Aha, ukwati izi! Kodi kukumana ndi mtanda wa angolowa kumene m'banja

Pokonzekera ukwati nthawi zonse mafunso ambiri amene poyamba anakumana chabe analibe. Ndi nthawi wapadera kwa zaka zambiri n'zogwirizana ndi osiyanasiyana zizindikiro, miyambo, miyambo, zikhulupiriro ndi malamulo. Apa Mwachitsanzo, kukakomana ndi mtanda wa angolowa kumene m'banja? Kapena mmene kudyetsa izo? Angakhale angapo.

Choyamba, makolo kapena monga banja achitsikana kukumana pachipata (kupatula, ndithudi, pali malo oterowo) kapena kale mu holo, umene mwamantha phwando. Pankhaniyi, mayi mkwatibwi ayenera kuwaza ndi mbewu ochepa ndi kunena mawu mwambo kuti akudzuka rye limaimira mtundu wabwino ndi wochezeka angapo. Pambali ake, mayi mkwati kumapangitsa mkate okonzeka komanso kuti mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ndi kuchiyesa ndi mchere, ndi amene zambiri chidutswa cha kuluma, izo mwamantha mu nyumba m'tsogolo. Pankhaniyi, kulekana kwa chakudya ndi kufanizira kusankha anzake a milandu onse m'tsogolo, ndi inseparability chimwemwe ndi chisoni.

Tinakumana ndi mkate wamng'ono, mawu amene amadziwikanso anasankha pasadakhale, chimatha ndi kusiya zidutswa za mkate ndi akusunsa nawo mchere, ndipo anadya. Ndipo mkwati ndi mkwatibwi kudyetsa mzake. Pambuyo pa zimenezi, mayi Mkwatibwi akufuna iwo pamodzi ndi moyo wachimwemwe.

Pali njira ina mmene kukumana ndi mtanda wa angolowa kumene m'banja. mayi a mkwatibwi zikuchoka kulankhula yaitali, anayamikira ana ndi chiyambi cha moyo watsopano, ndi pa kopanda wa njira zatsopano ukazipereke ndi mkate - chizindikiro chachikulu cha chuma ndi chitukuko m'banja. Young mwatsopano kapena kusiya zidutswa ndi amachitirana kapena mzake mchere mkate, ndiye kuluma wake. Mkate ngakhale kumwa chakumwa, kenako magalasi, akuponyera paphewa lake lakumanzere, unagwa pansi - kuti zabwino zonse. Pankhaniyi, makolo komanso kudziwa mmene kukumana ndi kudzalulutira ndi mkate, chifukwa tili ndi kuchita nawo kanthu: iwo ndi yaifupi, koma moyo zimene zofuna za achinyamata. Ndiye mkwati ndi mkwatibwi kudula riboni ndi mipira, mipira akumasulidwa, timamvetsera mayi Mkwatibwi. Akumaliza mwambo ulaliki wa mayi mwamuna m'tsogolo. Tsopano, onse anasonkhana mwamtendere unachitikira ndinkakonda lapansi. Young wokonzeka kuchita Zabwino ndi mphatso.

Kodi kukumana kwa angolowa kumene m'banja ndi mkate ngati mukufuna chete zakumwa? Kuti tichite zimenezi, mukhoza kulumikiza miyeso iwiri ya makolo. Iwo osati kubweretsa mkate ndi mchere (a chizindikiro cha alemere bwino), komanso magalasi a shampeni (a chizindikiro cha moyo wangwiro ndi wokoma wa achinyamata), ndi maluwa (kukongola ndi chikondi cha ubale). Ngakhale makolo angachite kuyatsa makandulo kuunikira.

Kodi kukumana ndi mtanda wa angolowa kumene m'banja, kuti zonse zinali zosangalatsa osati kotero ceremoniously? Wokongola losavuta: kuwonjezera Kasupe wa maroketi ndi firecrackers, awiri pamakhala shawa maluwa (zambiri anatengedwa maluwa) kapena confetti yatcheredwa msewu muzitha ndalama wamng'ono, maswiti kapena mbewu (zambiri mpunga). Mukhozanso kukonza mayesero ndi mpikisano, komanso kufunsa onse a mafunso. Mayankho amene angolowa kumene m'banja kusonyeza yakwana kuti banja ndi chidziwitso cha wina ndi mnzake. Pambuyo pake, mkwati amatenga wokondedwa wake m'manja mwake. Alendo angathandize mayankho ndipo kutenga nawo mbali pa zonse.