Monga ubwenzi kuganizira bwino pa moyo wanu

Mu moyo wa aliyense ubwenzi anthu akuchita zofunika zosachepera kudziletsa kukwaniritsidwa kapena bwino ntchito. Nkofunika kwambiri kudziwa kuti penapake pali anthu amene amazindikira ndi kukukondani, adzavomereza nthawi iliyonse ndiponso thandizo. Koma tiyenera kukumbukira kuti kuti apeze anzake apamtima ayenera kukhala mu malo oyamba yokha.

Kodi tikudziwa bwanji kuti abwenzi?

Kodi inu mukuona anzanu? Tiyerekeze kuti Loweruka usiku ndi dzina lanu abwere kudzandichezera kwa pitsa anthu amene ali ofunika kwambiri kwa inu. Ambiri akukumana ndi vuto la kusankha: Pali zinthu zambiri muyenera akutha kumaliza tsiku, ndipo ali ndi anzake amene simunamuone ndipo muyenera kulankhula nawo. N'chifukwa chiyani tiyenera ambiri amakana kunyalanyaza anthu? Kodi takonzekera kudza kwa thandizo monga momwe apempha ena?

Ndiuzeni, ndani anzanu ...

Mwina funso ndi amene tinaganiza kuti abwenzi. Pali anthu amene timakhala bwino ubwana ndi kuthandiza kuyankhulana, chifukwa ndi ubale zapita mipope moto, madzi ndi mkuwa, amene anapanga inu amazipanga pafupi ndi zofunika kwa wina ndi mzake. Inu nonse kumakhulupirirana zosaoneka ndi kudziwa momwe chisoni ndi kuthandizidwa. Nkofunika kusamala anzanga amenewa. Ndipotu palibe ntchito sadzatha kuti angakwaniritse zosoŵa zathu za kucheza ndi chidaliro chakuti sitili tokha.

gulu lina la anzathu - omwe timakumana nawo monga akulu mu mawu a phindu kwawo kapena dera chidwi. Nkofunika kudziwa kuti anthu amenewa sayenera "kukokera inu pansi." Mungakhale paubwenzi ndi iwo mwamphamvu, pokhapokha ngati abwenzi otero safuna kudzadalira kukhalapo kwanu zonse pamoyo wawo, ngati iwonso kukhazikitsa ndi ntchito chidwi ndi chinachake. Izi mwina mmodzi wa i wofunika kwambiri chibwenzi. Yesani anazungulira nokha ndi abwenzi amene amakulimbikitsani kuyesetsa kuti ro chikulire, kukhala bwino, kwambiri kuwerenga, zolembedwa ndi inu mu masewero olimbitsa thupi ndi kupita kukagonjetsa Everest. Kukula pamodzi kuthandizana wina ndi mzake.

Nkofunika nthawi zina kuganizira amene ali pafupi ndi inu. Tione ngati inu wokhutitsidwa ndi chirichonse mu ubale wanu? Mwinamwake ndi nthawi kupereka alibe kufunika kwa inu, ndi kwa anthu amene tikungotaya nthawi yanu?