Kodi mwetulirani munthu - akuthamanga nsonga

Pamene kupita afika zina zabwino, munthu n'kofunika kuti timvetse bwino amene Amakhala pafupi. Posankha naye banja, munthu angaganize kuti iye nawo onse chimwemwe ndi chisoni. Munthu nthawizonse kuzindikira mtsikana amene amadziwa kukhala ndi kukweza wosangalala mu nthawi yamavuto. Kodi kuchita izo molondola? Kodi mwetulirani munthu?

mawu ochepa A zimene maganizo izi

Munthu aliyense amasonyeza dziko lakunja kudzera prism wa mumtima wake "Ine" mu mawonekedwe a maganizo, kusonyeza mtima zotengera malingaliridwe kwa dziko ndi iwo eni. Instant anachita zochitika, kuchita, mwina kapena kukumbukira - ndi kutengeka: chimwemwe, chisoni, mkwiyo, chisoni. A mtima zisathe kwa nkhani yeniyeni, kuphatikizapo zamoyo - kumverera chikondi cha dziko ndi mkwiyo pa adani, ubwenzi zinthu. wosangalala ali yemweyo - khola maganizo maziko, amene si zokhudzana ndi dziko cholinga, ndi kusonyeza kugwirizana kwa zinthu moyo weniweniwo. Kodi ndingatani mwetulirani munthu ngati simukudziwa zimayambitsa mtima kudwala?

Pangakhale anthu ambiri: kupanda kukhazikitsa katswiri, kusowa ndalama, kusowa kapena kuperekedwa kwa bwenzi lapamtima aakulu. Munthuyo si nthawi zonse kuzindikira magwero a maganizo a pansi. Impact pa chifukwa ndi kufufuza ntchito ina - ichi ndi njira imodzi, ndi kuwalimbikitsa kusintha maganizo kuti vuto - winayo. Nthawi zina munthu ayenera thandizo, ndipo nthawi zina si wokonzeka kusinthana maganizo ankaona kuti apulumuke inagwa vuto. Ngati iye anachoka mu moyo wa okondedwa kwa anthu Mwachitsanzo, omwe amagwirizana ndi lokumbutsa zambiri zosangalatsa, ndipo ine ndikufuna kukhala ndekha, osati kugawana chisoni chake ndi aliyense. Pankhaniyi, chinthu chopambana muyenera kuchita ndi - kumulola kukhala pa nthawi nokha.

Kodi mwetulirani munthu pa msonkhano: zolakwa wamba

Ngati simungathe bwanji chifukwa cha kuchepa kwa maganizo, kapena ndi zosadziwika, mtsikana ayenera amamvetsa udindo wa mnyamatayo mu mtima kulankhulana zabwino ndipo ngati n'kotheka, polimbitsa chikhulupiriro chake mwa Iye yekha kugonjetsa zinthu zoopsa. Choncho musachite:

• kuthamangira ndi mafunso (a kawirikawiri munthu akufuna kuoneka olephera kutsogolo kwa mtsikana);
• Ndimadandaula (mnyamata amafuna kuti akhale wotsimikiza kuti amaona mphamvu);
• chitonthozo, popanda kufufuza zomwe zimayambitsa;
• kuyesa kukulimbikitsani pa chilichonse mtengo (kuti adzachititsa kukhumudwa);
• kukhala atanganidwa wachifundo (khalidwe zobwera kumayambitsa nkhawa);
• kupereka kuthetsa vutolo (Man muyenera kuuzira, ndi kukoka panga).

Malangizo

Pali njira zambiri zimene mungachite kuti mwetulirani mnyamata, popanda okhudza wake kudzidalira. Kuchita izi:

• nthawi moni ndi kumwetulira, kaya zinthu, kufotokoza chimwemwe zoyankhulirana;
• kaye, mwina atakhala kukhudzana chogwirika, kuti mpata kulankhula;
• ndi kusafuna kumbali yake kukhalabe kukambirana kuti ayerekeze kuti palibe chachitika, kuyesera mwanzeru pa zinthu zabwino: kupereka chidwi kwa chibwana wake, kumbukirani mphindi zosangalatsa kulankhulana munthu ntchito kukumbukira opezeka zithunzi foni nyimbo wake wokondedwa, kufunsa za zabwino zinthu kwa iye, pamene iye anali pamwamba pa zinthu;
• ngati mukufuna kugawana vuto kumvera mapeto, kusonyeza chidwi ndi chidwi, ndi chidaliro kuti iye kuthana ndi vutolo, monga amphamvu, palokha ndipo cholinga cholambira, kuitanako kuchitapo kanthu bwino udindo mawu ena, monga "Ndatsimikiza kuti tchuthi wathu inu adzapeza njira kuyanjananso ndi m'bale wake. "

Kodi kuchita chapatali

Chapatali, podziwa chibwenzi chake, iye akhoza kuona pamene iye ali mu maganizo oipa. Pa chiyambi cha ubwenzi muyenera kulabadira mwadala kukondwa, si nthawi zonse nthabwala yoyenera, mtundu kwina kupanda tsankho pa kukambirana za imfa ya ndende, pali chete kwa nthaŵi yaitali, pamene mnyamatayo amasankha mawu ake ngati. Ichi ndi chifukwa zamaganizo wamwamuna: iwo, mosiyana ndi akazi, sangathe kuchita zinthu ziwiri nthawi imodzi. Ngati iwo mtundu vuto, n'zovuta wodziwa kucheza ulusi.

Yankho la funso za momwe mwetulirani mnyamata chapatali, amadalira kwathunthu mphamvu ndi kufunitsitsa kwa akazi kuthetsa makilomita asamagwirizane. Njira - ndi kuitana kukumana kuyenda, pitani amaziona m'mafilimu kapena cafe, kungotenga kukwera kuzungulira mzindawo. Palibe amathandiza pa midzidzi ya kunentsa, monga kulankhulana ndi munthu wina. Chovomerezeka kufunsa ngati zinthu zili bwino ameneyo. Iye moona mtima kuti ngati mukufuna, ndipo ngati palibe chikhumbo chotero, leka kumphemba. M'tsogolo, iye angayamikire chosalimba chakudya chokoma.

Kodi mwetulirani munthu Cholembera

Kuopsa maganizo yaitali zoipa kuti angathe maganizo ndi, kuchititsa matenda aakulu somatic. Komabe, pali zochitika komwe mtunda ndi kofunika kwambiri kuti mtsikanayo amayenera kugwiritsa ntchito njira zina kulankhulana, monga m'makalata. Kuyendetsa zakale polemba chinenero epistolary phindu kwambiri achire, amene Mulimonsemo sitingakane: cholembedwa bwino, girlish dzanja apangidwe pepala, ena fungo sadzachitanso amaonekera. Written by dzina cholembera ndi chikondi ndi mzimu waubwenzi wapadera ndi kuthandizidwa.

M'kalata pali wodziwanso kuposa chidwi katundu - zikhoza kusungidwa. Choncho, kulemba wake ayenera kumwedwa kwambiri, kuyitana mnyamata ankafuna. Kodi mwetulirani munthu pa makalata, ngati si zabwino? Kagulu ndodo chithunzi mu malire, zomwe zikusonyeza oseketsa pang'ono amuna, emoticons, anthu awiri okha zizindikiro bwino. Chidwi ndalama mu envelopu kukumbutsa ichitikire wochitidwa ndi nthawi, kanthu kakang'ono kalikonse kuti limatiuza za maganizo kuposa mawu. Ngati munthu mu ankhondo, ndende kapena spetskomandirovke, mtsikana mugawane za moyo wake, mawunikidwe pa zochitika panopa kuti anali ndi cholinga nawo moyo wake, amene kumathandiza kuti kusintha kwa boma mkati.

Kodi tingatani ndi SMS

XXI Century - nthawi yam'manja. SMS - kupulumutsa moyo, ngakhale pamene anthu pamodzi. Kuti pakhale chisokonezo, ngati n'kovuta kupeza mawu, inu mukhoza kuzilumikiza yochepa lemba: ". Ndimamva chisoni ife kukangana" "Wokondedwa, ine ndinali kulakwitsa" kapena luso logwiritsa ntchito emoticons, zithunzi, kamphindi kapitako anapanga selfie timapitiriza kumasulira maganizo abwino. Yankho la funso za momwe mwetulirani munthu pa SMS chimadalira pa chidziwitso cha zimayambitsa mkati ululu komanso makhalidwe ake. Kwambiri, kukula m'nzeru ya munthu akhoza kukhala Yambitsaninso aphorism, kupereka kutsogolera kwa rethinking vuto, m'chikondi - mawu wokoma, akufuna kumva, koma onse mosachotsera limasonyeza nthabwala.

Anthu kuseka zinthu zosiyanasiyana: chimodzi amayamikira nthabwala wakuda ndi akana zina, safunira nthabwala zotukwana, ndi pa anthu ena amachititsa podziwa kumwetulira. Chitsanzo cha mizere chilengedwe zikhoza kukhala:

• Tsimikizani kuti mtsikana wakhomo ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala mu kukhudza, "wolembetsa anu amatumiza manambala kunena, kodi izo chifukwa ola lililonse."
• Chitsimikizo cha chilimbikitso chotilonjeza maganizo. SMS amenewa ndi zabwino kuti mungathe kukokomeza mtima weniweni, ndipo ziwoneka molondola: "Lero, nkhani banki la mtima anu kundipsompsona zikwi zitatu, mawu wachifundo, zikwi ziwiri ndi zikwi zisanu kundikumbatira. Ngati inu kuphonya ine, inu nthawi zonse kuwachotsa akaunti yanu. "
• Kuonjezera kudzidalira a mnyamata: "Hi, Ndine wanu SMS-ka ... O, manja amphamvu akugwira foni ndi maso modabwitsa wokongola akuyang'ana pa ine!".

Mwayi polankhulana pa Intaneti

Zambiri vuto la momwe mwetulirani munthu amapereka Runet. Zooneka kulankhulana pulogalamu, erasing mtunda ndi kulola kuti nthawi zina m'malo wolimba ndi mzake kuti tikhale pa ubwenzi awiriawiri, wosiyana ndi mavuto. Zilibe m'malo tionane, zimapangidwira kuti amapezeka pakati pa anyamata awiri, koma apatsa tanthauzo la ubwenzi ndi chikondi kudzera makilomita ambiri.

Yankho la funso za momwe mwetulirani munthu pa intaneti, malingana ndi mlingo wa chitukuko ubale. Pa siteji ya anachokera yoyenera olowa kuonera mumaikonda, mapulogalamu, tatifupi video, amene angathe kukatenga mtsikana pasadakhale, kusankha kwambiri mokondwera ndi zabwino, kutenga nkhani amakonda a mnyamatayo. N'zotheka kukonza kugula olowa pa sitolo online, kusankha mphatso kapena pafupi wina ndi mnzake. Chabwino nyimbo, filimu zimasonyeza okonzeka ndi mtsikana zapadera zithunzi munthu. Amuna mocheperapo kuganizira patsikuli, koma mtengo, ngati mtsikana amawapatsa mtengo, kupanga miyambo ina. Aliyense amakonda zodabwitsa, ndi Internet amapereka mwayi wawukulu kuwapatsa: mapositi khadi, kulemba pa khoma "VKontakte", mauthenga mawu ndi mphatso wokondeka kuti akhoza kukuuzani zambiri popanda mawu.