Chikondi chokoma ndi chokoma pa ukwati!

N'zosatheka kulingalira chochitika chokhudza mtima komanso chosangalatsa kwambiri pamoyo wa anthu awiri kuposa ukwati. Ili ndi tsiku lapadera pamene anthu awiri achikondi amagwirizanitsa mitima yawo limodzi lonse, amatha kukhala ndi udindo wonse pa chisankho cha kuthandizana wina ndi mzake, akuyamba moyo watsopano mu khalidwe latsopano kwa iwo. Zoonadi, holideyi idzakhala nthawi zonse kukumbukira achinyamata. Pang'onopang'ono, zovala za alendo zidzayamba kuiwala, kufunika kwa mphatso kudzatayika, koma pali chinachake chomwe chidzakhalapo kosatha mu kukumbukira kwanu - zokhumba zowona kwambiri zaukwati wa abwenzi apamtima omwe anali ndi mwayi wochita nawo mwambo wokumbukira banja latsopano.

Ndipo, mosakayikira, chokhudza kwambiri chidzakhala chokhumba chaukwati m'mawu anu omwe, akulankhula ndi mtima wanu wonse. Taganizirani izi, chifukwa zikutanthawuza kuti munthu yemwe sakondwera ndi malemba, koma ndi mawu ake omwe, kwa kanthaŵi amaganizira za izi, amakumbukira zomwe zinachitika, amaganiza kuti zikanakhala zabwino kwa iwo!

Mayiko osiyana ali ndi miyambo yawo yokondwera tsiku losazolowereka. Ndizosangalatsa kuziganizira mozama! Pambuyo pake, chikhalidwe chilichonse ndi mndandanda wa miyambo yawo , miyambo , ndi zina zotero. Mwachitsanzo, kutentha kwa India achinyamata amawaza ndi maluwa osiyanasiyana. Ku Germany, pafupi ndi khomo la nyumbayo, mkwatibwi wamng'ono akung'amba ziwiya zambiri. Mu Greece, muzichita nyimbo zaukwati zomwe zimawopseza mizimu yoipa. Monga mukuonera, miyambo ndi yosiyana kwambiri, koma cholinga chawo chofanana ndikulakalaka achinyamata kukhala achimwemwe, chitukuko ndi chitukuko. Asilavo ankalemekeza matsenga a mawu ngakhale nthawi zakale, chifukwa chake malingaliro a ukwati ndiwo mwambo wofunikira kwambiri.

Ndikofunikira kusankha zosankha zabwino za ukwati, zofunika kwambiri, zowona mtima, mawu enieni mosakayikira adzagwira ntchito yofunikira pamoyo wa banja latsopanolo.

Choyamba, zokhumba zaukwati ndi zothandiza kwa achinyamata. Wina akhoza kuthandizira izi ndi grin, koma mkwati ndi mkwatibwi adzamveketsa mwatsatanetsatane kuti wina ayenera kulemekezana, kulekerera, kugwira ntchito mozungulira nyumba ndi kubweretsa ndalama kwa banja, kulera ana. Ngakhale zozizwitsa zaukwati ziyenera kutengedwa pang'ono, chifukwa mu nthabwala iliyonse pali choonadi.

Kukhalapo pa chikondwererocho, kudzipatulira kubadwa kwa banja laling'ono, sikutheka kukhala ndi mzimu wapadera wa chodabwitsa choterocho. Ndipo sizowopsa kuti anthu omwe adaitanidwa kutenga nawo mbali pazochitika zofunikira ngati zimenezi, amadzimva kuti akuchita nawo sakramenti yayikulu. Cholinga cha ukwati chikhoza kuchitika ndi gulu lapadera, chifukwa mulimonse mwa iwo mumakhala nzeru zadziko. Ndi nzeru imeneyi yomwe ndi maziko olimba a mgwirizano wa nthawi yaitali ndi ubale wa banja. Pothandizidwa ndi chokhumba kufotokozera zomwe akumana nazo, fotokozani momwe mungapewe kusamvetsetsana, ndipo chitetezeni motsutsana ndi zolakwa zosatheka.

Chofunika kwambiri ndi chosakumbukika ndizoyamikila makolo pa ukwatiwo. Ndi ndani yemwe angadziwe bwino kuposa amayi ake ndi abambo ake, momwe angayamikirire achinyamata kuti agwire moyo wawo ndi mtima wawo, ndikuwapangitsa kulingalira za nzeru zadziko. Kulankhula kwa makolo, choyamba, kuli ndi mawu ndi madalitso kwa ana omwe anaganiza zomanga chimwemwe chawo palimodzi. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndi kofunikira kwambiri kuyandikira ndi udindo wonse ku nthawi ino.

Inde, zikondwerero zaukwati zingapezedwe m'mawu omalizidwa, komanso polembera. Ngati mukufuna, mukhoza kuphatikiza mau anu ndi okonzeka kuyamika mu vesi. Pali mawu ambiri okongola komanso ndakatulo zoperekedwa kwa tsiku laukwati. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusankha ndakatulo zofunikira komanso zoyenera kwa anthu oyandikana nawo. Mwachidwi, mochititsa mantha, iwo angakhalenso akumbukira kwa zaka zambiri!