Ankadziwa - ndi swagger ndi Munthu akamakonda kapena chomasuka kulankhulana ndi kuganizira ena?

Latin "familiaris" amatanthauza "banja", "kunyumba". Motero, "ankadziwa". Mawu kasintha nthawi. Pofika kumayambiriro kwa zaka XVIII chinenero cha Chirasha, mawu akumveka apamtima negative. Muzu Latin sakukhulupiriranso kufunika kwake kale. Ankadziwa njira tsopano zosayenera, intrusive omasuka swagger.

Moyo wa aliyense lagawidwa munthu aliyense, ndipo munthu amene amapitiriza mobisa, ndi anzanu kapena pafupi. Munthu kulowa mkati, mundandanda, ali ndi ufulu kunyalanyaza mu kukambirana. Wokondedwa ali ndi ufulu kupereka malangizo amangokupatsani, amanena zinthu zina zabwino, monga zovala kapena maonekedwe. Tiyerekeze kuti mayi amapatsa mwana wake wamkazi kukula malangizo zotani zovala Ndi bwino pankhani zina. Ankadziwa ali? Nthawi zambiri, ayi. Ndipotu, mwana wamkazi, nawonso kuthandiza mayi anga ndi kusankha zovala, motsogozedwa ndi kukoma kwake.

Ndi chinthu chimodzi pamene mnzake kapena wachibale adzakhala kulangiza chinachake kusintha kwa kalembedwe kavalidwe, ndipo pagona - pamene anthu sankadziwa akuwomba paphewa ndi kunena, "mkulu, inu sizikugwirizana chimango / jekete / juzi ". Ankadziwa ali? Mosakayikira.

Mfundo yoti kufanana kwa malo ali ndi zomwe sizikuyenda, pa nthawi kumene, kusintha ngati malamulo a ukhondo, banja. Mwachitsanzo, tsopano m'mabanja ambiri ana musamatchule makolo "inu", zinali zachilendo kwa zaka zana zapitazo. Ngati inu tikutsegula ngakhale patali, inu mudzapeza zoseketsa kuona kuti pali ankadziwa. Mwachitsanzo, limafotokoza Saltykov -Schedrin mu "masiku amakedzana Poshehonsky." Mnyamata moni, anapereka Donayo akhaonera, dzanja - limafotokonzera monga "ankadziwa zosavomerezeka."

Koma ku lero. Pali zinthu zikhoza akambirana anthu sankadziwa kapena anzake - nyengo, ndale ndi zina zotero. Ndipo Kudaonekeratu poyera kuti pali nkhani zimene munthu wabwinobwino ndi chodziwikiratu kuti mukufuna kukambirana pagulu ndi chodziwikiratu kuti avutike kulowelera mu dera aliyense chipani. Ndipo mu Russia iwo analandira alendo ndi anthu achilendo anatembenukira kwa wina ndi mnzake "inu", kupita pa zochepa ofunda "inu" bwino ndi kumulemba mnzawo kusamvana.

Bwino munthu safuna kuzindikira kuti kuli malamulo amenewa. Iye decouples ndipo nawonso anaika-kukalankhula. Pankhaniyi, nthawizina izo zimawoneka kuti iye ankadziwa wake - izi ndi zimene malinga ndi chikondi ndi chisamaliro. Sizowona. Iye ndi lalikulu osayanjanitsika yekha interlocutor, ndipo anachita. Iye akufuna mau ake okha zolondola, mawonedwe, wokakamiza malamulo ake onse lokhalo lovomerezeka. Sanazengereze zimene amaika interlocutor wake kovuta pofunsa mafunso patokha, moti amangokupatsani malangizo. An kusintha zosavuta "inu" ngakhale pochita zinthu ndi munthu wamkulu kuposa iye, osanenapo zaka zofanana, zilibe kufufuta kumalire ndi kutitengera mavuto polankhulana. Ndipotu, m'pofunika kuti ndiyankhe, ndi chomasuka "-pointing" savomereza kuti aliyense.

anthu Bwino zoipa chabe anakulira. Nthawi zina, opanda chiyembekezo, ndi amenable kwambiri maphunziro. Ngati wamva zowawa malire a zovomerezeka ndiponso zimene amaloledwa, ndiye angathe kutenga ndithu bwenzi labwino.