Kukonda - ndani izi?

Kodi inu mumawatcha munthu amene anakonda akazi ambiri? Voice omvera kuti: "Kukoma - ndi tanthauzo kuti Cholinga chake." Mwamtheradi. Tsopano tiyeni kuchita ndi anthu, kodi amuna ndi akazi ndi zimene khalidwe liti - wachikondi.

Awiri mitundu ya ubwenzi kwa mkaziyo ngati chinthu ndi monga phunziro

Pamaso mitundu yonse kujambula zimene amorous (timvetsetsa mtsogolo pang'ono), tiyenera kupanga ndemanga methodological.

Erich Fromm analemba ntchito yodabwitsa, "Kodi kapena Kukhala" (1976). ake mfundo lonse ndi anthu mukugwirizana ndi dziko ndi anthu ena, zochokera awiri machitidwe lotsutsa maganizo. Mu chapansi pa imodzi - kuganizira chuma, pamene dziko ndi anthu ena ndi zinthu kuoneka yekha zipangizo kuti tikwaniritse zolinga zawo wa munthu. The ena kumaphatikizapo mayikidwe ndi kukhala, pamene zinthu zonse za dziko amaona ngati mnzawo zonse. Theoretically, zosiyana ndi losavuta: chimodzi zoyendetsedwa ndi chikondi ( "kukhala"), pamene ena akungofuna kuti zilamulire ndi kulandira ( "kuti"). Onyamula kofunika kudziwa ongolankhula, timafika yankho ku funso la kukoma - Ndani uyu?

Henk Mudi chitsanzo cha munthu amene amakonda akazi kwenikweni

A chithunzi chomveka bwino cha ngwazi za "Californication" adzakuthandizani kumvetsa anthu amene sindimakonda tanthauzo sayansi amene ndi mwamuna wachikondi. Hank akazi ambiri ndipo onse a iwo amakonda mu njira yake. Mu nyengo choyamba chimene iye ayenera kupita ku maliro a bambo ake, ndipo iye mwachizolowezi m'mafilimu amachita chokumbukira iye. Mwa zina, mwana wa momveka kumva mutu wake mawu a bambo ake: "akazi onse Ine ndinakomana, ndinkakonda. Wina zaka 10, ndipo wina Mphindi 10. " Mwina - tanthauzo bwino achikondi, amene angaperekedwe.

Nayenso Hank wokanayo kufanana kulikonse kwa bambo ake ngakhale chinachake, khalidwe njira yomweyo. Iye amakonda akazi ndithu moona mtima ndi modzipereka kupempha kanthu kenakake. Monga mukudziwa, ngwazi ya amayipidwa bambo ake zimene anapereka mayi ake. Ine ndikuganiza pambuyo siziyenera kukhala vuto, kukoma - Ndani uyu? Onse bwino. Komabe, Ndikufuna ndikuuzeni inunso za munthu ogula.

Alphonse - amene amakhala likuvutika akazi

Akuti chiwerengerochi, ngakhale satenga khalidwe la zenizeni Russian, koma nthawi zina amapezeka. Pakali pano, pamene mfundo ali osokonezeka, anthu ambiri zachikazi ndi infantile, ndipo nthawi zina amalola kuti moyo tizidalira chibwenzi, mtundu uwu abwera kudutsa ndi zambiri. Ndipo izo sizikanakhala moyipa ngati munthuyo anali amadalira akazi mavuto osiyanasiyana osati osangalatsa kwambiri kapena mikangano mwadzidzidzi moyo, koma palibe. Mwatsoka kapena mwamwayi, koma ena m'njira yopindulitsa wa moyo.

mabuku komanso amadziwa Zikatero. Mwachitsanzo tikhoza kutenga mmodzi wa atchulidwa wa nkhani AP Chekhov a "Gooseberries". Kumbukirani, pali mmodzi wa abale anakwatira mkazi wamasiye wolemera ndipo kenako anabweretsa kumanda chifukwa cha maloto ake - munda? Apa ndiye kwambiri chitsanzo cha Alphonse. Pankhaniyi, pamene ife kudzifunsa kuti: "Anthu Kukoma - izi ndi izo," yankho palibe, chifukwa chikondi apa ndipo alibe fungo.

Komano, Alfonso kungakhale yokhala kuvomereza wachikondi, koma kwa iwo ndi khalidwe la chida, ndipo mwaluso kusamalira onse maganizo awo ndi malingaliro a munthu wina.