Umayenda - chikole cha mtendere

Umayenda - Mbali zenizeni za mphamvu zandale. Ndi mtundu wa chithandizo ndiponso kuzindikira kumbali yake, boma la bolodi kapena nyumba payekha.

Chiyambi cha "umayenda" wa lingaliro, uchokera kwa mawu Latin "kumbali". Koma awiriwa si n'chimodzimodzi. mphamvu za ndale si nthawi zonse zochokera malamulo, koma thandizo la munthu kapena mbali ina ya anthu ndi zopezeka. Si malamulo ndipo sanali malamulo, potengera malamulo, mtundu wa boma. Mphamvu imodzi ndi malamulo, koma osati yololeka kapena yovomerezeka koma osati malamulo. Njira yabwino - ndi pamene mphamvu ndi malamulo, ndi achilungamo.

Kutheka legitimizing kwambiri takambirana mu mbiri ya ganizo ndale. Asayansi ena amakhulupirira kuti boma kuti chifukwa mfundo chilengedwe ndi maloto amene amalola kuti anthu kufotokoza thandizo lawo.

Pa nthawi yomweyo asayansi ena kukangana kuti izi mfundo zofanana m'dziko segmented kulibe, kotero boma lovomerezeka sindingakhoze.

Gululi ziphunzitso contractual ndikukhulupirira kuti umayenda - mfundo imene ili yokhazikika pa kumvetsetsa nzika za zolinga ndi mfundo.

E. Burke anasankha mwa lingaliro ili mbali ongolankhula ndi zothandiza, ndi kuona yekha poyerekezera ndi ulamuliro uliwonse. Iye anakhulupirira kuti chizolowezi ndi zinachitikira zabwino kwa nzika angalimbikitse yopanga chifaniziro cha boma kuti akhoza kukwaniritsa zofuna zonse wene ndi thandizo zonse.

Pakali pano, amaganiza kuti umayenda - ndi thandizo la akuluakulu, ozikidwa pa anthu atatu: anthu, boma ndi mabungwe akunja. Iwo ali magwero ake. Poyerekeza ndi anthu umayenda - ndi thandizo la anthu ambiri. Ndi zoona, ndi cholinga wokondedwa wa onse zipani, kukwaniritsa okhoza kuonetsetsa polojekiti ndiponso mtendere wa boma. The umayenda ndi kumbali ya boma kuno alibe chochita. Mtima wabwino wa anthu akhoza kupangidwa pa maziko a mavuto alionse amene ali pa chidwi anthu. Koma negativity akhoza kupanga zinthu Boma osauka ndi dzuwa otsika.

Nthawi zambiri umayenda amasankha anapanga boma, nyumba ndale kuti alimbikitse misa chikumbumtima kupereka mlingo zabwino boma panopa. The zosavuta ndi nyumba osankhika kuthandiza chikhulupiriro cha anthu mu optimality za moyo wa zinthu, ndi apamwamba zigoli poyerekezera ndi mphamvu.

Udindo chomwecho angachichite kunja malo zandale: mabungwe mayiko ndi maiko wochezeka. Mtundu wa akupeza umayenda kawirikawiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito pa mpikisanowu. Izi chodabwitsa wosakhazikika, mwina zosiyanasiyana kwambiri. Chifukwa cha kuchepa mwamphamvu kumachitika vuto la umayenda. zodabwitsazi amaganizira ndi destabilization a boma, ndiye kulephera kwake kugwiritsa ntchito zake, ntchito chiwawa, nkhondo, kupanda kusinthasintha kwa ndale, ndi kuphwanya ufulu wa malamulo.