Mkazi wamatsenga ndi chizolowezi kapena chododometsa?

Nthawi ndi yomangamanga wamkulu, amatha kubwezeretsanso anthu ndi zochitika. Chimene chinali chamanyazi dzulo tsopano ndichizolowezi, ngati sichoncho chabwino. Chithunzi cha bitch yoyengedwa yomwe imadutsa mitu ndi mitima ikukulitsidwa mwakhama lero ndi gloss ndi chikhalidwe. Ngakhale kuti, mkazi wamatsenga ndizochabechabe, zopanda pake, zosokoneza.

Kusokonezeka kwachilendo

Chibadwa chodziwika ndi chikhalidwe chachilengedwe ndichilengedwe sichimalengedwa chifukwa chachinyengo, koma chisamaliro, chikondi ndi chikondi. Akazi ambiri amatha kugwedeza za kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, koma chifukwa chakuti akazi amaloledwa kuyendetsa milu, iwo sanali abwino. Polimbana ndi chikhalidwe ndi malamulo a chilengedwe chomwe simungathe kupondaponda, mwamuna ndi mkazi poyamba adakhazikitsidwa ntchito zosiyanasiyana, koma tsopano wina akufuna kuyesa katundu wina. Monga mukudziwira, pabwalo la oyandikana nawo madzi ndi madzi ndipo dzuŵa limawala. Kapena mwinamwake sankakonda kwenikweni, koma mwinamwake iwo sanasiye pa nthawi, ndipo iwo anathawa.

Ndi chinthu chimodzi pamene msungwana wopanda tsankho alibe mkhalidwe wa moyo, koma mwa mafashoni. Monga kavalidwe kosasangalatsa, koma kudula kokondweretsa. Ndinayesa, ndikulakwitsa ndikudziponya pa mezzanine mpaka kukalamba, kukumbukira ndikulola zidzukulu zake zifotokoze zomwe zinachitika. Ziri zoipitsitsa pamene wamatsenga akuchokera mkati. Chifukwa ndi zopweteka, ndikumvetsa chisoni, zathyola chinachake, kwambiri kuti zikukukhumudwitsani. Monga momwe a ku China akale ananenera kuti: "Kulimbana ndi zida zankhondo, kumakhala kosavuta kwambiri." Icho chinalowetsedwa mmalo, kukhulupirira, chinakula ... Ziribe kanthu kaya, ziribe kanthu kwa ndani, koma tsopano mkaziyo akudziwa motsimikiza kuti ndizosatheka mwanjira imeneyo - ndi zopweteka ndi zovuta, kotero iye amakhala wotsutsa. Ndizitetezera, palibe china.

Maganizo a akatswiri a maganizo

Amatsenga samabwera kudziko lino. Izi ndi zomwe moyo umatipangitsa ife, kapena ife timakhala ofanana pansi pa mawilo ake. Chinthu chodziwika bwino kwambiri ndi munthu wokonda kwambiri moyo komanso wabwino, ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri iye savomereza. Zingamveke zodabwitsa, sichoncho? Komabe, ngati mumvetsetsa chinthucho, ndiye kuti zonse zimakhala zomveka komanso zomveka bwino. Pali zikhalidwe zoterezi zomwe zimachitapo kanthu mopanda chilungamo, chinyengo, kusakhulupirika - kuti wina adzadutsa, ndi wina kupyolera mwa iyeyekha.

Mkazi ndi wamatsenga - izi mosakayikira ndi chikhalidwe cholimba, kupereka mphamvu kuti awone, koma kukana. Kawirikawiri anthu oterowo amachititsa kuti anthu asamvetse bwino zachilengedwe, amakhala achisoni, amapewa, samvetsa kapena kutsutsa, koma mobwerezabwereza amakhala osangalatsa komanso osadabwitsa, komanso chifukwa cha makhalidwe omwe ali nawo. Pragmatism, yosasinthika, yowona - popanda chivundikiro chokongola cha mabodza, osayanjanitsika - mwachibadwa. Ngati malingaliro ali amoyo ndi okhwima, munthu wotereyo amanyengerera ndi kubwezera nthawi yomweyo, kumbukirani chimodzimodzi Dr. House. Kulingalira pambali pa kuzindikira ndi choonadi chosadziwika. Anthu ambiri amamva, koma ndizosafunika kulankhula. Mutha kuganiza, mobisa, mobisa, koma mofuula ... Chigoba, chovala kale, chitha kukula kwamuyaya. Komanso zingakhale zabwino kuziyang'ana. Chidwi, choti muchite. Ndikufuna kutembenuza nkhandwe ku galu yonama pamoto, kotero kuti izi zinali zosiyana ndi inu, ndithudi, popanda masewera, opanda zida, popanda zida. Makarenko wamkulu wa theka ndi theka ndi Maslow amakhala m'mitima ya ambiri. Ndipo inu mukhoza kuyika chigoba ichi pa inu nokha ndikuyang'ana dziko kuchokera kumbali iyi ...