Kodi kulabadira chipongwe ndi: Nsonga 'yake'

Aliyense wa ife kamodzi mmoyo wa chipongwe. Imeneyi, nthawi yomweyo ndikufuna kunena chirichonse chonga izo, koma sikuti ndi mawu oyenera, mawu ndi ngakhale nzeru. Zovuta kupeza mwachangu ndi kusankha njira yoyenera. ntchito yathu - kuthetsa momwe kuyankha chipongwe ndi kuti chifukwa interlocutor si kudzichepetsa smirk ndi ulemu. Iwo likukhalira kuti si kophweka, chifukwa muyenera kumvetsa zinthu zochepa.

Patsogolo chilichonse yankho, muyenera kukhadzikika ndi kugonjetsa mantha amene muli. Kumene, mdani wako adzamva izo mwamsanga, ndipo adzakhala malo mtengo. Kumbukirani kuti mdani mantha zosachepera wanu, chifukwa mphamvu zanu - mu chikhulupiriro kuti sitingathe kutaya. Kuti kungakuthandizeni kupeza yankho ufulu vutolo.

Ngati inu chinaperekedwa poyera achipongwe, ndemanga pachithunzichi wanu chikhalidwe udindo, zovala, kapena maonekedwe, ndithudi, ine ndikufuna yomweyo abwezere wopalamulayo mu ndalama yomweyo. Koma mu nkhani iyi Udzayang'ana mopusa, ndi sparring, lomwe limapezeka, kanthu koma choseketsa ndi kutsutsidwa ena sadzachititsa. Zokhazikidwa zabwino adzakhala chabe kunyalanyaza mfundo: ayerekeze kuti sanadziwe munthuyo wakulakwirani, alibe chidwi mwa inu, pamapeto, izo si woyenera tcheru chanu. Mupambane, musakhulupirira Ine.

Ndi kovuta kusankha momwe kuyankha chipongwe ndi munthu bwino. Ngati inu malipiro mnzake, inu mukhoza mwina kupanga nthabwala (koma imeneyi, kuthamanga pangozi kuwasindikiza chitsiru), kapena wina kuyankha mwamwano (igwani pa maso wa ndodo). Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito wafunsa iliyonse, zimene zingakuthandizeni kutseka pakamwa, ndi watilakwira adzakhala zoseketsa ndithu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati inu mukuyankhula kwa atumiki tingasonyezere pa zake zam'mbali chipongwe yankho mawu monga akuti: ". Mukhoza kukhala ndi maganizo anu, koma si chidwi kwa ine"

Ngati inu kapena bwenzi "pa ndime ya", kuganizira momwe kuyankha chipongwe ndi n'zotheka amachita ndi zosinthika ndale: "Inu odziwa kwambiri pa nkhani imeneyi, koma simunabvomereze nthawi yabwino ndi malo kukambirana nkhani imeneyi." Choncho, mudzatha kuti mupewe mikangano, ndiye kuti abwezere iye pa nthawi, pamene inu okonzeka.

Kumbukirani kuti nthawi iliyonse inu ayenera kumamatira malo ŵa: kuti musadandaule, kuchotsa mantha ndi Suopa. Mdani Pankhaniyi iye adzayesa nditseke phunziro, kuti sangagwelenso mu maso a ena.

Masiku ano, chifukwa zonse ndi yaitali kulankhulana pa Intaneti, pali funso momwe kuyankha chipongwe pa Intaneti. Monga ulamuliro, interlocutors ambiri sitinaonepo mzake ndi sankalankhula panokha. Nthawi zina mavuto amenewa yanthanda pa masewera online, pamene adani musati skimp pa mawu a zabwino ndi zoipa. Kumene, mukhoza ndikhale anthu ntchito kutukwana ndi kutukwana, koma dziŵani kuti kusanja wanu monga wophunzira ndi munthu otukuka adzagwa, woyamba wa zonse, mwa inu nokha. Komanso zolakwa awa ali oletsedwa ndi zinkatanthauza udindo pa malamulo.

Pali malamulo ambiri a momwe kuyankha chipongwe ndi:

1. Poyesa kupatutsa zinthu moti panalibe otaya mwagwirizana mnyozo ndi atamunamizira. Ndi palibe wabwino sadzatero, ndipo komabe sindikudziwa ngati inu kulankhula ndi munthuyo. Tsoka - chinthu sizimadziwika.
2. Ngati mwano wokhudza ulemu wanu kapena ulemu, musati kumasulira zonse mu nthabwala. Yesani mwaulemu ndi kuika mu malo CAD popanda kufuula.
3. Sankhani poyankha kukambirana naye.
4. Kambiranani mmene ndingathere adaletsa kamvekedwe.

njira Universal kuyankha kwa chipongwe, chifukwa zonse zimadalira zinthu ndi umunthu wa munthu wolakwayo. Nkofunika kuti asataye kudziletsa ndi kusankha njira yoyenera.