutolo ndi lalikulu kwambiri ndi bwino mothamanga. Ndikudabwa limatiuza za zomwe kapena chochitika si zogwirizana ndi mfundo kale anapanga ndi maganizo.

Asayansi kwa nthawi yaitali kukangana za zimene mtima ndi momwe iwo akhoza kugawidwa ndi anafotokoza. Nthawi zambiri, iwo anawagawa yosavuta zofunika (chimwemwe, chisoni, nkhawa, kukwiya, mantha, anadabwa ndi kunyansidwa) pa zosangalatsa ululu (makamaka mosavuta inachokera mu akhanda Mwachitsanzo) ndi ena ambiri. Koma zakuya onsewo chichokera zochitika anamvera ndipo sanali kugwilizana ndi zofuna za chilengedwe cha zinthu zenizeni ndi zikhulupiriro anthu.

Komabe, pali zambiri zimene mungachite kovuta. Izi, pamwamba kulankhulana kutengeka, ndiyo zinachitikira zokhudzana ndi ludzu la kulankhulana, maganizo ubwenzi. Kodi pa kutengeka wa mtundu uwu? Akakamiza anthu ubwenzi, chifundo ndi thandizo. Chimodzi modzi ndi maganizo athandize nzika zawo, amene anthu kuthandiza ndi kuteteza munthu ndi chilakolako chofuna kutchuka, kudzikonda motsimikiza, kuzindikira ndi ulemu. Pambali pali chimayamba ndi maganizo wosangalatsa ntchito, cholinga kapena kukongola kwa amalingalira. Komabe pali wokonda zosangalatsa umene umaoneka maganizo kugwirizana ndi kukhuta zofunika chitonthozo, kapena kuvutika maganizo, ndi chimwemwe cha kupeza kapena kudzikundikira.

Kodi maganizo kwa munthu? Ichi ndi zilakolako woyamba kwambiri kuti amutsogolere iye ndi kutsogolera ntchito zonse, iwo ndi zofunika kwambiri poyerekezera ndi maganizo ndi chifukwa, ndipo nthawi zambiri kutsogolera khalidwe la. Ndi moyo popanda iwo, anthu chabe sangathe, chifukwa munthu akhoza kudwala timadzi kagayidwe, mawu thupi lonse kusintha kumverera chimwemwe ndi chidzalo cha moyo. Ndicho chifukwa chake kuli kofunika kudziwa njira za yosamalira maganizo ndi kuzigwiritsa ntchito bwino.

Akatswiri ena amati ndi zoipa ndipo sayenera kuletsedwa zilakolako. Komabe, kukhumudwa akadali zofunika. Ndipotu, kungakhale kowopsa kwa ena ndi zoipa kwa munthu yekha. Pali njira zitatu kuugwira mtima. Izi koposa zonse, pofuna kusinthana kwa chinachake, kusankha chinthu chinanso ndende. Monga ulamuliro, njira imeneyi ntchito mwangwiro, basi ayenera kuti ena khama. Njira yachiwiriyi njakutswitswidika kusintha zikhulupiriro, chifukwa iwo ali mphamvu kwambiri pa njira yomwe munthu amaona mfundo chilengedwe. Ndipo njira lachitatu - kusintha Maphunziro Akakhalidwe Kazolengedwa: kupuma, kaimidwe, ngakhale kamvekedwe ka mawu zimakhudza maganizo a munthu ndi maganizo.

Choncho, mosasamala kanthu za ulamuliro wa maganizo ndi kuti anachokera kosamugonjera chifukwa, anthu Komabe, nazo ndi kuwasokoneza, kupeza mogwirizana ndi kukhulupirika. Ndithudi, mosadziletsa mwake zakutchire ndi kuwononga anthu zoipa ndi kukhala wamphamvu pa iwo limachititsa kukhala wosangalala ndiponso kukwaniritsa moyo.