Kodi kupereka wokondedwa pa tchuthi?

Pamene akuyandikira maholide lotsatira, zikondwerero zochitika pachaka, izo zifika za kuti ngwazi za nthawi muyenera kusankha mphatso woyenera kuti akanadzabwera kulawa ndi sanamugwiritse Iye mwala ziyembekezo.

Chimodzi mwa zovuta kwambiri, mwina, kuti ayankhe funso la akapereka wokondedwa wanu munthu pa madyerero theka wamkazi wa anthu. Tiyeni kubadwa ichi, Woteteza Tsiku Lathu, Chaka Chatsopano, holide akatswiri Tsiku la Valentine, kapena chinachake. Mwachibadwa, aliyense wa ife akufuna mphatso, amene adzakhale wofunika kwambiri komanso chamtengo kwa wokondedwa wathu, kuti anaona chisamaliro wathu, chisamaliro, chikondi ndi khama.

Tumizani maluwa ayenera kusankhidwa monga zokonda zake, maganizo ndi zofuna kwambiri. Ngati munthu uyu n'zothandiza, okhwima, nthawi zonse wotanganidwa ndi zinthu zofunika komanso kutsatira malamulo ndi tsiku chizolowezi, iye tikuyandikira mphatso zofunikira pa ntchito yake, zinthu zimene tatsimikiza kuti ntchito mu nyumba yake, ndi nthawizonse muyenera. Munthu otere ndi chodziwikiratu kuyamikira kachikumbutso achabechabe. Kwa iye, zonse uli ndi cholinga. Kuchokera pa ichi, ife tiyenera kusankha mphatso yabwino.

Kodi kupereka wokondedwa ndi khalidwe amenewa ndi njira ya moyo? Apa kusankha si yaing'ono kwambiri. The tingachipeze powerenga Baibulo - zapamadzi kampani wotchuka. Koma izo zikanakhoza kukhala ya malo kwa udindo wake, thumba la ndalama, kapena kukongola chikopa chikwama kwa mapepala malonda ndi munthu, ulonda mlengi, zomwe iye akanakhoza onani zomwezo tsiku ndi tsiku, nthawi yomweyo kuonekera pa misonkhano, ndi zina zotero. Izi zonse angagwiritsidwe ntchito pa ntchito ndi iye. Ndipo kodi kupereka kunyumba wokondedwa? Izo ndi zimene iwo apitiriza ntchito - slippers, bathrobe, kumeta Chalk, perefyumu, ndipo ngati mwamuna wanu amakonda kuchita kudzipatsa beautification kunyumba, popanda misonkhano antchito wolembedwa, adzasangalala kwambiri ngati azipereka Iye iliyonse zida zofunikira - ndi kubowola, parketku, screwdriver, screwdriver akonzedwa, ndi chinachake monga choncho. Inu mukuona mmene likukhalira, n'zosavuta kusankha mphatso zoterozo mitundu ya anthu.

Tiyeni tiganize za ena. Male chikondi, chidwi kusonkhanitsa zopereka aliyense, kuchititsa kuntchito nthawi yambiri ndi banja ndi mabwenzi amene amakonda kuyenda, maulendo kumunda ndi nsomba, nyimbo ndi gitala ndi moto wa. Munthu woteroyo kuposa kuzindikira choyambirira zosayembekezereka, mphatso. Mungapeleke chiani wokondedwa, ngati akutchula mtundu wa anthu? Apa wosankha ndi watanthauzo kwambiri kuposa zinachitikira m'mbuyomu, koma m'maganizo ndi khama pa mphatso yanu Pakufunika zambiri. Slippers kapena mbiri mu Zikatero sadzakhala kudzutsa kwambiri. Munthu otere angapereke chinachake kwathunthu achabechabe ku mawonedwe a lolingalira, koma chinthu ichi ndi chifukwa kukhala chizindikiro cha chinthu china mtengo kwambiri. Ngati Mwachitsanzo, akufuna kupita kwinakwake mu Mexico, mphatso Mexico poncho kapena zotambalala Mexico chipewa adzakhala kwambiri. Angapereke chinthu wosaneneka kwa deta wake mtengo, chinachake yogwira kapena kungokhala chete zosangalatsa - hema, mpando gombe, ambulera, matiresi mpweya, njinga kapena wodzigudubuza skates, skateboard kapena ski, inu akhoza kungoyankha ati kalekale. Pakuti maulendo adziwitse gitala imathandiza lamayimbidwe, hideaway - chidwi m'buku. Kulankhula ndi abwenzi - bawo, mikondo, ndiponso mwina tebulo dziwe. Kusankha monga zozizwitsa. Zimakhala zovuta mudzakhala nacho pamene mukufuna kuganizira chinthu chimodzi. Koma chikondi chanu kwa wokondedwa adzakuuzani inu ndipo mudzakhala zinthu mwanzeru.

Tiyeni funso - kodi kupereka munthu wokondedwa wanu, kodi inu simukuganiza lovuta kwambiri, chifukwa ndikutsimikiza inu mukudziwa bwino mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu, mnzanu, m'bale kapena bambo kusankha mphatso woyenera iye amene angalandire ndi chimwemwe chachikulu, ndi kuzindikira bwino zofuna zake.