Wokongola zofuna za latsopanolo m'mawu awoawo

Ukwati - Tsikuli imene angolowa kumene m'banja kuthana mazana moni phokoso. Pa tsiku izi alendo kuti lilemekezeke kunena angapo mawu ndi mafuno abwino kwa latsopanolo kunena m'mawu anuanu. Zokhumba malemba, komanso tanthauzo siyana. Kotero, ndi zosangalatsa mawu otsanzikana angamvele achibale, anzake ndi alendo?

Zabwino zonse: kumene ndi mmene

Monga ulamuliro, Zabwino zonse ndi okoma ndi mawu olimbikitsa wopita kwa ngwazi za mwambowu. Iwo akhoza kukhala a chikhalidwe mwangwiro nkhani ndi kulankhulidwa mokweza. Amagwiritsidwanso atalembedwa Baibulo Zabwino chizindikiro chakuti khadi kapena khadi moni.

Wokongola mawu - zofuna za banja, inu mukhoza mwina kulemba panokha Mwachitsanzo, mu vesi kapena wokonzeka kubwereka. Iwo akhoza kukhala mu vesi ndi prose muli apamaliro kapena zoseketsa chibwana. Mwachidule, mu kulankhula kutsanzikana latsopanolo kuti muyenera kuika mtima wanu wonse, maganizo ndi malingaliro abwino.

Anatenga akufuna kwa achinyamata?

Kuwonjezera Zabwino Agiriki ndi zofuna mabwenzi, anansi, abwenzi, akusukulu kusukulu ndi anzake, mawu okoma ndiwo makolo achinyamata. Ndipo, ndithudi, amene iwo anaika pyakufunika. Tikupereka inu zingapo zimene mungachite kuti angolowa kumene m'banja makolo asiyane.

Amafuna kuti latsopanolo kwa makolo a mkwatibwi

Kukumbukira ziziwayendera angolowa kumene m'banja m'mawu awoawo, osanenapo kulekanitsa mawu makolo. Mwachitsanzo, mayi a mkwatibwi akhoza kunena mawu awa: "Mwanawe - ichi ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa moyo wanga. Ine namuwutsa chisoni ndi chimwemwe, chimateteza ku zoipa zonse ndi lowopsya, wokondedwa ndi osangalatsa. Tsopano iye ndi Mkwatibwi. Ndakomerwa kwambiri kuti adzakhala wotsatira kupita munthu uyu zodabwitsa moyo. Ine ndikuyembekeza kuti iye, monga ine, adzamkonda iye, muziona ndi kuteteza. Ine ndikukhumba inu chimwemwe ndi chitukuko. "

Pofuna kwa achinyamata ndi atate Mkwatibwi

Nayenso bambo mkwatibwi akhoza kumuuza za moni otsatirawa: "Pa tsiku lapaderali, ine ndikukhumba achinyamata kukhala ndi moyo wautali ndi wosangalala pamene tikukhala ndi mayi anga. chikondi makolo athu chosaneneka. Timakukondani ndipo pamene inu mwabadwa, kenako, pamene iwo alingalira kulenga banja lawo. Koma ife ndimakukonda kwambiri ngati kutipatsa adzukulu. Ubwino, chimwemwe ndi ana ena. " zofuna amenewa angolowa kumene m'banja mwa mawu anu, inu mukhoza kunena ndi kuchita.

Potsanzikana kwa mkwati ndi mayi Mkwatibwi

Komanso, amayi a mkwatibwi akhoza kupereka mawu asiyane osati onse a latsopanolo, koma okha mkwatibwi. Mwachitsanzo, akhoza kunena izi: "Kuyang'ana mwana wakeyu chilamulo, ndimakumbuka momwe mphamvu zambiri ndi thanzi la mwamuna wanga ntchito pa maphunziro a mwana wathu. Tsopano iye ndi kusiya nyumba athu ndipo amapita kwa kusambira lotseguka. Kumusamalira. Ndikuyamikira izo. Kuvala pa manja anu. Kupereka mphatso ndi kutamandidwa. Tiyerekeze kuti nyumba yanu nthawi zonse ndi mtendere ndi chifundo. Kumpsompsona! ".

Awa ndi zofuna za latsopanolo anganene mu mawu awo. Ngati akutsanzikana ndi makolo kwenikweni kumva, osati tsiku la ukwati, komanso pa tsiku kapena tsiku la kubadwa kwa mwana wanu woyamba.

Moni mawu mkwatibwi kwa bambo a mkwati

"Lero ndi tsiku losangalatsa kwambiri pa moyo wanga, chifukwa ndinali mwana wina. Ndakomerwa kuulandira mtima wake waukulu bambo ndi kukonzekera naye ngati mwana wake. Timayamikira ndi luntha ndi kukoma mtima. Tiyeni banja lanu nthawi akulamulira chikhalidwe cha kukoma mtima, chikondi ndi ulemu. Kondanani wina ndi mzake ndi kusaiwala kukaona makolo awo. "

Monga mukuonera, zinali zofuna za latsopanolo makolo a mkazi. M'mawu anuanu, mukhoza kuziloweza pamtima kapena kusiya zoyambirira,-ali. Tsopano tikambirana mawu a Zabwino makolo a mkwati.

mawu abwino kwa makolo a angolowa kumene m'banja mkwatibwi

"A zambiri mwayi kwa mayi aliyense - kubadwa kwa mwana wake" - ndi awa mawu a moni akhoza kuzigwiritsa ntchito mayi wa angolowa kumene m'banja mkwati. Ndipo kuti: "Ndi wosangalala amakhala mayi pamene mwana wake kumeneko banja yekha. Tsopano ndili ndi mwana wina. Choncho, Ine ndikukhumba inu m'tsogolo ndi moyo wautali ndi wosangalala. Ndipo Chofunika, kuti mukwaniritse nthawi imene ana anu eni banja. Zabwino, kuleza mtima ndi luntha. "

Apa ndi banja cholakalaka akumva. M'mawu awo akhoza kunena mayi kapena bambo wa mkwatibwi (Mkwatibwi). bambo a mkwati angathe kunena mawu otsatirawa: "Pa moyo wa chikondi munthu wina aliyense ayenera kufunga ndiponso yabata. Ndipo ngati izi zonse zidzakhala izo, ndiye iye adzakhala moyo wake pachabe. Koma palibe m'modzi adzawona kusiya njira ngati sapita mpikisano. Kotero ine ndikufuna ndikukhumba inu zotsatirazi: The phindu ndi kusangalala mzake. Kulemekeza makolo anu ndi kusaiwala kutseka. Tiyeni chifukwa cha banja bwino adzakhala ana anu ndi adzukulu athu. "

maganizo mawu mabwenzi achinyamata

Kuwonjezera mawu abwino a makolo, ziziwayendera angolowa kumene m'banja kunena, monga ulamuliro, anaitana alendo ukwati. Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kumva moni zotsatirazi ndi anzake a mkwati kuti: "Tikudziwa inu (dzina mkwati) monga odalirika ndi bwenzi wabwino. Inu sizinalepherepo konse akamuthandize m'nthawi yovuta. Tikukhulupirira kuti simusintha atakwatirana. Tidzakhala kachiwiri amasonkhana mu timu amuna pafupi ndi, akusewera mpira, kusewera ma biliyadi ndi kukambirana posachedwapa. Khalani ndi moyo, komanso ngati kuli chimodzimodzi atithandize, momwe mudali ife. Kumpsompsona! ".

Kapenanso, mungathe kumva maganizo ena kuti ukwati angolowa kumene m'banja. Aphunzitseni m'mawu anuanu kapena kuwonjezera zinthu zatsopano, kenako asiyane mawu anu tikhale ndi tanthauzo latsopano. Mwachitsanzo, ichi: "Okondedwa angolowa kumene m'banja! msonkhano wanu watumidwa kwa inu kuchokera kumwamba. Pamene inu koyamba mzake, kwayala angelo akuimba mu mzinda wakumwamba. Tiyeni konse mawu awo sanalekere ndi moyo pamodzi nthawi zonse kumveka mtima wanu wabwino ndi wokoma mtima. "

Nice mawu zofuna kwa anzake

Pamene nthawi ifika, abwenzi kuntchito anganene maganizo anu okongola. Mwachitsanzo: "Okondedwa alendo ndi amene angolowa kumene m'banja! mnzake wathu ulemerero ndi wanzeru potsiriza tinakwatirana. Ndi ichi, ife kudzamuthokoza inu. Ndi mu gulu lathu pa yoyamba ndi ochepa. Inu ndinu woona ndi odalirika okondedwa ndi tanthauzo lalikulu la nthabwala. Tikufuna inu ndi akazi anu latsopano lililonse bwino moyo wake, chikondi ndi kupambana, chitukuko ntchito, komanso kuwonjezera oyambirira banja lanu. "

Pafupifupi yomweyo yosavuta wokongola kutsanzikana ndimakhoza kumva angapo. Pofuna mawu ake, mu nkhani iyi tikhoza kulankhula mu prose ndi vesi.

Ngati mmodzi wa akazi a - mutu, ndiye Zabwino pa tsiku la ukwati wa ogwira ntchito yake idzakhala motere: "Wokondedwa (dzina loyamba ndi mkulu patronymic)! Tikusangalala kwambiri kudzamuthokoza inu pa mphindi limeneli ndi zosangalatsa moyo wanu. Timayamikira inu ndi ulemu. Inu monga wotsogolera, munthu wodabwitsa, bwenzi ndi mnzanu wapamtima. Tikufuna inu ndi akazi anu osangalala, zabwino zonse tinkachita anu onse, chimwemwe, kumvana ndi njira anzake mosavuta ndi mapangano mgwirizano yaitali. Osati kanthu iwo kuti kwanu - Nyumbayi wanu ndi kumbuyo. Tiyeni kunyumba kwanu malo enieni yopuma, kumene mudzakhala okondwa ntchito yotopetsa. Kumpsompsona! ".

Ndikukhumba ndi kudzalulutira mu mawu awo (lalifupi Baibulo)

Nthawi zina zofuna za alendo ndi makolo awo zikuimira. mawu awa akutsanzikana, amakonda kukhala achidule kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo: "Ndikufuna ndikukhumba inu moyo tsiku lililonse pamodzi anadzazidwa ndi mphindi wokongola, kubweretsa chimwemwe ndi mwayi. Chikondi, chimwemwe, chikondi timakhala ndi mgwirizano mu banja lanu! ".

"Pa tsiku lodabwitsa ili, timasangalala kudzamuthokoza inu pa tsiku la ukwati wanu! Chikondi ndi ulemu kwa wina ndi mzake. Musati muphonye mphindi zodabwitsa ndi kupereka yaing'ono zisangalalo tsiku. Tiyeni kumwetulira konse mwa anthu anu, ndi maso kwanu ndi chimwemwe ndi kukoma mtima. "

"Pa tsiku la ukwati wanu, ine ndinganene kwambiri za mawu abwino, koma ine ndikuwopa kuti sadzakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira. Choncho ndizinena mwachidule: tiyeni banja lanu lidzakhala lokongola monga mkwatibwi; otsekemera monga mkate uwu, ndi osasamala mofanana ana akusewera pabwalo. "

Pafupifupi mawu asiyane ndi mafuno latsopanolo pa ukwati m'mawu anuanu akhoza kundiuza aliyense. Chinthu chachikulu - kuganiza pasadakhale mutu wanu ndi Mlengi amene Yeniyeni.