Ndi khalidwe osokoneza Kodi

Khalidwe osokoneza kumafuna kunyamuka aliyense ku khalidwe yachibadwa sadziwa. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa mitundu ya makhalidwe achionongeko ayi, imene munthu, chifukwa boma maganizo, anachoka ku chowonadi. M'Chingerezi, mawu otanthauza za propensity ndi chizolowezi. Ndi mawu ena - kudalira anthu pa zosowa zosiyana.

Khalidwe osokoneza ali kungasokoneze munthu, pa Koyamba, nkhani ya makhalidwe yozungulira ndi mtundu wa chikwaniritso mu chitetezo bwino yonyenga. Koma pa nthawi ino ndi ubale akhoza kukhala wamphamvu, potero kwathunthu kuphimba malingaliro ake onse ndi kukhala nawo. M'mawu ena, pamene osokoneza khalidwe munthu amakhala osatetezeka ndipo yozungulira, ku zina simungathe ndithu kupewa zizolowezi za.

Mmenemonso, anthu kusintha cholinga cha zizolowezi zawo, iwo akuyesera kuti apeze njira ya moyo kuti kukwana iye. Kodi akutulukira khalidwe osokoneza? Kuti tiyankhe funso limeneli m'pofunika kudziwa zimene zimayambitsa khalidwe osokoneza. Munthu aliyense amachitira mosiyana kusintha kunja ndi mkati. wosangalala zikusintha, pali zododometsa ndi mavuto. Ndipo apa iwo amayamba kutuluka khalidwe kuwasiya, pamene anthu sangathe kulimbana ndi mmene alili zawo ndi zolephera.

Mu njira ina akhoza anafotokoza motere. Man, simukhala lomwe choncho amafuna ndi zimene anali wofunitsitsa, wakhumudwa. Anthu amene sachedwa khalidwe kuwasiya, kupirira zopsinja ndi zopweteka kwambiri, koma nthawi yomweyo kuchokera mavuto awo mwa kuika maganizo pa mfundo zina. Koma vuto lenileni, pali latsopano, ndi yozungulira munthu, sangathe kulimbana nawo iwo kachiwiri kuchokera zoipa izi. Zonsezi kenako amakhala ndi chizolowezi, ndipo ndi chitsanzo mwachizolowezi mu moyo.

Motero, khalidwe osokoneza amadalira nkhani yeniyeni ya zinthu zimene zingakhale mu embodiments zosiyanasiyana:

- mankhwala kudalira anthu ena, amasonyeza mankhwala ozunguza bongo, mowa ndi mankhwala;

- chakudya mwauchidakwa, lomwe ndi njala kapena kudya;

- Otchova njuga, munthu nthawi zonse wosowa njuga ndi kompyuta masewera;

- lokonda kugonana;

- kugwira ntchito mosalekeza ndi nyimbo.

Zonsezi si mndandanda wonse wa zinthu pa zomwe anthu akhoza zimadalira imagwira chikhalidwe ndi moyipa kumasintha chizindikiro kwambiri.

Pofuna kukhala odalira pa chilichonse, m'pofunika kuti kuganizira zizolowezi zawo, kupezeka maphunziro ofotokoza khalidwe kudzudzula awo ndi kusintha. Nthawi zonse kukhala ndi kukuza M'maso mwawo.

Nthawi zina kusokonezedwa ndi khalidwe osokoneza zosayenera, koma pali kusiyana kwakukulu kwambiri. Mbali yoyamba munthu kuti fixate pa zizolowezi zawo, ndi chimake chachiwiri mlandu maganizo akhoza kusokoneza chitukuko chachikulu ubongo zomwe ndiye kumabweretsa kupulupudza. Zosayenera khalidwe - kusonyeza matenda a ubongo amene angasonyeze mu mawonekedwe a mokwiya anthu ena kapena, Tikawonetsetsa monga kutsekedwa a. Koma Mulimonsemo m'pofunika kulimbana, m'pofunika kuona katswiri ndipo linakhala konzanso chithandizo. njira yamakono ya mankhwala kwathunthu kupereka ukutitsimikizira othamanga kuchira.

Komanso, musati kusokoneza co-kudalira ndi khalidwe osokoneza. Codependency akadali osauka kuyambira ndili wamng'ono, pamene mwana akutembenukira zaka 2, pa nthawi amayamba kufufuza dziko ndi wokhumba ufulu, ngati otetezeka. Koma akuluakulu akhoza kukhala khalidwe codependent amayamba chifukwa chakuti munthu ali ndi kusadzidalira, amadalira anthu ena, zonse amafuna kuvomerezedwa ndi sakhulupirira mphamvu zawo.

Pa nkhani iliyonse amafuna machenjerero yake ndi njira yake ya chithandizo, chifukwa aliyense nthenda khalidwe la munthu nthawi zonse n'kukhala wabwinobwino, inu muyenera kupita kwa izo.