Miyambo zolankhula. zitsanzo

Iwo ukutchulidwa kwambiri mu moyo wa munthu masiku ano. Kupyolera mu chinenero, Tingayanjane ndi mzake, kuphunzira kudziwa maganizo a munthu, zolinga zake ndi maganizo a dziko. Miyambo zolankhula kwathunthu kuonetsa maganizo a anthu Russian, ubwenzi miyambo imeneyo ndi chikhalidwe. Kutsindika chachikulu ndi nthawi luso la kumvetsera, kumvetsa gwero akhoza kuthandiza kwambiri, choncho, chinachake kwa anthu wonse.

miyambi Russian zolankhula wodzazidwa ndi kuya ndipo ndi subtext maganizo. Chiganizo ingagwiritsidwe ntchito m'moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku.

"Zokamba ngati uchi, ndi zinthu monga chowawa"

Izi amatanthauza mfundo zomwe anthu kuponya mawu mphepo lomwe. Osayenera mawu, analankhula amangotchula, sangathe kubweretsa phindu, musati bwanji mtima munthu winayo, sakhoza kukhala kuthandiza kwambiri kwa iye. Anthu okhala m'dziko m'banda kuphunzira dissemble ndi udindo pamaso pa anthu. Munthu atha kulankhula mu kulankhula munthu wachikondi, kukhala waulemu ndi waubwenzi, koma kuti maso kusonyeza kuzizira ndipo aloofness. Anthu ambiri sadziwa kuti zimene amaona ndi kuganiza pa nthawiyo. Nthawi zambiri maganizo awo ali owawa ngati kuwazungulira ankadziwa angakane kucheza ndi anthu awa.

Mu moyo wathu, kudzipereka kotero pang'ono, ndipo onse chifukwa ndife zambiri sangathe kukhala mokwanira zoona. Ana amaphunzirira maganizo sukulu ndi osamawauza kuti chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa moyo - ndicho kukhala payekha awo. maphunziro maganizo kwathunthu pa mapewa a mabanja. Ndipo mmene moona kukhuta pang'ono anthu! Miyambo ya kulankhula zingatithandize kumvetsa zodabwitsazi.

"Red kumva"

Nkofunika kwambiri kuti athe kunena mawu okongola, momwe mukumvetsera mdani wanu. Chete - chinthu chachikulu. Nato chisoni kumva amalola yeni bwino pa nkhani mawu, kufika chidziwitso, kubwera kwa ena pangano. Koma momwe anthu ochepa kwenikweni kumvetsera ku interlocutors wake! anthu ambiri amafuna iye yekha kuthera nthawi ndi mokwanira, pamene iwo eni okha safuna kuti aganyali ubale wa anthu. Miyambo ndi mawu a mawu sakanakhoza kukhala bwino kutsindika Mbali imeneyi.

"Ndi bwino sitinazione, kodi kulankhula"

Nthawizina ife mwina mosadziŵa kukhumudwitsa munthu tseka yekha mosadziwa mawu. Muyenera kudziwa kuti si nthawi zonse zofunikira kulankhula wamaliseche choonadi mwachindunji. Nthawi zina zothandiza kuti chamumtima, ngati ntchito zabwino. Chokhacho, zimene maganizo tingamangire alipidwa kumva mawu.

Anthu ena osati zindikirani okhumudwitsa interlocutor wake n'kupita naye ku mkhalidwe bwino mumtima. Miyambo zolankhula muli ndi nzeru za zaka mazana ambiri wowerengeka, m'chidziwitso chawo merges ndi mfundo wokhalitsa anthu. Atamufunsa muyenera kuyesera kupereka mdani monga mmene iye anawafunsa kuti: kenanso, chimodzimodzi. Mwatsoka, pang'ono okonzeka kwenikweni kutenga katundu. Ambiri kutsekedwa pa otaya mphamvu ya chikondi ndi kuyamikira.

"Zokamba The timamva, ndipo mitima yawo kuona"

Anthu amakonda kulankhula ndi mzake umakaniko, osati kuyang'ana mkati. Ochepa okha amatha kufufuza ndi kupeza mawu a interlocutor ndi tanthauzo lamkati. Amayenera kumvetsera mawu akuti, komanso kunyamula mayendedwe a mawu, maganizo, ndi momwe iwo kutchulidwa. Ife kawirikawiri ntchito amoyowo umakaniko, sitikuchiona, ife osaganizira zimene zikuchitika ndi iwo eni.

Choncho, miyambi ndi zolankhula kutchula za chikhalidwe ndi dziko. Mothandizidwa ndi mfundo yosavuta za mibadwomibadwo ya m'mbuyomu kugawana nafe ndi sizidzatha gwero la nzeru, m'pofunika yekha kuti athe kuvomereza izo.