Mkazi pa Usodzi wa

"Mkazi anadzuka pa hafu pasiti firii mmawa ndipo mwakachetechete ,, kudzuka pabedi kuti tisasokoneze mwamuna wake kugona. Ulendo wake ku holo ndipo anapita kwa ataima zida pakhomo. Ndi zosangalatsa zosaneneka izo kudula mzere, kuswa pa zoyandama ndipo akuswa ndodo Ndiyeno, monga mwakachetechete mkaziyo anabwerera bedi ndi kumwetulira osangalala pa milomo mokoma tulo ... moyo izo zinali ndendende theka la ola. "
Kodi kukhala malo amenewa? Ine ndinaganiza za nkhaniyi ndipo anazindikira kuti akazi athu kudana ndi chokhumba chathu, ndipo, mu lingaliro langa, zimenezi n'zomveka. Nsomba ngati mdani, pamafunika akazi athu amuna awo amene amadzipereka awo osowa mlungu chizolowezi, kunyalanyaza moto banja. Komanso, nthawi zambiri fisherwomen wathu pochokera nsomba popanda muphe nsomba, koma "pa nyanga", ngati si mu manja a anzakewo. Ndithudi, izi ayi umachititsa chikondi cha chokhumba chathu ndi inu. Koma gawo la mikango asodzi sanayenere malingaliro ngati banja, akuyesetsa kuti nsomba kuti kumasuka kuchokera ku mzinda fumbi, kubwezeretsa misempha ndipo amatchedwa "kulankhula ndi chikhalidwe." Ndipo kukula kwa nsomba mu udindo uwu pambuyo, monga chiyenera kukhalira, koma akazi nkhani zoterozo sawalola, chifukwa n'zosatheka kufotokoza kuti munthu amene inu muyenera kuti nokha kumvetsa ndi kuvomereza. Monga inu kale anazindikira kuti asiye mkwiyo wa akazi athu kukhala pafupi ndi iwo kawirikawiri, Ine akamufunsirire kuiitana kupita kukawedza, kukaweza nawo, anapotoloka, ngati osowa maholide mlungu moyo, kupanga osangalala.
Yambani ndi mfundo yakuti iye anamupatsa "dzina," nyambo, Inde chaka choyamba, kophweka ndi m'malo lalifupi, kuikamo chabe kuti panalibe chithunzithunzi mu zinthu zimene amafuna kanthu patsogolo ndi luso. Komanso, kuonedwa woyamba nsomba mafupa, kumene inu Mosakayikira sangathe kugwira nsomba kwambiri chifukwa mudzakhala nthawi zonse amatengeka ndi kuphunzira ndale za nsomba amachepetsa anu ndipo, ndithudi, thandizo thupi. Kodi kutenga zinthu zina zimene mkazi kwa nthawi yoyamba osati pansi mphamvu kapena kungoti zosasangalatsa (bwino mwatengapo mfundo). Ndiyeno inu, pamodzi ndi mkazi wake kumva chimwemwe kuti nsomba wake woyamba, kumene waukulu umene iye ndiye, malamulo onse nsomba, dziwitsani anzanu. Ndipo ngati inu mufika theka wanu zina chikhalidwe, khulupirira Ine, poyamba nsomba kunyanja Mulimonsemo sadzakhala otsiriza, nthawizonse adzakhala ali wachiwiri, ndi wachitatu anthu ndi wotsatira.
Ndiyeno ine ndikuganiza mkazi wanu akufuna kukawedza m'nyengo yozizira, ndi nthawi idzafika pamene inu mungokhala wovuta kupita kukawedza popanda izo. Ndili ndi kukhala zitsanzo choncho ine ndikuganiza.
Kumene, pali maganizo olakwika, "mkazi m'chombocho", pali mwayi wina kwa ena rybolovov- anansi dziwe khalidwe wapamtima (apa, nawonso, bwino chimene ine ndikutanthauza), koma ndi zinthu zonse zazing'ono ndi chidwi inu sadzatero. Monga kukonzekera chakuti zinthu zina pa ulendo nsomba inu muyenera kuchita kuti anthu awiri moyo, koma izo zangokhala zabwino kwa mwamuna wachikondi aliyense chiyani mkazi wake zonse mayiko zake zosangalatsa.
Malinga ndi kuyang'anila wanga, chiwerengero cha akazi ndi nsomba ndodo mu matupi madzi nthawi zonse kukula, ndipo nthawi zambiri limodzi ndi amuna. Zimenezi amasangalala, zabwino kuonera mabanja izi, ndi kukhala woonamtima, pali nsanje. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti akazi asodzi a tikulirepo kuposa amuna awo nsomba ndipo chikutanthauza kwadzaoneni mumangire. Ine pofotokoza mfundo izi kusiyana chilengedwe cha akazi ku amuna, ndi mu molondola, khama ndi mosamalitsa. Ichi sichichitika kutali ndi abambo ndi amayi osati katemera, kotero ine izo monga zoona, koma ine basi monga ena, nthawi zonse kunathandiza ku mayesero watsopano, ndipo, ngati paradoxical mmene zingamvekere, pakuphunzitsa amayi. Kwinakwake ndinamva maganizo nsomba "kumeneko, kumapeto," amatha kusiyanitsa amuna ndi akazi, ndipo malinga ndi mfundo za kuluma zotsutsana. Ndine safuna kuti akhulupirire izo, ngati chifukwa, mu kudzadzipeza wanga mofanana palinso amuna ndi akazi. Mwachidule, ndikufuna kunena basi zomwe kamasonyeza "banja" usodzi munthu ayenera kukonzekera chakuti panthawi ina mkazi wake wayamba nsomba ndi nkhondo Championship adzakhala chabe wopanda pake. M'pofunika kuti athe kubweretsa ndekha kukhala okondwa chifukwa cha mnzake, thanzi chifukwa cha chipambano cha maphunziro anu, chabwino, mtendere mumtima mwanu kuti akambirane nsomba pa "wake" ndi "iye".
Polongosola mwachidule, ine ndikufuna kunena kuti chifukwa nsomba olowa Inu mudzamvetsa mzimu umodzi wapfuko limodzi mu nkhope ya mkazi wake, tidzapewa zifukwa zimenezi kupusa kwa kujombajomba nsomba monga "mkazi alibe apite", kulimbikitsa banja , ndipo adzalandira zosangalatsa kuwirikiza kawiri pamaso pa nambala ya wokondedwa.